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Advise me please : Is my Mistress/Wife cuckolding me ? - 12/30/2010 9:40:41 PM

mocuck

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Hello All ,

First of all , this is a serious question and asking for serious opinion . I'm not writing this to get off or out of fantasy .

I ask you cause I need your advice .

We are happily married couple in a D/s relationship . My Wife is my Mistress and I'm her slave . We are in our mid thirties .

She knows that I'm into cuckolding , but she always said that she was not interested . Yet , she suggested that we would do threesome one day .

In the last 6 months sex became less ( we used to fuck once a day , or minimum 5 times a week , even this exhausted me sometimes ) and she was the one who initiated sex .

Then , suddenly she started to be more reluctant to have sex with me , our sex was reduced to once a week or once every 10 days , and everytime she said that she was tired !!

She also started going out most of the time , and always says that she was with friends . This was ok as well .

Recently , I noticed other things : When we have sex , she rarely cums ( she used to cum easily before ) . She started to tell me that she likes more to be pleased than to have penetrative sex . So , everytime , if we have sex she asks me for long massage first ( one or 2 hours ) then she asks me to lick her till she cums first , then she allows me to fuck her until I cum .

She started to ask me all the time to cum out of her ( on her belly or on her pussy from outside ) And then she started to ask me to lick my cum out of her body . This was strange for me in the beginning .

I asked her if she fucks someone else , but she strongly denied .

What do you think ? Do you think she is cuckolding me ? Or do you think that this is only my imagination ?

I have no problem with her having sex with others . I'm a cuckold , and it's ok with me . But I want to know .
I asked her several times , but she always denied !!!

I'm looking for your opinion and your answers

Yours ,

Cuckold John

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RE: Advise me please : Is my Mistress/Wife cuckolding me ? - 12/30/2010 9:52:10 PM

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Nope.

Cuckolding is when the cuckolded one has full knowledge that his Master/Mistress is fucking another. If she hasn't told you or you haven't seen it, it's not cuckolding, whether she's playing outside of marriage or not.

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RE: Advise me please : Is my Mistress/Wife cuckolding me ? - 12/30/2010 10:10:51 PM

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Have you been harassing or in any way trying to cajole her into finding someone with whom to cuckold you? Did you go into the relationship, figuring, she would eventually warm up to the idea, and cuckold you?

I don't see any evidence that your wife is stepping out on you. She may very well be, simply going out, enjoying her time with friends, and doing nothing more. She could also be angry and resentful of you, for some reason, and cheating in a way that removes your enjoyment from the act. Anything is possible, but her cheating is not in evidence from your post, to me.

It sounds to me, like you're not happy in your relationship, and you need to do a lot of communicating with your wife/dominant. Cuckoldry is a tricky kink to deal with, in my opinion. While I would love the option of, if I meet someone that I want, I can have him, with my partner's full knowledge, I do not want the responsibility of having to find another man to phuck, so that my partner will be fulfilled in our relationship. For that reason, I tell cuck's we're not compatible. M

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RE: Advise me please : Is my Mistress/Wife cuckolding me ? - 12/31/2010 5:10:48 AM

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Nice story :)

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RE: Advise me please : Is my Mistress/Wife cuckolding me ? - 12/31/2010 8:30:31 AM

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Sounds like married life to me....

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RE: Advise me please : Is my Mistress/Wife cuckolding me ? - 12/31/2010 9:07:34 AM

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Since it would make you happy to believe she does, just believe she does...

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RE: Advise me please : Is my Mistress/Wife cuckolding me ? - 12/31/2010 10:43:33 AM

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In My experience, I'd have to say that she is not. I'm basing that on one premise of cuckolding that the difference is for her to use her sexuality/involvement with others is the awareness. Cucking isn't something that you deny or evade. The point of it is to have the cuck have the feelings that are inspired when the woman is knowingly having relations with other men. That's the fun of the kink, anyway.

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RE: Advise me please : Is my Mistress/Wife cuckolding me ? - 12/31/2010 11:38:49 AM

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Yeah... I am not sure that she is cuckolding you since she hasn't told you, but there is something going on behind the scenes, which she is not sharing with you. It could be something as basic as she has lost interest and/or respect and just does not want to do it anymore, so it doesn’t have to be another man, yet.

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RE: Advise me please : Is my Mistress/Wife cuckolding me ? - 12/31/2010 3:30:23 PM

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If she isn't orgasming anymore, then I doubt she would be having sex with others. What would be the point when she already knows she won't enjoy it? Has anything changed in your lives? Job stress, illness, children, parental illness and so on? If so, then I'd blame it on that. Otherwise, she ought to go get a checkup.

As far as going out every night of the week, this will destroy the relationship if you folks don't start reconnecting. Get a babysitter, go out on a date. Spend one night a week with the tv off, phones off, just sit and hold hands and talk.

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RE: Advise me please : Is my Mistress/Wife cuckolding me ? - 12/31/2010 3:59:16 PM

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as others have already said, shes not cuckolding you if she is not ingaging with a lover and using it to humiliate or degrade you. If she is having sex outside the marriage without your knowledge thats just cheating or technically Adultry, but not cuckolding. the things shes making uoi do like withholding sex or making to orally please you and even licking your own cum off her is normal dominant behavior and you said that is the arrangement to begin with so it should be expected.

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