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sites like collarme? - 1/7/2011 12:11:30 PM

whitedragonX

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I'm going insane I really would like to find a mistress on this site but there are not that many girls who live near me. Another thing I've noticed some dommies I run into are web cam models- mostly fakes who just want money ucck.

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RE: sites like collarme? - 1/7/2011 12:36:36 PM

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OP, welcome.

My advice? Google "bdsm groups" in the Pittsburgh area and give offline a try.

Read the FAQs thread on the Ask A Mistress forum. Pay particular attention to the advice on profile writing and follow it. You could be hearing from women asking for money because you say in your profile you're willing to pay after meeting. Any mention of willingness to provide "tribute" is fair game.

Desperation is not attractive. You're new, slow down and enjoy the ride.

Good luck.

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RE: sites like collarme? - 1/7/2011 12:40:56 PM

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I think you're going to find that most Dominant women don't like being called girls or dommies.

I agree with Bones. It would probably be a very good idea for you to look into the BDSM community in your area. Along with google and the FAQ threads provided, you may also want to look into groups on Fet that will help you to find a munch group.

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RE: sites like collarme? - 1/7/2011 1:02:23 PM

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I'm going insane I really would like to find a mistress on this site but there are not that many girls who live near me. Another thing I've noticed some dommies I run into are web cam models- mostly fakes who just want money ucck.

This seems like an appropriate time to say a little about the nature of 'place' although it may not be a direct answer to your question.
The most frequesnt distrubution and use per capita of the Internet is apparently in the UK and Canada. Now this may be for obviously quite polarised reasons.
Given the size and distribution of population in Canada I can see how use of the Internet, for whatever means, compensates both distances and climate.
In the UK we have, by comparison, a very small island, relatively equitable weather and very small distances.
But in neither does that make looking for the perfect partner/domme/match etc/ any easier.
Indeed I think there is such a phenomena of 'too close to home' here in the UK. I don't date within my post code and I don't go to munches.
So I am suggesting that the problem might not only be in perhaps the stereotypical framework that you hold 'dommes' but also to do with the nature of your location. Are you floaring on an ice raft in the Arctic Ocean?

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RE: sites like collarme? - 1/7/2011 2:09:49 PM

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Beyond that, you're just 20. So why are you demanding someone with x years of experience while still expecting her to be your age? You don't have any real life experiences either. Start dating and when you feel that the relationship could deepen, that's the time to talk to her about what she enjoys or thinks she would enjoy. Find someone who says "ooh" when you explain you want to be her sex toy. If you don't represent it as a dark and shameful thing, she'll probably not either. She may well say no thanks, but that's what you would say if she told you she wanted to be yours. Find someone you are compatible with and explore together.

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