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YoungBlondeSlave -> It shouldn't bother me, but it does. (12/31/2010 8:01:12 PM)
Is there some rule that submissives are supposed to be stupid that i don't know about? i guess if i need to be clued in on this rule then now would be the time to let me know because, i posted in my journal that i aced my final exam and a large percentage of e-mails i've gotten in regards to it have referred to my sleeping with and/or blowing the teacher in order to receive this grade. i'm at a point in my life where i'm finally beginning to take my education seriously and i'm putting in work towards it. To have it insulted and demeaned in this fashion really pisses me off. The first couple times, i've been able to blow it off, but now i'm getting offended because i busted my ass for that grade and to hear people constantly telling me that i had to sleep with him or blow him to get it kinda grates on me. i know, block and delete but i really just want to rip into all of them...really, really badly.

Rule -> RE: It shouldn't bother me, but it does. (12/31/2010 8:06:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: YoungBlondeSlave Is there some rule that submissives are supposed to be stupid that i don't know about? i know, block and delete but i really just want to rip into all of them...really, really badly. Would ripping into them be smart?

YoungBlondeSlave -> RE: It shouldn't bother me, but it does. (12/31/2010 8:07:27 PM)
Probably not. But it would make me feel better, even if only momentarily.

Rule -> RE: It shouldn't bother me, but it does. (12/31/2010 8:08:44 PM)
Isn't there something else fun to do instead?

Rule -> RE: It shouldn't bother me, but it does. (12/31/2010 8:10:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: YoungBlondeSlave i posted in my journal that i aced my final exam Hey, that is great! Well done. Congratulations!

poise -> RE: It shouldn't bother me, but it does. (12/31/2010 8:10:40 PM)
The actual rule is to play stooopid when it's to your advantage.[:)] Envy is never a pretty emotion, and its a shame many have shared theirs with you. Congrats on the grades!

DarkSteven -> RE: It shouldn't bother me, but it does. (12/31/2010 8:22:32 PM)
Congratulations on discovering a quick screening mechanism to discover idiots. There are some men who resent their woman showing more aptitude than them in any way. I apologize on behalf of my flawed gender. And if they didn't get grades like that, that was because they were partying and goofing off instead of studying. You'd not be compatible with them. Congratulations on the grade.

Tantriqu -> RE: It shouldn't bother me, but it does. (12/31/2010 8:26:46 PM)
Welcome to the internet! Sadly, cowardly, sociopathic, misogynist sadistic aspergers-in-basements abound here. I literally shook the first time a guy detailed how I would feature in his rape, torture, prostitution then snuff film, now I roll my eyes, mock and block. So find the funniest/weirdest/sickest one, post it without using the author's name, mock it, and move on. Choose to be amused. Then remember to share your real-life accomplishments with real-live humans rather than seeking approval from basement trolls on a sex site, and consider a name change to something like 'smart sub cookie' to deke 'em out since 'young blonde sub' sounds like you've painted a target on your ass, and not in a good way, for attention-seeking bullies. Is it fair? Absolutely not. Report away, and let the Admins spank the bastards, and not in the way they crave. Good luck! There are some really nice people here among the dross.

PyrotheClown -> RE: It shouldn't bother me, but it does. (12/31/2010 8:27:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven Congratulations on discovering a quick screening mechanism to discover idiots. There are some men who resent their woman showing more aptitude than them in any way. I apologize on behalf of my flawed gender. And if they didn't get grades like that, that was because they were partying and goofing off instead of studying. You'd not be compatible with them. Congratulations on the grade. ^ this.

Awareness -> RE: It shouldn't bother me, but it does. (12/31/2010 8:46:49 PM)
Honestly, the one thing as constant in this existence as people who send shitty emails are the women who complain about them. It becomes FUCKING monotonous. The problem here is not them, it's you. Why on earth would you give one moment of thought to the opinions of some random stranger you do not respect? You are always going to run into assholes. There will always be people who will bait you or attempt to tear down anything in which you take pride. You need to get yourself to a place where you can read such emails with an appropriate perspective. Rather than wringing your hands and playing the victim, realise that such people DO NOT KNOW YOU and are an irrelevance. Reading their emails should produce nothing more than an eye roll and a note on their profile which reminds you of their character Threads like this are usually nothing more than a blatant attempt to salve your ego, knowing full well that such forums are always populated by those who seek to play rescuer and will make the required soothing noises upon demand. Instead focus on developing your self-esteem to the point where such emails are automatically treated with the contempt they deserve and do not impinge on your mind-space in any way whatsoever.

Rule -> RE: It shouldn't bother me, but it does. (12/31/2010 8:50:20 PM)
Mostly a good post, Awareness, but you might consider deleting the first two sentences while you still have the opportunity?

