tarkanas -> Any good literature? (12/30/2010 4:35:23 PM)
So my wife has recently developed an interest in Doming me. We have been speaking to a dom on this site and she has been very helpful in helping us figure out exactly what we want to get out of this with each other. My wife asked me to see if I could find some good books that would give her a good foundation so that she can become a good dom. I have always been interested in this lifestyle but my exposure is mostly limited to videos that I have seen on the net and she was the type of person who didn't know anything other then normal missionary existed before she met me so we don't really have a good background to draw on.
So does anyone have any recommendations of books that would give her a good introduction to the lifestyle? Something that gives the basic information to as many fetishes/activities as possible would be helpful so she can get a better idea of what interests her without me influencing her, that way we can then decide together what we like.
LadyPact -> RE: Any good literature? (12/30/2010 5:47:20 PM)
tarkanas -> RE: Any good literature? (12/30/2010 6:12:16 PM)
loll I suppose I could have found that myself if I took 2 sec to use the search feature. Thank you very much.
DesFIP -> RE: Any good literature? (12/30/2010 6:20:11 PM)
In addition to literature, if you just want to see what various activities there are, you could google bdsm checklists and find one that you like. Preferably you should both fill it out separately and start in with activities that appeal to both of you. Because if it's a positive first experience, she'll be more comfortable trying it a second time.
tarkanas -> RE: Any good literature? (12/30/2010 6:43:52 PM)