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NihilusZero -> RE: Weight (1/12/2011 3:06:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: majiksub And yes I told him that but he still called me a pig and fat. Is there any indication that they are under the presumption that this is an okay topic for degradation/humiliation play for you when it isn't or do they say these things only when pissed off? Inevitably, it may not necessarily even be about your weight sometimes. Some people just like keying in on the most hurtful things to say when they get angry.

defiantbadgirl -> RE: Weight (1/12/2011 3:59:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: majiksub [:@] I am a big woman and I tend to be up very up front about it. So why is it after I have made it so perfectly clear that insults or negative comments about my weight will not be tolerated in any way that some Doms still have to go there. I don't understand I may be a sub with lots of Slave tendencies but I am still a human. Am I wrong in that assumption? Doms don't deliberately violate hard limits. If a Dom seeking a sub is turned off by a sub's hard limits, he won't consider that sub as an option period. A narcissist, on the other hand, will continually violate hard limits to feed his ego and laugh about it. Narcissists love to control and often try to disguise themselves as Doms, but their deliberate violations of hard limits make them easy to spot.

Twoshoes -> RE: Weight (1/12/2011 8:49:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl Doms don't deliberately violate hard limits. If a Dom seeking a sub is turned off by a sub's hard limits, he won't consider that sub as an option period. A narcissist, on the other hand, will continually violate hard limits to feed his ego and laugh about it. Narcissists love to control and often try to disguise themselves as Doms, but their deliberate violations of hard limits make them easy to spot. I think you have a very misconstrued understanding of the term 'narcissism'.

allthatjaz -> RE: Weight (1/13/2011 2:51:06 AM)
When someone verbally insults you there has to be something in it for them. If you respond and no matter how you respond, its like giving them currency... They Win. If you don't respond then they have gained nothing from it whatsoever and so will go off and look for currency elsewhere. The reason people needlessly insult is all about control but its an unhealthy control. These are the same sort of people that would make bogus telephone calls to women. They are odd attention seekers and they should never be a threat to your feelings, emotions or confidence because they do not represent men as a whole.

BlisfullyBlessed -> RE: Weight (1/14/2011 4:26:01 AM)
Without reading all of the other responses you've already had: Unless it's a medical issue, size doesn't matter, heart and mind do. If someone cannot respect a request right off, most likely they will never respect you. Move on to those that would empower you.

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