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Looking for a BBW to sit on my face - 1/4/2011 5:34:32 AM   
Ragnar34


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Status: offline 		Am I on the right site for this? I thought this site would be full of such people into this, but hardly any profiles seem to even use the word facesit. Those few that do seem to only be in it for the money. I don't want to be a sub or slave in any other way. Is there a different site where I would have more luck finding what I want?
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RE: Looking for a BBW to sit on my face - 1/4/2011 5:39:32 AM   
LadyConstanze


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Status: offline 		Well, unfortunately this is not the site for "free fetish gratification", try Alt.com

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RE: Looking for a BBW to sit on my face - 1/4/2011 5:43:26 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Ragnar34

Am I on the right site for this? I thought this site would be full of such people into this, but hardly any profiles seem to even use the word facesit. Those few that do seem to only be in it for the money. I don't want to be a sub or slave in any other way. Is there a different site where I would have more luck finding what I want?



so...you don't want to invest any time or effort into a relationship where somebody will indulge you in your fetish, but you don't want to pay?

That's a tall order there, buddy.

try alt.com, fetlife.com or adultfriendfinder.com

if none of those work for you, you may need to either

a) visit a prodomme

or

b) invest time in a relationship.

Good luck.


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RE: Looking for a BBW to sit on my face - 1/4/2011 5:51:02 AM   
ThePeripatetic


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ORIGINAL: MissAsylum

so...you don't want to invest any time or effort into a relationship where somebody will indulge you in your fetish, but you don't want to pay?

That's a tall order there, buddy.

try alt.com, fetlife.com or adultfriendfinder.com



Just my opinion but I don't think fetlife should be thrown into that category. The way I've seen it used amongst kink community members is more for sharing stories, pics, and random info about the community, not so much about hookups and quick fixes.

Craigslist, alt, and adultfriendfinder yeah. Fet, not so much.

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RE: Looking for a BBW to sit on my face - 1/4/2011 6:00:33 AM   
DarkSteven


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I thought this site would be full of such people into this,


Most of us are into the mental aspects of D/s.  And the wimmins all seem to want relationships.  The way you describe it, makes it almost sound like ordering a pizza delivery.

I'd recommend you connect with a local group and meet people there.  Maybe some of them are into facesitting.


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RE: Looking for a BBW to sit on my face - 1/4/2011 6:04:52 AM   
MissAsylum


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ORIGINAL: ThePeripatetic


quote:

ORIGINAL: MissAsylum

so...you don't want to invest any time or effort into a relationship where somebody will indulge you in your fetish, but you don't want to pay?

That's a tall order there, buddy.

try alt.com, fetlife.com or adultfriendfinder.com



Just my opinion but I don't think fetlife should be thrown into that category. The way I've seen it used amongst kink community members is more for sharing stories, pics, and random info about the community, not so much about hookups and quick fixes.

Craigslist, alt, and adultfriendfinder yeah. Fet, not so much.


i believe that is what fetlife is for too, however, thats all my inbox was filled with- kinky requests such as the one above.

so hey, it may work for him. who knows?€

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RE: Looking for a BBW to sit on my face - 1/4/2011 6:10:32 AM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		Yes, you did make a mistake.  Most folks here don't tend to use the site just for a sexual hook up.  Dominant women do tend to be interested in those who are submissive, rather than those who just have a facesitting fetish.  You might want to try AFF if you're just interested in smothering.  From what I've heard, Alt isn't worth the membership fee these days.  Even with those, don't be really shocked if you don't have a lot of success.  Just joining a site isn't a guarantee that you're going to find a woman who is willing to cater to your kink.

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RE: Looking for a BBW to sit on my face - 1/4/2011 10:00:52 AM   
LadyNTrainer


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ORIGINAL: Ragnar34
Am I on the right site for this? I thought this site would be full of such people into this, but hardly any profiles seem to even use the word facesit. Those few that do seem to only be in it for the money. I don't want to be a sub or slave in any other way. Is there a different site where I would have more luck finding what I want?


Yeah, you need to go to the drive-through McDomme's where you can order up a domme who will look the way you want, dress the way you want and do the exact sex acts you want just because you want it.

Or you could try, you know, treating women in the lifestyle like they were real human beings and investing the time in building an actual relationship that becomes intimate enough for both of you to really enjoy kinky sex with one another. 

Naah, clearly the latter is too much to ask of someone like you.  You're just going to have to find that drive-through McDomme's.  There are none located on this site; I'm afraid we're all actual human beings here, not Happy Meals. 


