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What to do - 1/2/2011 7:42:07 AM   
Bromanx


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RE: What to do - 1/2/2011 7:43:14 AM   
omkfY


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RE: What to do - 1/2/2011 8:14:56 AM   
GreedyTop


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dont be a do-me sub/bottom.

remember that if you want a woman like that, it is more about what SHE wants than what you want.

Let her know what you can offer HER.

(edited to correct for crappy typing skills)


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RE: What to do - 1/2/2011 8:17:42 AM   
DarkSteven


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2. Spend more than a single day on collarme.

Those will do for starters.  Then you can look into local groups.


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RE: What to do - 1/2/2011 8:33:33 AM   
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Status: offline 		I would have to agree and another thing is...patience and keep looking.

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RE: What to do - 1/2/2011 8:38:52 AM   
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RE: What to do - 1/2/2011 3:57:27 PM   
dreamerdreaming


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And, what everyone else said.

Or: you could always use a pro-domme, if you really want someone to cater to your specific needs and desires, and aren't really into serving someone else's needs. Pro-dommes provide a valuable service, for do-me subs.

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RE: What to do - 1/2/2011 4:04:24 PM   
Lockit


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You create a profile on a sex site, come up with a silly question that proves you didn't do any research yourself or have any original or creative thought of your own and then give all those dominatrix's women a good laugh! You know the way to a woman's heart and bed I might add... is laughter. Okay, you may be kneeling beside it blindfolded so that you can only hear the good fun she is having with another that was far more creative and did his research, wanting nothing handed to him... but oh well, at least you got something.

Do I lose my dominatrix badge on this one? Giving false hope to the poor creature?


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RE: What to do - 1/2/2011 4:08:47 PM   
mummyman321


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Can I shine your badge for you? :)

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RE: What to do - 1/2/2011 4:16:40 PM   
Lockit


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RE: What to do - 1/2/2011 6:11:38 PM   
seekingOwnertoo


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ORIGINAL: Lockit

Do I lose my dominatrix badge on this one? Giving false hope to the poor creature?


quote:

Okay, you may be kneeling beside it blindfolded so that you can only hear the good fun she is having with another that was far more creative and did his research, wanting nothing handed to him...


Oh no, You get promoted! A Higher level badge!

ROFL .... what a GREAT Cuckold scene!

Perfectly Domme ... too!


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RE: What to do - 1/2/2011 6:25:13 PM   
seekingOwnertoo


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ORIGINAL: Bromanx

What does a man gotta do to find a mistress that will do what ever she like with him?



You might try READING ... start with the "are there any real femdoms?" thread ....

You are only the second person to ask this ... today!

I am beginning to understand why these Ladies eventually get annoyed!

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RE: What to do - 1/2/2011 6:30:37 PM   
AquaticSub


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ORIGINAL: Bromanx

What does a man gotta do to find a mistress that will do what ever she like with him?


Be the man she wants.

The trick is figuring out what woman you want to belong to, what she wants and if you fit the bill.


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RE: What to do - 1/4/2011 12:29:55 PM   
vagabondduo


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Status: offline 		I read your profile. It seems to be saying that you'll do anything for any Mistress who "hires" you. Does that mean you expect to be paid for your services?

Quite frankly, the reason there are so many Prodommes is due to the fact that there are few female Dommes compared to the numerous male submissives. So, what is so special about you that some Mistress would be willing to pay you for what a dozen others will provide for free?

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RE: What to do - 1/4/2011 1:01:37 PM   
LadyNTrainer


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ORIGINAL: Bromanx

What does a man gotta do to find a mistress that will do what ever she like with him?


Be an interesting, engaging person who is fun to spend time with and genuinely interested in what his partner thinks and how she feels and who she is as a person.  Don't be selfish, cock-centric, obsessed with talking about or asking for kinky sex before you even get to know a person, or otherwise act like a jerk.  Be genuinely nice, friendly, warm and positive.  Don't focus on the negatives (eg, complaining in your profile about fakes and scammers, we all know they exist, get over it and learn how to avoid them).  Think of "mistresses" as human beings first, real people, women who are probably a lot like any other woman you've ever dated, except that they're interested in D/s too.  Avoid talking about or thinking of mistresses like objects or things. 

We're real people, and the single biggest mistake that most new "subs" make here is forgetting that.  You have to take time to get to know real people before they will want an intimate relationship with you.  There are no quick shortcuts past that, just because you've found a site where the women are kinky too.  This doesn't mean they will want to be intimate with you instantly, and if you expect or demand that of us, we're probably going to be disgusted and creeped out and tell you to get lost.  Or we'll tell you to hire a pro domme, because that is the only guaranteed successful path to instant kinky play with a woman you have not taken the time to get to know as a person and develop an enjoyable personal relationship with that works in the real world, not just in the bad porn world. 




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