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Hello Ladies?? - 1/5/2011 6:16:37 AM   
sxcnlustful


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Status: offline 		Hi there I'm just wondering are there actually any women on this site that are interested in fun? As it seems to me that it is all just men
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RE: Hello Ladies?? - 1/5/2011 6:33:57 AM   
GreedyTop


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RE: Hello Ladies?? - 1/5/2011 8:19:52 AM   
Killerangel


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Status: offline 		As GT pointed out fun is relative to the person. I wouldn't consider what you are looking for to be fun, but that's just me. After looking at your profile it seems as though you are looking for the ever elusive unicorn to join you and your partner in kinky sex. From what I've read on these forums it's difficult to find someone interested in that for various reasons.

So...to answer your question, yes there are women on this site interested in fun as they themselves define it. There are fewer women than men looking for this fun overall, and the particular role you want this woman for will be even harder to fill.

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RE: Hello Ladies?? - 1/5/2011 8:31:12 AM   
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Status: offline 		All of the above and I wanted to add one more thing...after looking at your profile you are into some things that aren't for everyone. If you did manage to find a woman who would join an established couple for NSA sex (you don't offer poly) it's not like she can't find that a bazillion other places and the particular activities you and your partner are into aren't for everyone. In particular watersports, taking pics/video (although you state that is not essential), and 'risky sex' were listed. If I were looking, that wouldn't be a selling point in my book.

Welcome to CM, I hope you are successful in your search. Just wanted you to know it might take a while longer than a bit over a month.

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RE: Hello Ladies?? - 1/5/2011 8:38:57 AM   
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Status: offline 		Welcome to the boards. Good luck in your search. That ever elusive unicorn will be a hard and long find. What do you have to offer her that would differentiate you from every other couple looking for a 3rd?

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RE: Hello Ladies?? - 1/5/2011 8:40:05 AM   
GreedyTop


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op.. why not just go down to skid row??

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RE: Hello Ladies?? - 1/6/2011 4:16:35 AM   
kalikshama


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Status: offline 		While I previously may have been tempted into your kind of fun, I've concluded that I need to be the Alpha female in any future poly relationship and that I'm not going to bother with anything that hints of NSA.


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RE: Hello Ladies?? - 1/6/2011 8:02:24 AM   
LadyConstanze


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quote:

ORIGINAL: sxcnlustful

Hi there I'm just wondering are there actually any women on this site that are interested in fun? As it seems to me that it is all just men


I guess your idea of fun isn't what most other women (including me) see as fun, seems you want something that most escorts aren't willing to offer due to the risk involved, why do you think women on this site would be so eager to risk their health?

You know, if I'd start dating again, before I'd have any kind of sex I'd want to see a recent HIV test, that's DATING, relationship, not the quick risky sex you and your bf want.

Why you can't find what you are looking for? See above and there possibly aren't many females that are short of offers of all kinds of sex, your offer isn't too tempting. I'd say maybe a swinger site would be better, but I would imagine that even swingers value their health and don't go on suicide missions.

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RE: Hello Ladies?? - 1/6/2011 8:19:14 AM   
GreedyTop


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Status: offline 		most swingers I know.. these days want a medical proof of health from potential partners partners

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RE: Hello Ladies?? - 1/6/2011 9:20:19 AM   
OohAahMrs


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Status: offline 		Welcome sxcn, my friends say i run like a woman! Does that count?

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RE: Hello Ladies?? - 1/8/2011 8:49:50 AM   
sxcnlustful


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Status: offline 		Hi LadyConstanze, One are clean of all infections and diseases and two what exactly do you think we mean by risky sex?? Because it certainly isn't sleeping with someone who may or may not have STI's.
Clearly after reading all of your responses we have given the wrong impression with what we have put in our profile. Obviously honesty isn't the best policy online!!!

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RE: Hello Ladies?? - 1/8/2011 9:00:19 AM   
sexyred1


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Status: offline 		No, honesty is best online and everywhere else.

