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RE: Asset management by a Mistress - 1/5/2011 3:25:40 AM

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Thanks for the reply DommeKeliDallas, and indeed, if nothing is forever, then why care so much about losing it all, right?

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RE: Asset management by a Mistress - 1/5/2011 3:57:22 AM

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I don't know about your local laws, but if you gift someone your whole assets, you can sue them successfully to recover it at the end of the relationship. They will have to prove that they gave you something equal in value. Especially when duress can so easily be charged.

Your kink now is imagining, fantasizing that you are homeless while she enjoys your parents hard work and is living high on your inheritance. Please keep in mind that if the relationship ends unhappily, you will at that point no longer being enjoying this kink. I would suggest you spend the next six months living under a bridge as a trial period before deciding to do this for real.

Moreover, her responsibility as the person in charge of your relationship requires that she thinks first of your well being, before your kinks. As such, she ought to be forbidding any such wholesale transfer of assets.

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RE: Asset management by a Mistress - 1/5/2011 4:05:13 AM

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ORIGINAL: sever1n

Thanks for the reply DommeKeliDallas, and indeed, if nothing is forever, then why care so much about losing it all, right?

Start paying your salary into her account, you can test drive financial control this way, and yes you can always change it, but since you don't want to change it nobody will force you to change it. Isn't it much more of a commitment if you do it out of your own free will?

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RE: Asset management by a Mistress - 1/5/2011 6:23:15 AM

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP
Your kink now is imagining, fantasizing that you are homeless while she enjoys your parents hard work and is living high on your inheritance. Please keep in mind that if the relationship ends unhappily, you will at that point no longer being enjoying this kink. I would suggest you spend the next six months living under a bridge as a trial period before deciding to do this for real.

Moreover, her responsibility as the person in charge of your relationship requires that she thinks first of your well being, before your kinks. As such, she ought to be forbidding any such wholesale transfer of assets.

Thanks DesFIP for yet another reply. I have to mention though that I don't think I have made myself clear enough. I don't fantasize about being thrown out in the street. That is not my goal, contrary to what you're implying. Also, it's not about my parents' hard work and my inheritance but also about my own revenue. As I wrote before several times, I am aware I won't be enjoying being thrown out on the street as much as I enjoy living my life the way I do now. While I am sure you mean well, I don't think something as drastic as living six months under a bridge is needed, since the probability of me actually getting there even if I do go through with this is very, very small. To make it clearer, every time one drives a car they might be getting into an accident that leaves them paralyzed. Would you spend six months immobilized just to make sure you really want to keep driving?

About Her responsibility, you are right, and actually I had a really hard time convincing Her to agree to this, in principle, especially since She's a very humane, considerate kind of person. You seem to be very categorical about what people generically "ought" to be doing, to the point where it is a bit amusing :-)

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RE: Asset management by a Mistress - 1/5/2011 6:25:49 AM

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Thanks for Your kind reply AngelicaGoddess, and I agree that paying my salary into Her account is a nice start. She is already in possession of my credit cards, but actually changing the destination account for my salary is even better, so thanks again and will definitely do that :-)

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