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AzLeatherMan -> What life event made you desire to be a submissive? (1/1/2011 12:25:14 PM)

I am wondering what life event caused others to desire to be a submissive. I desired to be a male submissive following an experience with a 35 year old woman who spanked me when I was a teenager.



AquaticSub -> RE: What life event made you desire to be a submissive? (1/1/2011 12:28:25 PM)

I was born.

I have no memory of ever not having kink and power dynamics in my fantasies. As a child I was drawn towards the characters who slung women around. My first loves where Rhett Bulter, John Wayne, Han Solo, Indiana Jones and I found myself strangely intoxicated by the Phantom of the Opera. Both by the scarred  Phantom who possessed the singer's mind and the determined Viscount who plowed through her objections to falling in love.



LillyBoPeep -> RE: What life event made you desire to be a submissive? (1/1/2011 12:31:27 PM)

i'm more along the line of AquaticSub -- a lot of my early fantasies were really kinky, with male Dominance as a central theme.
i was raised really old-fashioned and did NOT want to absorb that, so i was slightly disappointed in myself when i met M and realized that being submissive made me happy. =p haha

oh well!



osf -> RE: What life event made you desire to be a submissive? (1/1/2011 12:50:32 PM)

i acquired a gosling



81song -> RE: What life event made you desire to be a submissive? (1/1/2011 1:17:38 PM)

As for me it was not just one thing but a  hosts of nuns, catholic guilt, and getting beat a lot. But I don't know still trying to figure it out in a way I remember I use to like to tie up my balls when I was very small so maybe I have always been this way.



soul2share -> RE: What life event made you desire to be a submissive? (1/1/2011 2:20:42 PM)

Aqua and BoPeep pretty much said it.....even tho I was considered a femnist in school...I didn't take any crap from anyone about the whole female vs male thing, deep down, the fantasies had definite D/s overtones.

What actually brought me into the life was boredom....I was bored one night, typed in BDSM into my search engine and voila!  I discovered that I wasn't just some weirdo, that there was a whole bunch of people who felt the same way.  OMG!!  what a relief!  And the ride has been fantastic since that night!



mbes -> RE: What life event made you desire to be a submissive? (1/1/2011 2:30:01 PM)


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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

I was born.

I have no memory of ever not having kink and power dynamics in my fantasies. As a child I was drawn towards the characters who slung women around. My first loves where Rhett Bulter, John Wayne, Han Solo, Indiana Jones and I found myself strangely intoxicated by the Phantom of the Opera. Both by the scarred  Phantom who possessed the singer's mind and the determined Viscount who plowed through her objections to falling in love.


This. Except I like the Phantom a lot better than the other guy.



littlewonder -> RE: What life event made you desire to be a submissive? (1/1/2011 2:36:35 PM)

There is no life event. I am a submissive personality. I grew up in a culture where husband is head of household, the leader. Wife is the follower. It's what I'm comfortable in and what i seek  in a partner.




phoenixmoonn13 -> RE: What life event made you desire to be a submissive? (1/1/2011 2:57:11 PM)

its me i was born this way



CalifChick -> RE: What life event made you desire to be a submissive? (1/1/2011 3:24:00 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: AzLeatherMan

I am wondering what life event caused others to desire to be a submissive. I desired to be a male submissive following an experience with a 35 year old woman who spanked me when I was a teenager.


It sounds like you desired to be a bottom, not a submissive. 

Your question, "what life event caused others to desire to be a submissive", makes as much sense to me as if you asked what life event caused others to desire to be... heterosexual.


Cali




sweetbiggal -> RE: What life event made you desire to be a submissive? (1/1/2011 6:32:20 PM)

Was born this way.  Didn't really know there were more folks like me until I had a computer and internet connection.  



windchymes -> RE: What life event made you desire to be a submissive? (1/1/2011 8:29:43 PM)

When that doctor held me upside down by my little heels and smacked my little ass to make me cry, I knew. [8|]



glynn012954 -> RE: What life event made you desire to be a submissive? (1/1/2011 8:52:10 PM)

Good question---My Mom was the dom half of a female led household. She ruled over my dad, brother, and me. She gave my sister a free pass for everything. My sister has grown up to be just like her. My brother rebeled and doesn;t have anything to do with the family after he graduated and left home, and I have become a lot like my dad a submissive. So what does that say about why we all turned out the way we were I don't know



WestBaySlave -> RE: What life event made you desire to be a submissive? (1/1/2011 9:20:40 PM)

Hitting puberty. The hormones flooded in and I began figuring out what I wanted in sex, romance, and a relationship. 



Minotauros -> RE: What life event made you desire to be a submissive? (1/2/2011 2:16:06 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: windchymes
When that doctor held me upside down by my little heels and smacked my little ass to make me cry, I knew. [8|]


That made me smile ... and I bet you tried as long as possible not to cry [:D]



CherryNeko -> RE: What life event made you desire to be a submissive? (1/2/2011 2:23:01 AM)

Awww there was no life event for me... *cries*



slavekal -> RE: What life event made you desire to be a submissive? (1/2/2011 8:54:56 AM)

Born this way.  When I knew about it was the first time I saw Catwoman (Julie Newmar) on TV.  When she snapped the whip and kicked her boys around, I got instantly hard.  I wasn't even in kindergarten yet.



Carmesie -> RE: What life event made you desire to be a submissive? (1/2/2011 10:15:05 PM)

Finding a Dom. :)

6 months ago I would have denied with my last breath that I was submissive in ANY WAY WHAT SO EVER.

Then I met Him. And his Domination made me feel safe enough to submit and be my authentic self.



LillyBoPeep -> RE: What life event made you desire to be a submissive? (1/3/2011 1:56:49 AM)

@ Carmesie -- isn't it nice when you find that? ^_^ that's how it was for me, too. 



littleone35 -> RE: What life event made you desire to be a submissive? (1/3/2011 10:56:41 AM)

Like many of the others others no big life event unless you condiser birth to be a big life event. I was born this way.

Matt's littleone



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