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Male Dom looking for female sub - 1/1/2011 12:29:27 PM

gamelover2021

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I am new to the site and am looking for female Subs. I enforce a very strict lifestyle on my slaves and will teach them dicipline,and how to obey without question or argument if interested please contact me but before you do be sure to READ all of my profile,this is a must.

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RE: Male Dom looking for female sub - 1/1/2011 12:48:44 PM

MsLadySue

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I just read your profile (I'm bored) and I laughed when I read:

"No I will not post a picture or give you one but I do expect you to have one. As a potential slave it should not be important to you how I look,but being a master it is 100% imoportant how you look so I expect at least one picture,and if I ask you for more or for certain pictures,you should do this."

You've got to be kidding! First of all, are you seeking subs or slaves? You really must make up your mind so the 'chosen' one knows what she is supposed to be.

Second, the ladies who write in interest to your profile are under absolutely no obligation to you whatsoever. They will provide a clothed picture or not, at their discretion. By "certain pictures" I expect you mean naked; yes you will find the odd newbie who thinks they should provide such but you will find the majority will laugh and use the block and/or delete button. They are not your submissive until they decide they are.

Third, any supposed dominant/master who won't provide a picture of himself is suspected of having something to hide.

Happy New Year and good luck!

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I love it when someone insults me. That means I don't have to be nice anymore.

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RE: Male Dom looking for female sub - 1/1/2011 1:16:15 PM

gamelover2021

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I have nothing to hide first of all I just consider that a slave in my opinion should not question such things as it's their job to serve and serve only.

And I mean to say slave but really the termonology is the same,a submissive person is exactly what a slave is.

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RE: Male Dom looking for female sub - 1/1/2011 1:19:25 PM

kalikshama

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From your profile:

quote:

- in my opinion a Dom/Sub relationship is all about the Dom's satisfaction,pleasure,and happiness! Not the Sub's happiness. If you are chosen by me it means that I WANT YOU. The other way around should be of no importance to you,you are meant to serve and do as you are told with no argument. I am very strict when it comes to discipline.

Welcome to CM and do let us know how that works out for you.

KK

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RE: Male Dom looking for female sub - 1/1/2011 1:21:36 PM

LadyPact

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quote:

ORIGINAL: gamelover2021

I have nothing to hide first of all I just consider that a slave in my opinion should not question such things as it's their job to serve and serve only.

And I mean to say slave but really the termonology is the same,a submissive person is exactly what a slave is.

Cool. When you own one, you can tell them exactly what their job should be. Until that point, you're really not in the position to be dictating anything. Those who don't question tend to have faith in the person giving the instructions. Not some random screen name on the internet.

Welcome to the forums. We're going to have lots of fun with you.

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The crowned Diva of Destruction. ~ ExT

Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD

Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

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RE: Male Dom looking for female sub - 1/1/2011 1:24:51 PM

LillyBoPeep

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...

ai yaa...

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RE: Male Dom looking for female sub - 1/1/2011 1:31:10 PM

DarkSteven

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OP, just to let you know, I chose Angelina Jolie and Sandra Bullock to be my slavegirls over a year ago, and they still haven't submitted to me yet. Hell, Angelina is still with that Brad doofus.

Seriously, there's more to the lifestyle than posturing and demanding.

_____________________________

"You women....

The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

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RE: Male Dom looking for female sub - 1/1/2011 1:58:36 PM

gamelover2021

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Just remember I believe in strict discipline and believe that such slavery is not about a female having a choice or choices.

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RE: Male Dom looking for female sub - 1/1/2011 2:10:59 PM

kalikshama

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quote:

ORIGINAL: gamelover2021

Just remember I believe in strict discipline and believe that such slavery is not about a female having a choice or choices.

How's that working out for you so far? In other words, how many relationships with that dynamic have you had and how long did they last?

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RE: Male Dom looking for female sub - 1/1/2011 2:34:11 PM

LadyConstanze

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quote:

ORIGINAL: gamelover2021

Just remember I believe in strict discipline and believe that such slavery is not about a female having a choice or choices.

Problem is that they have a choice if they pick you...

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Those who do and those who don't!

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RE: Male Dom looking for female sub - 1/1/2011 2:52:24 PM

gamelover2021

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I choose them though. Honestly where in the definition of "slave" does it say that a slave has a choice?

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RE: Male Dom looking for female sub - 1/1/2011 3:00:01 PM

DarkSteven

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OP, let me take some pity on you. You've obviously done some reading and think you know what TPE is. You need to learn how this works. With actual experience.

Start out as a Dom. You will have more say than she does, but you'll learn how she thinks and how to get into her head. The more experience you gain with D/s, the closer you'll be to your goal of TPE. When you finally find the woman you want, then move her toward TPE.

