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RE: Your thoughts on 'Intuition' - 1/12/2011 3:39:50 PM   
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I use both my intuition and knowledge equally. I'm all about balance.


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RE: Your thoughts on 'Intuition' - 1/12/2011 5:15:28 PM   
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I always listen to my intuition.
I highly recommend this book:
http://www.amazon.com/Other-Survival-Signals-Protect-Violence/dp/0440508835/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1294881248&sr=8-1

It really breaks it down and is the best book I've ever read about intuition - what it is and why we should listen to it.........luci

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RE: Your thoughts on 'Intuition' - 1/12/2011 6:16:02 PM   
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I have learned the hard way to follow my intuition......add me to the bunch that things ended badly for when I didn't listen to my gut feelings.  And this was long before my foray into this lifestyle.  I read people posting situations here, and think "How can they NOT see that this is bad news just waiting to happen???"  If I can get the "feeling" from reading only what's posted, then it should be obvious to the person involved.  Maybe they just want or need some sort of validation.

As stated, it's not about fear for me at all.  I tend to chalk it up more to common sense on the part of my subconscious......and it's not a premonition, per se.  I don't know what will happen, I only know that I don't need to be there in that specific situation.  There was one time that I wanted to go out and hit the store....for some reason, I didn't take the route that I normally would have....wasn't much, just a nudge......and I missed an accident that occurred right about the time that I would have been there.  I had no idea why I went the way I did, and no, I didn't know there was going to be an accident.  I'm not psychic, period.

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RE: Your thoughts on 'Intuition' - 1/13/2011 2:12:59 AM   
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Thanks for the links. I have just ordered Blink for next to nothing from Amazon. Another good book that I have just given to a friend is called 'The Gift of Fear' by Gavin De Becker. Its the sort of book where you constantly relate. It tells you what you already know but didn't know you knew and a very good book for those who are on the internet dating game.

Once again, thanks to all those who have contributed to this thread.

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RE: Your thoughts on 'Intuition' - 1/13/2011 5:46:30 AM   
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Possibly, yes. You could be right with me. I listen to my intuition a lot. Every choice that I make take it into account. Only if it proves to be unrealistic, I'll still decide with my mind, but yes, I do take it into account pretty often.

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RE: Your thoughts on 'Intuition' - 1/13/2011 4:08:54 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: allthatjaz

Thanks for the links. I have just ordered Blink for next to nothing from Amazon. Another good book that I have just given to a friend is called 'The Gift of Fear' by Gavin De Becker. Its the sort of book where you constantly relate. It tells you what you already know but didn't know you knew and a very good book for those who are on the internet dating game.

Once again, thanks to all those who have contributed to this thread.

"The Gift of Fear" is the link I provided a couple of posts back. I loved it. I like Malcolm Gladwell also but after having read and loved "The Gift of Fear," I found "Blink" rather a let down........luci

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RE: Your thoughts on 'Intuition' - 1/13/2011 5:03:36 PM   
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How often do you listen to your intuition/gut feeling?
Do you think intuition is over rated and perhaps a little paranoid? or do you believe its an instinct that should always be listened to?

I personally believe that people who listen to their intuition possibly fear more but are generally safer.


I *feel* it, but I don't always consider that it should be given the attention it *seems* to demand.

I might be as comfy as a kitten in cotton-wool but I possibly would shrivel like a dried mushroom if I always want to be *safe*.

It's actually far easier for me to never venture beyond the walls of my *herb garden*where I'll never encounter so much as a harsh word and life is all peace, compared to the hard-edge of life I see around me and know that my children have to encounter in a way that I don't have to.

My *gut instinct* is borne from experience, it's useful , but it can also be a hindrance.

Knowing that half of my life has been amazing because I kept ignoring *gut instincts* means that I insist on playing things by ear, for myself. I listen to what I'm *feeling* but I try not to give it more creedence than it's due. ie .....it's a feeling, not a fact.

I'm suspicious about things I'd need not be, and occasionally it hasn't kicked in when it ought to have.

My conclusion for myself is to be a constant mild *gatherer*; to accept, to a degree, that being me might mean I'll have my feelings hurt now and then and weigh that against the splendid times when it was well placed.

So no, my *intuition* might save me from the odd dodgy situation, but it also pays for me to listen to it and dump it when the occasion arises.

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RE: Your thoughts on 'Intuition' - 1/13/2011 6:29:26 PM   
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Intuition all the way. I do not think its always fear people sense. But I do think its possible your body can be in a state of heightened awareness and know when something is not right.

