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RE: are there any real femdoms? - 2/5/2011 3:44:11 PM   
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RE: are there any real femdoms? - 2/5/2011 4:30:40 PM   
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I hate to generalize but most women on this site come across as really arrogant, stuck-up.... Sad, really sad.


And consider adding what you have to give to a Mistress, not just what you want from one. Add some vanilla stuff, too.

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RE: are there any real femdoms? - 2/12/2011 3:05:45 PM   
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Status: offline 		I would like to add... that who is to say that you can not simply date normally and when you have a girl your comfortable with, share some of your fetishes with her and see how she reacts... most of my kinky experiences come from serendipitous meetings of "vanilla" girls who turned out far kinkier than I expected... just be open about your fetishes but take it slow and dont overwhelm her too quickly with it... in other words dont dump too much on her and make her feel like " this guys a wierdo, i dont feel comfortable or safe around him" feeling... take it slow get to know her... she maybe more open minded than you think.

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RE: are there any real femdoms? - 2/13/2011 2:44:30 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have to admit, I got to this party late...five pages in. My first thought when I read the title was "Oh boy, another 'weal and twue' thread.". When I first read the initial post, all sorts of phrases started whirling around inside my head.....do-me sub, Topping from the bottom, bedroom-only D/s, bottoming vs submitting, and things such as that. My impression, right or wrong, is that the OP wants a kink-delivery-system. Period.

I perved the OP's profile and he's a switch. Maybe what he really needs is not a Domme at all, but a submissive who will service-Top him for the sensations and so on. The title of the thread, put together with the OP, sounds to my ears as though it's implying one has to be in line w/ his fantasy to be a "real" Domme. I'm a sub but, to my ears, that implication sounds like it would be awfully insulting to the Dommes here.

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RE: are there any real femdoms? - 2/13/2011 6:51:06 PM   
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If you want to find such a person, you must believe that she exists. Anything else is giving up.

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RE: are there any real femdoms? - 2/13/2011 6:54:06 PM   
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ORIGINAL: herpet1313

I must confess that, as a man, I had similar expectations. Years of experince, and 15 years in a wonderful loving relationship have taught me that a perfect match to one's expectations is unrealistic, and unlikely.
What do you bring to the table?
Yes, you can find someone to fulfill your needs, wants and desires but it may not be exactly as you have it mapped out. I suggest you find a woman with whom you are compatible on a day to day basis and slowly seduce her inner dominance, with your own acts of submission.


It never hurts to be flexible.

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RE: are there any real femdoms? - 3/6/2011 2:38:14 PM   
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RE: are there any real femdoms? - 3/6/2011 4:00:53 PM   
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ORIGINAL: fetisheden

well, i def havent seen any here on collarme... but ok.whatevs


Definitions, definitions....

Most people that I'd consider "real slaves" aren't interested in what you're selling. They tend to find a relationship model more suited to their needs than a transactional one.


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RE: are there any real femdoms? - 3/6/2011 4:13:29 PM   
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Status: offline 		Well done, SD. I was trying to work out a way of phrasing exactly that thought, but my usual tin of polish wasn't to hand.

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RE: are there any real femdoms? - 3/6/2011 4:59:44 PM   
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ORIGINAL: fetisheden

well, i def havent seen any here on collarme... but ok.whatevs

See the glorious abs above this post?

You're looking at one.

You get out what you put in. I've met several utterly fantastic men off this site. You can draw your own conclusions about the fact that you haven't.

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RE: are there any real femdoms? - 3/6/2011 5:06:10 PM   
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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious


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ORIGINAL: fetisheden

well, i def havent seen any here on collarme... but ok.whatevs

See the glorious abs above this post?

You're looking at one.

You get out what you put in. I've met several utterly fantastic men off this site. You can draw your own conclusions about the fact that you haven't.



Exactly correct ... there ARE fantastic people of both genders here.

And as the Lady says, i draw conclusions myself, when you say you can't find ANY!

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RE: are there any real femdoms? - 3/6/2011 5:45:39 PM   
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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious


quote:

ORIGINAL: fetisheden

well, i def havent seen any here on collarme... but ok.whatevs

See the glorious abs above this post?

You're looking at one.

You get out what you put in. I've met several utterly fantastic men off this site. You can draw your own conclusions about the fact that you haven't.


I don't know if I'd call myself a 'slave'. I'm just a bloke looking for a kind of dominant woman, that's all. She'll be my lover and partner before anything else and I'm easy about it all beyond that. Whatever she wants, I'll try to provide, and I assume we'll iron out the creases as we go along. I just promise not to disappoint overall, that's all.

And, by the way, you are in for one *fecken* big hug when I see you next. Make sure your ribs are in good working order. ;-)

(Even though you forgot my birthday. Shame on you. *Growl*. )

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RE: are there any real femdoms? - 3/6/2011 6:02:44 PM   
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Status: offline 		Oh, you know what I mean. Slave in the looser sense of the word. Hush you. :p

And I don't think you've ever told me when your birthday ever actually was - I are not psychic! :p

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RE: are there any real femdoms? - 3/6/2011 6:18:31 PM   
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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious

Oh, you know what I mean. Slave in the looser sense of the word. Hush you. :p

And I don't think you've ever told me when your birthday ever actually was - I are not psychic! :p


See, my overriding thought with a femdom is, 'What do you want from me? What do you want me to be and to do?' And I take it for granted that the answer might not make sense to me. Women are weird, and female partners of mine are weirdest of all. I've just learned to expect nuttiness of some kind or another.