You'll notice that I don't expect you to find a 100% TPE-ready slavegirl. You'll need to train a submissive woman to serve you the way you want. All relationships take work and - surprise! - an M/s one takes MORE work than a vanilla one! Any time you find a girl that has been perfectly trained by either a slave training school/camp or a Master that died/moved away, you're looking at a scammer. Be very careful because you're very ripe pickings for them.

Finally, never succumb to the lure of representing yourself as having more experience than you actually have. You'll be amazed at how willing kinksters are to guide newbies like yourself. But once the word gets around that you've misrepresented, you will never get a local unless they're very new and stupid.

_____________________________

"You women....

The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

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RE: Male Dom looking for female sub - 1/1/2011 3:00:36 PM

Killerangel

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quote:

ORIGINAL: gamelover2021

I choose them though. Honestly where in the definition of "slave" does it say that a slave has a choice?

You really think there are like slaves hanging around waiting for people to 'pick' them? Do you have any idea of how many women vs men are on sites like this...? You're going to be choosing till the cows come home and not a single woman is going to just follow you home and immediately start serving you. You are living in la-la land.
There are so many men on here that wish your vision was reality, these are the guys who believe that if they pay a fee to a 'slave training' camp they will actually get a real, live, woman.

Really, I'm not trying to disparage you,just tell you the reality of your dream here. You've never done this before have you? It shows. Learn a bit more and you might have some success at this, as it is you're going to have a hard time of it.

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RE: Male Dom looking for female sub - 1/1/2011 3:02:55 PM

LadyPact

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Killerangel

quote:

ORIGINAL: gamelover2021

I choose them though. Honestly where in the definition of "slave" does it say that a slave has a choice?

You really think there are like slaves hanging around waiting for people to 'pick' them? Do you have any idea of how many women vs men are on sites like this...? You're going to be choosing till the cows come home and not a single woman is going to just follow you home and immediately start serving you. You are living in la-la land.
There are so many men on here that wish your vision was reality, these are the guys who believe that if they pay a fee to a 'slave training' camp they will actually get a real, live, woman.

Really, I'm not trying to disparage you,just tell you the reality of your dream here. You've never done this before have you? It shows. Learn a bit more and you might have some success at this, as it is you're going to have a hard time of it.

Bless you for typing this out and saving Me the time! I could kiss you!

_____________________________

The crowned Diva of Destruction. ~ ExT

Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD

Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

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RE: Male Dom looking for female sub - 1/1/2011 3:05:39 PM

LadyConstanze

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quote:

ORIGINAL: gamelover2021

I choose them though. Honestly where in the definition of "slave" does it say that a slave has a choice?

Let's be realistic, where on earth do you come up with the idea that you will have anybody to choose? I mean at the rate you're going, you got the choice of your left or your right hand... They got the choice of applying or not applying, you know it isn't like female slaves are wondering around aimlessly waiting to be "chosen" by you.

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Those who do and those who don't!

http://exdomme.blogspot.com/2012/07/public-service-announcement.html

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RE: Male Dom looking for female sub - 1/1/2011 3:08:13 PM

TribeTziyon

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He likes queening. It's another wanker.

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RE: Male Dom looking for female sub - 1/1/2011 3:10:11 PM

DarkSteven

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quote:

ORIGINAL: TribeTziyon

He likes queening. It's another wanker.

nah. I just think he didn't know what it was when he checked that box.

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Bless you for typing this out and saving Me the time! I could kiss you!

LP, killerangel is way the heck over in MD. You could kiss me much more easily. I'll be happy to stand in for her.

_____________________________

"You women....

The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

(in reply to TribeTziyon)

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RE: Male Dom looking for female sub - 1/1/2011 3:13:05 PM

TribeTziyon

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Well either explanation dosen't add to his allure.

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RE: Male Dom looking for female sub - 1/1/2011 3:13:16 PM

Killerangel

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I saw that and figured I'd nailed him to the wall enough but it was tempting to bring it up. Now that it's out there...OP - do you know what the hell queening is? You don't. My statement of you being a newcomer is right on. That's not a bad thing but admit it and get some knowledge rather than blunder around acting like you know what the hell you're doing. You can really hurt someone by being stupid. I wish people like you came with warning tags so potentials would know to avoid you till you get your attitude in line and learn something.

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RE: Male Dom looking for female sub - 1/1/2011 3:18:31 PM

DarkSteven

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Killerangel

My statement of you being a newcomer is right on. That's not a bad thing but admit it and get some knowledge rather than blunder around acting like you know what the hell you're doing. You can really hurt someone by being stupid. I wish people like you came with warning tags so potentials would know to avoid you till you get your attitude in line and learn something.

_____________________________

"You women....

The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

(in reply to Killerangel)

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