What is not the best policy online, is having ultra high expectations and then coming to a message board to introduce yourself via a complaint about the site you are on.

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RE: Hello Ladies?? - 1/8/2011 9:05:55 AM   
sxcnlustful


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Status: offline 		WOW people on here are taking what I have said completely out of context and way too seriously. The "original" message was meant to be a kind of ice breaker and not a debate as to how much we value our health and lives. Thought these sites were meant to be a bit of adult fun.......am I missing the point here or something?

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RE: Hello Ladies?? - 1/8/2011 9:14:53 AM   
sxcnlustful


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Status: offline 		look the only reason we have put what we have on our profile is because we got fed up of answering "So what are you into?" all the time, it gt repetitive and boring. I like fish n chips and I like lasagne, it doesnt mean that I only eat fish n chips and lasagne. Just because we like something doesn't mean we have to do it....it's not a "to do" list. When we say risky, we don't mean unprotected. If we have offended people on here then I am sorry that you feel that way.

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RE: Hello Ladies?? - 1/8/2011 9:28:16 AM   
LadyConstanze


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Status: offline 		Risky is just that, a risk involved... That's what you said, if you put something like that out, you shouldn't complain if people take your words at face value.

If you think honesty is the problem why you haven't gotten a lot of women applying, I disagree. I think what you are offering is simply not attractive to a lot of women and that's why they aren't applying.



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RE: Hello Ladies?? - 1/8/2011 9:37:05 AM   
sxcnlustful


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Status: offline 		I understand what you are saying about our profile and I will have a look and alter it to make sure it is alot clearer in content without lying because that would be pointless. Though I am struggling to see where this complaint is...I wasn't complaining, trust me if I was you would know about it lol

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RE: Hello Ladies?? - 1/8/2011 9:53:01 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: sxcnlustful

WOW people on here are taking what I have said completely out of context and way too seriously. The "original" message was meant to be a kind of ice breaker and not a debate as to how much we value our health and lives. Thought these sites were meant to be a bit of adult fun.......am I missing the point here or something?

Yes, you are.

If you thought this was a hook-up site, you were wrong.  You'd probably do better with AFF or some type of swingers site.  There just aren't that many women here who want to join a couple for an occasional romp in the hay. 

Think about something for a second.  Let's say you were a single female who was interested in a threesome.  Do you really think it would be that hard to find?  If you could just go to your local club and get what you wanted, what would you be wasting time here for?  No, you'd be out doing what you want to do with some fantastic looking couple having the time of your life because then you would be what everybody wanted!  What makes you think you'd be wasting time on the internet?


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RE: Hello Ladies?? - 1/8/2011 10:03:38 AM   
sxcnlustful


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Status: offline 		Ok, well we are on this site because it was recommended to us by someone else as a good site to try.
So what is this site for exactly then.
I don't go to clubs for personal reasons by the way.

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RE: Hello Ladies?? - 1/8/2011 10:08:40 AM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		Most folks are here because they are interested in authority dynamics and those things related to bondage, discipline, sadism, and masochism.

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RE: Hello Ladies?? - 1/8/2011 10:18:04 AM   
lizi


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quote:

ORIGINAL: sxcnlustful

WOW people on here are taking what I have said completely out of context and way too seriously. The "original" message was meant to be a kind of ice breaker and not a debate as to how much we value our health and lives. Thought these sites were meant to be a bit of adult fun.......am I missing the point here or something?


OP, it seems as though you've missed the boat here a little bit. In your first post you asked a question, people answered it - it didn't seem to me that there was any ill intent in the answers. People were answering you from their own perspectives. If you meant the first post of this thread to be an ice breaker, then you kind of misdirected the type of answers you were looking for by posting it as a serious kind of question. To be fair, the other posters here can't read your mind so what you put out is what you'll get. If you wanted a frivolous little intro thingie than you kind of have to write one out.

So...welcome to CM and good luck in your search for fun, I hope you find it!

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