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SlaveRMneeded -> RE: Comments, please (12/30/2010 1:20:47 PM)
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Did you remember to say thank you to her for the advice? Or, did you, in a very unsubmissive manner, instead, come and post on the forum, hoping to get that lovely feeling of self righteous vindication from the comments which would point out the error of her ways - while using her ID in a post, which, last I heard, is terribly, terribly against the rules of this site and is, therefore, more proof of your hostile inability to function in a submissive capacity?
Not enough, on top of all the other comments which are in agreement with the first person's advice, to give you a clue that your profile needs to change, for your own good? Well, then, let's break it down, shall we?
Not convinced to change your profile, yet? Not even with all the comments that are rather more in favor of her viewpoint than yours? Tsk tsk. Well, let's break it down, shall we?
Hello All < -- Repugnant to many, that A/all crap. However, that is more personal choice than anything else. Just thought you should know, because I haven't known one real dominant male or female, personally (as in, in real life) who feels the arrogant need to alter the entire English language to suit their whims, yet.
- ************ UPDATE ********* < --- This, below, is not an update. An update is something NEW, such as that you have found someone, or have given up trying to find someone. This is emphasis. Which is a good reason for it to be in red if it must be, but, not actually a good reason for it to exist at all. And, the red is just drawing attention to what is really just a little outburst. Most of us have gotten frustrated and had them; not all of us have used stars and red coloring to make sure they would be noticed by all who passed by.
- I am only interested in r/t people. <-- Way to cut out EVERYONE online.
- And no one under 40 < -- Something that is between you and your bulk mail folder, and/or, which should have been specified, most politely, on your profile to begin with.
- , or not local. <--- Ditto!
- So please leave me alone, no emails or chat requests. Got it? <-- This is addressed to no one, so it includes everyone. And, everyone who is a decent person will not appreciate the insult or the petulant, arrogant attitude, them knowing they also get really stupid messages and chat requests, and they knowing they do not wish to be lumped in with the people who send them.
- I'm looking for a life partner to share various vanilla interests and other interests listed below
- . I am of a very experimental nature, so have the usual limits.
- I am d/d free and want to stay that way. Safe, sane & consensual only.
Three ' I' statements in a row, from a submissive? Not good. And, the whole tone, besides the dreadful over-use of 'I', indicates how you want to be served, not what you can do for those who wish to be served. It's not wrong to want things, but, if you are submissive, it should show in your attitude. But, we are all supposed to orient ourselves to your way of thinking and know that what is "the usual limits" for you is now law? There are no usual limits, and we should not have to beg to know what yours are - if they are important to you, affect your choice of who to serve, that is important information to give on a profile!
- I am not out in any way, outside of the vanilla activities I enjoy < ----, I have no idea what this means. If you are not in any way outside of your vanilla activities, then you are not submissive and you should be on some other site. So, I am guessing this means something else- but, what?
- the ones below are of a very private nature. < -- Isn't most everything that is posted on this site, by real people rather than bots, of a very private nature and something we are all in tacit agreement not to go bandying about throughout the free world? I don't help you lose your job, you don't help me lose mine - like that?
- Consequently I have not posted a picture, <-- And, yet, I have, and most of the other people, even the ones who are bots, have. What is a picture going to do? Do you really think anyone who is on this site knows how to find your family or co-workers and report you for being on this site? And, that, if they did, they wouldn't be in the same boat? What are they going to do - tell people while they were on some pervert site, they saw you there, too? Doubtful! And, anyway, a photo of a face - no dildo in it, no markings that say "I am the sub slut of Mistress Vagina" or whatever, means nothing. Anyone could find it any place and be lying about where it came from. However, it is very polite to the people who are sincerely looking, to let them see what you look like. So, to not post a photo, smacks of arrogance and/or gross insincerity.
- if you are truly interested, please contact me. < --Oh, please Sir, may I? Rather than you reading my profile and deciding, as the person who is going to have the most risk to both flesh and finances, if you are interested enough to present yourself for consideration? Can I do all the leg work on this potential relationship, please? Please!
That all being said, here goes.
1. The metaphysical, wicca & possibly the occult. Exporing tantra & chakras.
2. Experimenting with hypnosis, various trance like states, various aromas, chanting etc.
3. I am curious, bisexual, so open to all.< -- Then, again, what is this talk of limits? Either you are open to all, or you have the usual limits. What are your limits? I've read something about them, twice, now, and I still have zero clue.
4. I have always been obedient to woman, I'm curious about slavery. My natural state seems to be that of subservience.< --- So, you are obedient to woman - one or all? Even those under 40? And, if you are only obedient to women, how does that work with you being bisexual and open to all? Very confusing stuff, that. And, if your natural state is subservience, why have you yet to mention anything but your own needs?
4. Sensory deprivation.
5. Leather, love the feel, smell & texture of it.
6. Chastity and/or orgasism control.
7. Being smooth from the neck down.
8. I sometimes wear spandex tights under my work clothes, I love how it smooths my pubic region out, the constriction, and how my clothes slide so easily over it.
9. I am curious about bringing my feminine side out, so open to feminization.
10. I am curious about experimenting with s&m. <--Duh! Repetitive. Plus, uhm, that's why we are all here, so, it kind of goes without saying. Or, it should.
11. As relates to smoothness, I would also like to explore latex.
12. This may sound rather odd, but at some point I feel I would like to be owned. <-- Repetitive. Curious about slavery is the same thing. So is most submission. This is a better way to put it,though. Only, why would it sound odd to someone who wants to own people? Who are you writing this profile to? Your co-workers, your mother, or us? And, if you feel like you would like to be owned, why are you telling everyone what your preferences are? Slaves are not allowed many, as a general rule.
So if I sound intriguing, I'd love to hear from you. They type of woman I am searching is hopefully proactive, searching thru the profiles here for what pleases her as opposed to just looking in her in box.< --Again with expecting the woman to do the leg work. (sigh) Well, I can tell you, I love a good sub/slave type who not only tells me that he has read my journal entries, but, who proves it by telling me his thoughts on them. Then, I, very proactively, go and read his - if I have not already done so.
And remember, I'm looking for a long term partner, with interests we can enjoy together as a couple outside of our "alternative" ones. < -- You really do sound quite demanding. Are you sure you are not a Dom?
The entire profile, as a whole, says "Bow to my will and I might allow you the reward of spanking me and thusly pleasuring my behind." Seriously!
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