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RE: Looking for a BBW to sit on my face - 1/4/2011 10:18:38 AM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		Ragnar, as all have said, its not as easy as saying 'Sit on my face, my dear, and I will eat my way to your heart.'

They want to jaw at you awhile before that.

Ron(ne)

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RE: Looking for a BBW to sit on my face - 1/4/2011 10:35:12 AM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		Ragnar, I bet your parents bought that fancy suit you're wearing, because I'm sure that didn't come cheap and if you can't use your head enough to realize how badly you are presenting yourself, I can't imagine that you would be able to do anything to afford that suit.

I know you want face sitting, you're into the wrong kink. You need ball crushing and that is on isle 38 at the local Domina Mart. Just in case you have enough wherewithal to actually hear something here... women are not a commodity to be directed by stranger type men that expect something sexual provided just because they are in a certain place at a certain time.

Don't you know, most women want to like a man before they sit anywhere on his body? We may well like face sitting... its that sexual object thing we have a problem with. My suggestion... let the blood flow, flow back into your head... cause the little one is ruining things for you.


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RE: Looking for a BBW to sit on my face - 1/4/2011 11:57:49 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Ragnar34

Am I on the right site for this? I thought this site would be full of such people into this, but hardly any profiles seem to even use the word facesit. Those few that do seem to only be in it for the money. I don't want to be a sub or slave in any other way. Is there a different site where I would have more luck finding what I want?


Here you go!





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RE: Looking for a BBW to sit on my face - 1/4/2011 11:57:49 AM   
PeonForHer


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As a matter of interest, what's the maximum weight a man's face could take before the cheekbones are in danger of cracking?  I'd imagine the woman would have to be quite small if she's putting her entire weight onto her botty.  Ouch!

LadyNTrainer - you always know the answer to this sort of question.  Front and centre, now!

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RE: Looking for a BBW to sit on my face - 1/4/2011 12:07:07 PM   
LadyNTrainer


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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer
As a matter of interest, what's the maximum weight a man's face could take before the cheekbones are in danger of cracking?  I'd imagine the woman would have to be quite small if she's putting her entire weight onto her botty.  Ouch!


Don't know.  Don't care either.  Stress testing the human zygomatic arch is neither my kink nor my area of expertise.


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LadyNTrainer - you always know the answer to this sort of question.  Front and centre, now!


Damned uppity Brits. Do we have to kick your ass in a war again, or what?


< Message edited by LadyNTrainer -- 1/4/2011 12:39:43 PM >

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RE: Looking for a BBW to sit on my face - 1/4/2011 12:12:29 PM   
sexyred1


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Status: offline 		OP, I really have to echo what most said here. If all you want is a BBW to sit on your face, you are going to have to pay someone to do it or start a vanilla relationship with a BBW and ask her to incorporate that into your sex life. If you are not interested in being a sub or slave, then you simply have a fetish and it is not of interest to anyone here to be a life support system for your fetish for free.

< Message edited by sexyred1 -- 1/4/2011 12:13:02 PM >

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RE: Looking for a BBW to sit on my face - 1/4/2011 12:14:29 PM   
PeonForHer


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< Message edited by PeonForHer -- 1/4/2011 12:50:45 PM >

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RE: Looking for a BBW to sit on my face - 1/4/2011 1:04:26 PM   
LadyNTrainer


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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

Gawd. 


I'm glad you have finally recognized my authority, but you're spelling it wrong. 


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RE: Looking for a BBW to sit on my face - 1/4/2011 1:08:24 PM   
PeonForHer


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RE: Looking for a BBW to sit on my face - 1/4/2011 1:49:20 PM   
OttersSwim


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Status: offline 		All you darn uppety wimmins...why can't you just sit where the "submissive" tells you to?!!

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RE: Looking for a BBW to sit on my face - 1/4/2011 2:44:54 PM   
PeonForHer


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Status: offline 		Do you think reverse psychology might work?  If I were to order a gorgeous female visitor to sit in my armchair, in haughty tones, do you think she might say, "Up yours matey.  I'm going to sit on your face instead!'.

Well, it's a thought.  A stupid one, admittedly, but a thought. 

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RE: Looking for a BBW to sit on my face - 1/4/2011 2:49:55 PM   
LadyConstanze


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All you darn uppety wimmins...why can't you just sit where the "submissive" tells you to?!!


Because our arses have some pride

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