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smoking fetish talk - 12/29/2010 10:05:32 AM

dananddawn

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I know next to nothing about smoking fetishes. I'd like to interview someone for our podcast on the topic though. Anyone familiar with it (smoking fetish, human ashtrays) willing to be interviewed about it?

Anyone here suggest questions I should ask/things you'd like to know?

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RE: smoking fetish talk - 12/29/2010 10:21:59 AM

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I believe Mistress Persephone in Michigan caters to the smoking fetish a lot... She would possibly be a great person to ask.

As for questions, with smoking being more and more banned and outlawed, how has the smoking fetish increased? My guess is that it has but I'd be interested in hearing if I'm guessing right...

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RE: smoking fetish talk - 12/29/2010 10:44:29 AM

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I wouldn't say the smoking fetish has increased, but because fewer of us do it (the actual smoking - yes, I know it's a bad habit) it seems like a greater demand. Often, folks will term it as looking for a "Smoking Siren". This can be anything from the 1920's type look with the old fashioned cigarette cases, holders, and opera gloves for 'the look' to those who want the discomfort of cigarette smoke being blown in the face, to the objectification angle of folks wanting to be used as a human ashtray. That can be anything from the person have the ashes flicked on them to the higher end of having the cigarettes put out on them.

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RE: smoking fetish talk - 12/30/2010 3:34:17 AM

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I'm sort of an "on and off" smoker, mostly a social smoker by myself I might smoke maybe 3 to 5 a day (cigarettes not packs) with the odd nonsmoking days in between, trying to avoid addiction and skin damage (house is a smoke free zone, that helps in cutting down a lot, because if I gotta go into the garden and brave the terrible weather, not much motivation), but I noticed that if I go outside and smoke with friends in a pub, sometimes non-smokers seem to look on in a particular way, and more than once I heard vanilla people (I assume vanilla since I don't know them) saying that there's something alluring about a woman who smokes.

If you take different cultures, almost everything that is considered a taboo tends to become alluring, in a lot of countries where women do have a particular dress code, something that is not sexual for us becomes the object of desire, I was joking that if it would be the norm for all women to wear gloves, there would be lots of guys who would develop a fetish for bare hands. Since smoking has become a modern taboo, I think that also increased the fetish appeal of it.

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RE: smoking fetish talk - 1/1/2011 7:51:54 AM

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I'm a smoker, but the human ashtray thing is a bit much.

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RE: smoking fetish talk - 1/1/2011 5:52:06 PM

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I'm a non smoker... Well I'm the occasional for fun smoker, and have enjoyed smoking with a human astray a few times, but I don't feel strongly about it, and would take it of leave it, depending on whether the person I'm with enjoys it. M

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RE: smoking fetish talk - 1/1/2011 6:01:10 PM

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I'm a smoker, but the human ashtray thing is a bit much.

Never found a smoker who's into being the human ashtray, oddly enough seems to be mainly non-smokers that are attracted to it...

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RE: smoking fetish talk - 1/1/2011 7:18:06 PM

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I've had a little experience in using a human ashtray, but not much. I see nothing wrong with flicking ashes on someone or teasing about putting it out on them but the few times that I actually put the cigarette out on them I found it rather distasteful, so I stopped. Whereas I have no problem inflicting a little pain, I don't like the scarring or the risk of infection from the burn. Just my opinion.

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