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men serving Lesbian Slave Owners - 4/30/2006 6:17:17 PM

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Hi i wanted to start a thread here where there can be a Serious discussion on how Lesbian Owners may use male slaves.

for me the whole issue of being expected to inititate traditional sexuality with Dominant Women does not work, and i wanted to see how this has been dealt with in other situations.

for me my thought pattern is to serve those who would not want to use a slave sexually.

part of this comes up because i have seen a gay male master / lesbian slave relationship that seems to work well because there is none of that sexual tension per se.

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RE: men serving Lesbian Slave Owners - 4/30/2006 6:43:41 PM

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Dear slvrmanhaterWomy, Ladies and Gentlemen;

I do know many Lesbians, even belong to a group that is just for women and mostly Lesbian. Not many of them entertain the thought of owning a male slave; just as much as male Gay slaves do not entertain the thought of having a heterosexual female as a Master.

I do know that I really do relate to the pressure of "sex" by either dominant or submissive; Master/Mistress or slave. This is one reason I prefer going to Gay Leather Bars, as I am not seen as a sex object but, as a human being. I am appreciated for what I offer to the "community" at large.

Those old school types that are similar to "Old Guard" had really put the M/s dynamic in front of it all and sex was the last thing considered. It was more a M/s dynamic. So, knowing what was--where sex was not the hook to lead into M/s and or BDSM in my early exposure to the lifestyle; now it is the spear point. Service was in the old days, now its sex; I really do miss this particular area of the old days.

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RE: men serving Lesbian Slave Owners - 4/30/2006 7:05:29 PM

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thank You Ma'am, i guess the other part of the question i want to put out here with this is i would love to talk to any men that have been in this type of relationship

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RE: men serving Lesbian Slave Owners - 4/30/2006 8:25:08 PM

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Well there are some non stereotypical relationships that have been busting the traditional ideas of Master slave relationships and sexual orientation.
The most well known pair would be International Master/slave 2001 Master Jim and slave marsha. Master Jim identifies as a gay leatherman and slave marsha identifies as a lesbian.

Now finding a lesbian who is interested in owning a male slave is not going to be easy nor would the relationship itself nessisarily be what you envission in your mind.
The fact that you are specificly looking for it will tend to draw susspicion that you are more about proving you could "convert" a lesbian. Not something most will take kindly to.

My suggestion is that you focus on the idea of becomming a slave and worry about who takes the interest in owning you as secondary. But if you are actually serious that only a lesbian owner will do then you might be best served by getting involved in the community and proving your not some "I'm going to convert you" het male looking to prove something. Then petition a lesbian who you find to be interesting as a potential owner.

Leave how you would be used to be determined by them.

I personally have a lesbian boi in service to me in a completely non sexual role, I do have SM contact with my boi and I direct the noi's growth, study, etc. But it's a service for service arrangement. The boi provides service I provide direction for the boi's development. It certainly wasn't a relationship I ever expected to happen.
But when I got over the shock of the petition from a lesbian I agreed to negotiate and discuss what might be possible and it has been rewarding for us both.

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RE: men serving Lesbian Slave Owners - 4/30/2006 8:27:39 PM

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about 6 years ago or longer when I was a sub, I served 2 Lesbians and it was great. they had sex, i kissed their feet or was in bondage and oh the CBT was excellent. She could tie up my happy parts and make them go into orbits of ecstacy and still not allow me an orgasm. Probably one reason I now as a Dom enjoy teasing and denying little fem subs, remembering how much I enjoyed it. they don't seem to mind much either.

a big cheer for ALL Lesbians who do allow a male to be their submissive and teach the male to serve, Worship and Obey. I know they helped guide and teach me and I say a big "Thank You!" to them.

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RE: men serving Lesbian Slave Owners - 4/30/2006 8:29:03 PM

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Another suggestion the name you have chosen certainly would work against you finding a lesbian who would consider taking a het man as a slave since hate and ownership work contrary to each other and to infer that a lebian is a man hater is condecending at least. I know many lesbians who don't hate men, they simply do not find them sexually attractive.

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RE: men serving Lesbian Slave Owners - 4/30/2006 9:09:53 PM

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i do not think that all lesbians are manhaters and there are probally straight women that hate men as well, but what i am seeking is one that is intensely cruel and sadistic and is abusive,

that is what i am seeking but with this topic am hoping people may have input into the who idea would really hope to her from some Women as well

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RE: men serving Lesbian Slave Owners - 4/30/2006 9:29:33 PM

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Men serving Lesbians are putting themselves through a painfull treat. Most men who serve like to have sex thrown into the equation. Knowing that you're not going to have sex puts extra frustration upon yourself in your servitude. It's a form of extra punishment so to say. She knows it, and he knows it. And yet he still serves putting himself through the agony in an impossible hope of a conversion/reward in the end.

Other than that one idea for most men who would choose to do this, some would serve lesbians having them as mistress on the side because they know that sex will not occur. Married men with vanilla wives do not necessarly want to cheat on there spouse. Instead they just want someone to do some kinky scenes on them without the fear that sex might occur. So what to do you do for that extra insruance? You find a lesbian to spank you and say Yes Maam too.

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RE: men serving Lesbian Slave Owners - 4/30/2006 10:37:36 PM

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ORIGINAL: slv4manhaterWomy
for me the whole issue of being expected to inititate traditional sexuality with Dominant Women does not work, and i wanted to see how this has been dealt with in other situations.
for me my thought pattern is to serve those who would not want to use a slave sexually.

See now, us asexuals just get kicked to the curb every time.
First when the subs want the sex .
Now when they don't want it.
*sigh*

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