DesFIP -> RE: It shouldn't bother me, but it does. (1/1/2011 11:26:22 AM)
In awareness's viewpoint, I suppose women shouldn't get upset at being groped but should just get used to it? The emails you got are horrendous and unfortunately indicative of men who know they have no chance at a relationship with a smart young woman. And yes, you should be offended at people who you've never spoken to saying disgusting things to you.

RDa -> RE: It shouldn't bother me, but it does. (1/1/2011 11:44:36 AM)
Sorry "awareness." Your post is the rough equivalent of what she's talking about here. Sour and snotty. A new person on this site often doesn't realize that, as valuable and useful as the basic concept is, the very nature of the site is such as to attract the most wretched of the dregs. Women are beset. OP, use the block function wholesale and think not twice on it. Entering dialog with the trolls is a waste. You just have to be your own filter.

LadyPact -> RE: It shouldn't bother me, but it does. (1/1/2011 11:47:14 AM)
Since I missed the official announcement about your grade, I just wanted to take a moment to congratulate you. I'm glad your hard work and dedication paid off.

VaguelyCurious -> RE: It shouldn't bother me, but it does. (1/1/2011 11:48:58 AM)
An alternative view: quote: ORIGINAL: YoungBlondeSlave sleeping with and/or blowing the teacher in order to receive this grade. ...think about it. To some people (disclaimer: not me) that's going to be a hot image. God knows there's enough porn revolving around it. They aren't actually calling you stupid, they just like the idea of a woman in that situation. It's just the same as any other creepazoid mail where the sender is turning you into a fantasy-it's not really about you, just like none of the 'kneel bitch' memos are about you.

windchymes -> RE: It shouldn't bother me, but it does. (1/1/2011 12:32:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: YoungBlondeSlave Is there some rule that submissives are supposed to be stupid that i don't know about? i guess if i need to be clued in on this rule then now would be the time to let me know because, i posted in my journal that i aced my final exam and a large percentage of e-mails i've gotten in regards to it have referred to my sleeping with and/or blowing the teacher in order to receive this grade. i'm at a point in my life where i'm finally beginning to take my education seriously and i'm putting in work towards it. To have it insulted and demeaned in this fashion really pisses me off. The first couple times, i've been able to blow it off, but now i'm getting offended because i busted my ass for that grade and to hear people constantly telling me that i had to sleep with him or blow him to get it kinda grates on me. i know, block and delete but i really just want to rip into all of them...really, really badly. I'm going to help educate you a little bit more. During holiday breaks, we always see an influx of stupid and sophomoric posts, emails, solicitations, etc. They usually dissipate some when school gets back in session, it's going to continue, and you might as well grow duck feathers on your back and let the stupid comments roll right off. Channel your spirit into something worthwhile that you can change. Congratulations on the good grades, keep up the good work! [:)]

soul2share -> RE: It shouldn't bother me, but it does. (1/1/2011 12:50:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Rule Mostly a good post, Awareness, but you might consider deleting the first two sentences while you still have the opportunity? Actually, most of the post should be deleted......victim??? Salve the ego???? Funny, that's not the impression I got from the OP, but hey, that's just me! Personally, I have nothing but respect for anyone who is either in school or goes back to school. I'm only 17 credits shy of an Associate's, but there's no why I'd ever consider going back to finish it...I dropped out of college because I was bored and joined the Army...why would I go back? With all due respect to your ego, Congrats! [;)]

rosanegra -> RE: It shouldn't bother me, but it does. (1/1/2011 1:07:43 PM)
Hmmm... I'm going to just smile, and congratulate you, and keep the rest of my thoughts to myself... they're not derogatory with regards to you... but they make me seem like a total slut.

Rule -> RE: It shouldn't bother me, but it does. (1/1/2011 1:10:22 PM)
I below have removed everything that in my opinion had better have been left out: quote: ORIGINAL: Awareness Why on earth would you give one moment of thought to the opinions of some random stranger you do not respect? You are always going to run into assholes. There will always be people who will bait you or attempt to tear down anything in which you take pride. You need to get yourself to a place where you can read such emails with an appropriate perspective. ... realise that such people DO NOT KNOW YOU and are an irrelevance. Reading their emails should produce nothing more than an eye roll and a note on their profile which reminds you of their character focus on developing your self-esteem to the point where such emails are automatically treated with the contempt they deserve and do not impinge on your mind-space in any way whatsoever.

LadyPact -> RE: It shouldn't bother me, but it does. (1/1/2011 1:14:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: windchymes I'm going to help educate you a little bit more. During holiday breaks, we always see an influx of stupid and sophomoric posts, emails, solicitations, etc. They usually dissipate some when school gets back in session, it's going to continue, and you might as well grow duck feathers on your back and let the stupid comments roll right off. Channel your spirit into something worthwhile that you can change. There are about a dozen threads on the boards right now where this same paragraph would be absolutely an appropriate description of what gets typed up.

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