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RE: Searching for the G-Spot. - 1/3/2011 6:54:22 PM   
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Oh honestly... women from the midwest aren't sheltered from the big wide world.  Sheesh.  You make it sound like Nebraska women are sequestered from knowledge that's available in any edition of Cosmo. 


No no...not Nebraska but have you by chance met the women who are from Cincinnati? :)

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RE: Searching for the G-Spot. - 1/3/2011 6:58:27 PM   
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No no...not Nebraska but have you by chance met the women who are from Cincinnati? :)


Perhaps it isn't that the women in Nebraska or Cincinnati are naive... but the men in those areas are sexually inept. 

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RE: Searching for the G-Spot. - 1/3/2011 6:59:58 PM   
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Status: offline 		On the western side of Nebraska, the population is rather small and spread out. It's telling that there's exactly one sex toy store within a couple hundred mile radius. However, there are countless signs for pro-life and religious right ideals. On top of that, take a look on collarme or fetlife and see how many profiles exist in Western Nebraska. These are very isolated communities with staunch republican ideals.

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RE: Searching for the G-Spot. - 1/3/2011 7:00:38 PM   
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Perhaps it isn't that the women in Nebraska or Cincinnati are naive... but the men in those areas are sexually inept. 



Inept is such a harsh word. Inexperienced sounds so much better :)

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RE: Searching for the G-Spot. - 1/3/2011 7:02:58 PM   
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No no...not Nebraska but have you by chance met the women who are from Cincinnati? :)


Perhaps it isn't that the women in Nebraska or Cincinnati are naive... but the men in those areas are sexually inept. 



Hold on now. So the men can be sexually inept, but not the women?

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RE: Searching for the G-Spot. - 1/3/2011 7:03:03 PM   
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No no...not Nebraska but have you by chance met the women who are from Cincinnati? :)


Perhaps it isn't that the women in Nebraska or Cincinnati are naive... but the men in those areas are sexually inept. 


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RE: Searching for the G-Spot. - 1/3/2011 7:08:03 PM   
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On the western side of Nebraska, the population is rather small and spread out. It's telling that there's exactly one sex toy store within a couple hundred mile radius. However, there are countless signs for pro-life and religious right ideals. On top of that, take a look on collarme or fetlife and see how many profiles exist in Western Nebraska. These are very isolated communities with staunch republican ideals.


The lack of sex toy store locations isn't relevant in this day and age of the internet and online shopping.  The presence or lack thereof of a high percentage of kinksters registered at this (or any other) BDSM site has absolutely nothing to do with proving that women from a particular area lack experience or knowledge about their bodies.  Believe it or not, you don't have to be into kink (or have to even be aware that kink exists) to know what a G-spot is or where to find it.

As for strong conservative ideas... what on earth does that have to do with anything related to understanding the sexual workings of women?

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RE: Searching for the G-Spot. - 1/3/2011 7:11:13 PM   
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Hold on now. So the men can be sexually inept, but not the women?


Were you saying the women were inept, or inexperienced?  There's a difference.

Put it this way... if a man fails to bring me to orgasm, is it because he's inept or because I don't know orgasms exist (how to have one, or unpracticed at having one... take your pick)?

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RE: Searching for the G-Spot. - 1/3/2011 7:25:56 PM   
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On the western side of Nebraska, the population is rather small and spread out. It's telling that there's exactly one sex toy store within a couple hundred mile radius. However, there are countless signs for pro-life and religious right ideals. On top of that, take a look on collarme or fetlife and see how many profiles exist in Western Nebraska. These are very isolated communities with staunch republican ideals.


The lack of sex toy store locations isn't relevant in this day and age of the internet and online shopping.  The presence or lack thereof of a high percentage of kinksters registered at this (or any other) BDSM site has absolutely nothing to do with proving that women from a particular area lack experience or knowledge about their bodies.  Believe it or not, you don't have to be into kink (or have to even be aware that kink exists) to know what a G-spot is or where to find it.