My birthday is March 2nd. If you forget it again, you will need stitches to get rid of the indentations from my teeth on your buttocks. Be warned.

S XXX

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RE: are there any real femdoms? - 3/6/2011 6:48:33 PM   
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Well done, SD. I was trying to work out a way of phrasing exactly that thought, but my usual tin of polish wasn't to hand.


Perhaps you were too busy with something else in hand... "polishing away", as it were.  Remember, you're not a twue sub unless you give twibute.  The rest of us, we're all wankers, just like you.  By the way, happy birthday, mate.  Hope you had a wonderful time. :-)

E.

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RE: are there any real femdoms? - 3/6/2011 6:58:18 PM   
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VaguelyCurious:
And I don't think you've ever told me when your birthday ever actually was - I are not psychic! :p

PeonForHer:
My birthday is March 2nd.  If you forget it again, you will need stitches to get rid of the indentations from my teeth on your buttocks.  Be warned.  S XXX.


This is one of those classic situations where nobody really cares which one of you buggered up.  We all just want to see teeth marks in VC's bum-bum.  Truly.  Honestly.  With forthrightness, sincerity, and all that whatnot.

E.

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RE: are there any real femdoms? - 3/6/2011 7:14:09 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ElanSubdued

PeonForHer

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Well done, SD. I was trying to work out a way of phrasing exactly that thought, but my usual tin of polish wasn't to hand.


Perhaps your were too busy with something else in hand... "polishing away", as it were.  Remember, you're not a twue sub unless you give twibute.  The rest of us, we're all wankers, just like you.  By the way, happy birthday, mate.  Hope you had a wonderful time. :-)



I did indeed have an ace birthday. I love my old friends - they're frigging diamonds. A big surprise party, with banners and all. And, later, I had a most excellent visit to Mrs Palmer and her five lovely daughters in order to cap a wonderful evening.

It has to be said - where's the comparison? I click on my list of favourite porny lovelies, and they're always up for it. Throbbing in delight at seeing me, banished are their knickers in a trice. By astounding coincidence, some fifteen minutes later, they're ready to go home to bed, at exactly the point that I go for the old tissue paper and do a bit of scrubbing. Magic! No 'What are you thinking?', much less 'How do you see our relationship developing?' The heart-stopping word 'commitment' never once raises its hideous, evil, ugly head. They just piss off until I need them the next morning with my standard, upon-waking stiffy.




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RE: are there any real femdoms? - 3/6/2011 8:04:53 PM   
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Status: offline 		Alrighty then, the prodomme complaining b/c there are no real slaves.

Er the majority of real slaves don't want or need a prodomme, there are looking for a relationship along with everyone else.

A prodomme is a kink service provider, nothing more, nothing less, and as such she gets paid to do what the client wants. Doing what the client wants for money removes any dom/sub aspects to the relationship, IMO. And yeah, I realize a prodomme "acts" dominant. Acting dominant for bucks is a far cry from being someone's dominant.

For the OP, you are a switch, IMO, do some research on that, b/c yeah, it does pertain to you. Considering your lack of insight and information, your arrogance is quite astounding.

Just my thought for tonight, YMMV.






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RE: are there any real femdoms? - 3/6/2011 8:35:46 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ElanSubdued

This is one of those classic situations where nobody really cares which one of you buggered up.  We all just want to see teeth marks in VC's bum-bum.  Truly.  Honestly.  With forthrightness, sincerity, and all that whatnot.



The first photos shall be yours, my dear Elan!

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RE: are there any real femdoms? - 3/6/2011 9:13:02 PM   
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Alrighty then, the prodomme complaining b/c there are no real slaves.

Er the majority of real slaves don't want or need a prodomme, there are looking for a relationship along with everyone else.

A prodomme is a kink service provider, nothing more, nothing less, and as such she gets paid to do what the client wants. Doing what the client wants for money removes any dom/sub aspects to the relationship, IMO. And yeah, I realize a prodomme "acts" dominant. Acting dominant for bucks is a far cry from being someone's dominant.

For the OP, you are a switch, IMO, do some research on that, b/c yeah, it does pertain to you. Considering your lack of insight and information, your arrogance is quite astounding.

Just my thought for tonight, YMMV.

In fairness, there wasn't a complaint.  It was an inquiry.  One that I stand firm in My belief that a person competent about the local community shouldn't have to ask. 

I have such confusion with threads like this.  Every now and again, we'll get some 'pro' in a major metropolitan area who will come to the boards with some version of "lack of males".  Sorry, but I call shenanigans.  Can you folks just imagine Me in a major city having issues finding submissives?  I couldn't say that with a straight face even if I tried.


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