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Introduction Take 2 - 1/4/2011 8:34:47 AM

SissyObeyingSlut

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To all Mistresses/Dommes/Subs,

After a fatal first attempt at introducing myself I am attempting a second time with the guidance of a specific lady on the site who has aided my newbie status.

So here goes;

4 months ago, at home bred doing nothing having that sexual frustration and inner naughtiness dying to break free i decided to explore the internet for sexual fantasies that had interested me previously. The longer i looked, the more interested i became, the more i played the more i ventured into new and untried sexual acts on myself. Yes i will admit i have been a very bad slave enduring acts anally and pain humiliation while on cam.

After a few months of playing and again not finding something that satisfied me, a woman took control of me and i had no way of stopping this. It only resulted in me being a sub on cam, but i loved it!! I loved the thought of serving women in anyway possible, whether it be sexual, holistically, sadistic acts or humiliation i want to try it.

Since discovery my new fetish/love for 0 power, i have explored many sites leading myself to this one! I am a young, outgoing and adventurous guy who seeks a mistress/Domme who will accept me for who I am and use me in anyway they desire. Yes I do have limits as anyone does, but I am yet to find these as having little experience with this situation.

I fantasise about being locked into a harness, having no say it what happens and letting the mistress(s) do as they pelase to my body and have me do whatever is needed to satisfy them.

I hope I have open at leats one mistresses eyes to what i can do as a slave/sub for them

Thank you

Sis,

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RE: Introduction Take 2 - 1/4/2011 9:54:24 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SissyObeyingSlut
I hope I have open at leats one mistresses eyes to what i can do as a slave/sub for them

I'm afraid that mostly what you have done is to state clearly that you are here because you are bored and horny and looking for sex gratification. That has absolutely nothing to do with what you could do *for another person*. You're here strictly for your own jollies, and that generally puts you in the "annoying horny twit who wants his fetish serviced" category rather than the "genuinely submissive and interested in doing stuff for a dominant" category.

D/s and really all human relationships are a two way street. You're stuck going in only one direction right now, the direction of obsessively seeking out what yanks your crank and basically ignoring or at the very least not really bothering to focus on what your prospective partners may want or care about. This thing that we do is about other human beings, and the not-very-submissive play fetishists who forget that are going to remain alone and playing by themselves for a very long time.

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RE: Introduction Take 2 - 1/4/2011 10:30:37 AM

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Really, really, really........ They do have an introductions section.

Even at that, it always amazes Me how some folks choose to introduce themselves. I've yet to meet a person in real life who would walk into a room full of strangers and decided it was appropriate to base that introduction on the things they have shoved up their own ass.

If only males would ever have the insight to come to these forums and get the fact that complete strangers don't care about their ass, their cock, or their kinks. That tends to be the things that people who are intimately involved with you or your friends who are on some level of interest with you will want to talk about.

As for the rest, congratulations. You are now just like every other person who has decided that self inflicted sexual distractions are more fun than being bored. If you're having fun on cam and people on the other end are more interested in watching that than doing their nails, more power to you. Enjoy yourself and have a blast......

But the sadist in Me is going to laugh My ass off the day you end up on You-Tube.

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RE: Introduction Take 2 - 1/4/2011 10:38:58 AM

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I am sorry, but i feel yet again I have come across in the wrong manner!! I wish to be here to build a relationship with a mistress and serve her, not just for my pleasure but for the pure fact of satisfying her and building that relationship...

As i have done before, I have only recently been on here and trying to gauge the correct manner in which to approach and introduce myself has been somewhat complex and difficult to achieve.

I also looking for tips on how i should improve my manners actions and expressions on here...

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RE: Introduction Take 2 - 1/4/2011 10:42:50 AM

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Go to ask a Mistress and read the FAQ, and talk out there on something besides sex.

Show the person, the brainstem attached to the penis.

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RE: Introduction Take 2 - 1/4/2011 10:45:56 AM

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Agree with Ron. They have the FAQ at the top of the page. They also have section guidelines at the top of every section, so you can know what kinds of questions go where.

Welcome to the forums and thank you for removing the primary pic that you had up originally.

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RE: Introduction Take 2 - 1/4/2011 10:51:34 AM

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I am trying to learn lady pact, and i am generally trying to seek a mistress i can bond with and serve!! It is nto just bored and filling my sexual acts!

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RE: Introduction Take 2 - 1/4/2011 10:55:07 AM

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Sis,

As an idea, tone it down, first of all thanks for changing your picture, you can rely on one thing, if women here want to see you dressed up in your finery, they will ask for a picture of you doing so.

Then possibly not getting too specific about what you have done or want to do straight away, you know it's a case of TMI for strangers, get people to know, read what they've got to say.

Though the 2nd try is much better than your first. Listen, you've discovered this about 6 months ago, there won't be an "instant fix", read up on things, do the grunt work, I mean if you walk into a pub or a club, you don't expect to pull straight away, do you? It's not different here.

How about you just take part in the conversations? That would be a good start.

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RE: Introduction Take 2 - 1/4/2011 11:15:53 AM

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I also looking for tips on how i should improve my manners actions and expressions on here...

STFU about what gets your dick hard. Seriously. Don't tell total strangers about your sexual fantasies of being used, sissified, etc, not right off the bat. Don't make everything you say be about your kinky sex desires. If you wouldn't say it in pleasant friendly conversation with someone you were meeting for the first time in person at a casual restaurant Munch, don't be That Creepy Guy and say it on the Internet.

Be a real human being and treat others here who happen to be in the lifestyle like human beings. Lead with your brains, your personality, your vanilla interests and your good manners, not your dick. Express an interest in getting to know others here as human beings. Ask about their vanilla interests and what makes them who they are as people. Participate in discussions here and talk about kink from a more interesting and intelligent perspective, not just "I want this, do this to me."

That's pretty much the key to success here. It's simple really, but it can be a hard lesson to learn.

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RE: Introduction Take 2 - 1/4/2011 4:01:17 PM

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Welcome to CM and the boards. Yeah, good luck with that. You've been given great advice, my suggestion is to take it. A huge dose of reality just hit you between the eyes, read some of the newer and older threads and see the difference between a good one and a trainwreck.

This one started out as a trainwreck, try to turn it around before the next corner. Juuuuuuuuuuuuust sayin..........

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