As for strong conservative ideas... what on earth does that have to do with anything related to understanding the sexual workings of women?



We are products of our environment. Strong conservative religions tend to villify sex when not for the purpose of makun' babies. But since you refuse to believe that I might know more about where I'm living than someone who's never lived here, I'm not going to waste my time.

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RE: Searching for the G-Spot. - 1/3/2011 7:30:22 PM   
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Hold on now. So the men can be sexually inept, but not the women?


Were you saying the women were inept, or inexperienced?  There's a difference.

Put it this way... if a man fails to bring me to orgasm, is it because he's inept or because I don't know orgasms exist (how to have one, or unpracticed at having one... take your pick)?



I specifically said that the women I've been with were inexperienced. I said that more than once, actually. And I do agree that the men around here are most likely just as inexperienced. I'll ask some of the women I work with that are also transplants. This whole area, not just the women, are several stepa behind other more liberal areas. I just hope no one around here finds out i'm agnostic and supported an ex who had an abortion. I'd be in danger.

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RE: Searching for the G-Spot. - 1/3/2011 7:37:24 PM   
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We are products of our environment. Strong conservative religions tend to villify sex when not for the purpose of makun' babies. But since you refuse to believe that I might know more about where I'm living than someone who's never lived here, I'm not going to waste my time.


As a woman from the midwest (rural Missouri, to be exact), and having been raised in a strict Southern Baptist home, I suspect I know a thing or two about the environment of which you speak.

I also suspect that you have a very biased opinion based on very little fact.

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... This whole area, not just the women, are several stepa behind other more liberal areas. I just hope no one around here finds out i'm agnostic and supported an ex who had an abortion. I'd be in danger.


Sheesh. 


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RE: Searching for the G-Spot. - 1/3/2011 7:43:13 PM   
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We are products of our environment. Strong conservative religions tend to villify sex when not for the purpose of makun' babies. But since you refuse to believe that I might know more about where I'm living than someone who's never lived here, I'm not going to waste my time.


As a woman from the midwest (rural Missouri, to be exact), and having been raised in a strict Southern Baptist home, I suspect I know a thing or two about the environment of which you speak.

I also suspect that you have a very biased opinion based on very little fact.



All I have is my experience with the handful of women I've been with. And my comments dealt only with them, and my theories as to why they are the way they are. Did I presume to cast ALL women im this area into the same category? Nope. Once again, that's something I've said more than once. It's not hard to go to page 3 and read my previous posts. The rest is speculation about the area as a whole.

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RE: Searching for the G-Spot. - 1/3/2011 7:55:03 PM   
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Status: offline 		I can attest the Gspot does in fact exist. I have never failed to find it in any fem I have been with. The exact position varies, the response does not.

That so few females in the US have identified their own Gspot tells you how ignorant about sex we are in this country (just not Neb).

As far as the study that not all females have a Gspot? Well I know all females do not orgasm, how sad is that? I have absolutely no scientific evidence for this, but I think it's all about female sexual ignorance. And before you fems get on me, where are the experienced males teaching them the right way? The males are even less experienced than the females. Every man I ever met who REALLY knew what to do with a female in bed had a female who taught him exactly what to do.

You want a man you can do what you want? Tell him exactly what you want. Then show him. If he loves you, he will be happy to take lessons (dom or sub). This, as always, is just my opinion.


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RE: Searching for the G-Spot. - 1/3/2011 8:07:11 PM   
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I can attest the Gspot does in fact exist. I have never failed to find it in any fem I have been with. The exact position varies, the response does not.

That so few females in the US have identified their own Gspot tells you how ignorant about sex we are in this country (just not Neb).

As far as the study that not all females have a Gspot? Well I know all females do not orgasm, how sad is that? I have absolutely no scientific evidence for this, but I think it's all about female sexual ignorance. And before you fems get on me, where are the experienced males teaching them the right way? The males are even less experienced than the females. Every man I ever met who REALLY knew what to do with a female in bed had a female who taught him exactly what to do.

You want a man you can do what you want? Tell him exactly what you want. Then show him. If he loves you, he will be happy to take lessons (dom or sub). This, as always, is just my opinion.



The most important lesson I ever learned was patience. I absolutely adore the female body because if you do it right, the whole damn thing is an erogenous zone. You just need patience, and the willingness to explore.

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RE: Searching for the G-Spot. - 1/3/2011 9:16:50 PM   
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No no...not Nebraska but have you by chance met the women who are from Cincinnati? :)


....Bite me.
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RE: Searching for the G-Spot. - 1/4/2011 3:40:23 AM   
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No no...not Nebraska but have you by chance met the women who are from Cincinnati? :)


....Bite me.
And no, that is not permission to actually do it.


Okay, now just how am I supposed to bite you if I am actually not allow to do it? The least you could do is tie me up first then tell me to bite you!

Clarification point:
My post was not to say the women in Cincinnati know nothing about the G-spot. The point I was trying to make is that there are very few dominant women actually in Cincinnati. Why do I sat this? Set the age filter: 38 to 99. Set the other filters for Domme Women looking for sub men. And presto you get 3 Dommes. Now those odds just rather suck!

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RE: Searching for the G-Spot. - 1/4/2011 4:53:18 AM   
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I've never seen any evidence for the "G-spot". I think it's a non-visible portion of the clitoris which is being stimulated (the clitoris is much larger than the little nub which portrudes just under the prepuce.


Nope, although the clitoris is indeed analogous to the shaft of the penis, with the exposed clitoris like the head of the penis, but the bulb of the clitoris goes UP, then back then splits, tucked under the labia. That's why we call a female erection a wide-on, and why it feels so gooo oood to grind against a man's erection: heat, solidity and girth against our own, mm, mmm!
Think prostate when you're thinking g-spot, which like the prostate also collars the urethra [outside canal from the bladder] in women; just as if the urethra is very short and comes out under the base of the penis in a man. So, the g-spot and the clitoris are separated by a few inches.

Note the 3rd illustration on this page, labelled in an Asian language. http://www.thefullwiki.org/Clitoris



From your link, Tantriqu: "More recently, Australian urologist Dr Helen O'Connell, using MRI technology, noted a direct relationship between the legs or roots of the clitoris and the erectile tissue of the clitoral bulbs and corpora, and the distal urethra and vagina.[6] She asserts that this interconnected relationship is the physiological explanation for the conjectured G-spot and experience of vaginal orgasm taking into account the stimulation of the internal parts of the clitoris during vaginal penetration.[7]"

THis is what I was getting at, and which I reckon I didn't explain very well. Upon reflection, "G-spot" is as good a term as any for the place. I wonder if there is some nerve cluster or bundle at that spot which makes it so sensitive? I've not seen any anatomy pics which go into that much detail.

Here's a good article: http://www.cirp.org/news/clitoris/


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RE: Searching for the G-Spot. - 1/4/2011 5:01:03 AM   
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.The gspot is absolutely heaven.

And yes indeed, it is heaven.


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RE: Searching for the G-Spot. - 1/4/2011 5:49:53 AM   
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RE: Searching for the G-Spot. - 1/4/2011 12:17:35 PM   
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No no...not Nebraska but have you by chance met the women who are from Cincinnati? :)


....Bite me.
And no, that is not permission to actually do it.


Okay, now just how am I supposed to bite you if I am actually not allow to do it? The least you could do is tie me up first then tell me to bite you!

Clarification point:
My post was not to say the women in Cincinnati know nothing about the G-spot. The point I was trying to make is that there are very few dominant women actually in Cincinnati. Why do I sat this? Set the age filter: 38 to 99. Set the other filters for Domme Women looking for sub men. And presto you get 3 Dommes. Now those odds just rather suck!



Real Dominant men weren't that much easier to find back when I was there either. I had to become a traitor and snag me one from Michigan..


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