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RE: Your thoughts on 'Intuition' - 1/13/2011 7:36:19 PM   
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Intuition is a talent really I believe.  It is being able to pick up on the indirect signals, that you may not be reading on a conscious level.  I read something a while back that "women's intuition" was really an evolution.  Women historically were left out of the "power" decisions, that was a man's world.  Business and finances were left to the men.  Women learned when to approach a given subject by reading demeanors, body language, getting "in tune".  Women network more generally too, they share information, and by putting this and that together, out of necessity of having the direct information, were often able to develop more of a knack for this and often were right.  Certainly women don't have the market cornered but I think that theory makes a lot of sense. 

It was discussed before about "fear".  Fear is usually not misplaced.  You sense something is "off" and if you really think about what led up to the sense of fear, you often understand why.  Is someone "too" helpful, offering assistance to your car?  Helping you with your groceries?  It doesn't sit well with you?  You are picking up on signals you know aren't natural in that person.  Fear is your warning system.  Intuition is its power source. 



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RE: Your thoughts on 'Intuition' - 1/14/2011 1:16:23 AM   
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Me too, but the flipside of that is prejudice, in fact they almost share a common definition in my book. Notice I did not type racial prejudice. Realize what it is, almost the same thing. That's because the human race still retains the "pack", "tribe" or "gang" mentality. Also people tend to fear those who are obviously stronger or bigger. Sometimes these prejudices are warranted, others are not.

But they are real, whether they are based in fact, or instinct, or illogical conclusions. It is the task of the concious mind to sift these impellations to determine which are right and which are wrong. Just don't gamble with intuition, use mathematics instead. That's my intuition actually.

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RE: Your thoughts on 'Intuition' - 1/14/2011 2:24:48 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: slaveluci


quote:

ORIGINAL: allthatjaz

Thanks for the links. I have just ordered Blink for next to nothing from Amazon. Another good book that I have just given to a friend is called 'The Gift of Fear' by Gavin De Becker. Its the sort of book where you constantly relate. It tells you what you already know but didn't know you knew and a very good book for those who are on the internet dating game.

Once again, thanks to all those who have contributed to this thread.

"The Gift of Fear" is the link I provided a couple of posts back. I loved it. I like Malcolm Gladwell also but after having read and loved "The Gift of Fear," I found "Blink" rather a let down........luci


Oh I'm sorry slaveluci, I don't know how I missed that.
I was trying to explain bits of the book to my sister yesterday when she phoned me to tell me her new lover is acting really odd and that she's actually quite frightened. Reading between the lines she has every reason to be frightened and I'm just wishing she had that book in her hands right now.

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RE: Your thoughts on 'Intuition' - 1/14/2011 3:31:44 AM   
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agirl, I think you made a good point when you said 'My *gut instinct* is borne from experience, it's useful , but it can also be a hindrance.'
I think some, not all gut instinct is born of experience. Certain experience is life can I believe, bring about a false gut instinct in future situations. I took a very bad fall one day when I jumped a bank on my horse. I knew before we landed that things were going to go wrong. My guts told me so or was it that I had pushed him momentarily too soon. Every time I jumped a bank after that I got that same awful gut feeling, even though we had approached and taken the jump perfectly. I had to learn to ignore that gut feeling but it never went away. If I had listened to my gut instinct then my eventing days would of been over.

mummyman321, you used the words 'heightened awareness' and that's a great way of describing what intuition is. Soldiers at war are on constant heightened awareness, wild prey animals are on constant heightened awareness and a mother with her little newly walking toddler is on constant heightened awareness. The normal man on the street of course isn't and so when heightened awareness happens to the ordinary man in the street its more striking. Its a survival instinct there's no doubt about that.

TheBanshee, thanks for your post. We watched a programme the other night on the affects of Ecstasy. Beside all the possible medical problems, the main concern was the loss of ability to see danger. They tested people under the influence of Ecstasy and put them in different situations. The tests clearly showed that people under the influence of Ecstasy had heightened awareness to music but lost the ability to have gut feelings.

Termyn8or, yep, we have been practicing the 'Pack' 'tribe' and 'gang' mentality for the past 5 million years and I doubt we are going to give it up any time soon. Our biggest threat to real non accidental danger is from our fellow man. The warrior man is more threatened with size and brute strength than woman. A friend of mine says that her husband always walks differently when walking through a crowd. Perhaps he feels slightly taller?
A woman's fears are slightly different. A mothers instinct is to safeguard and protect her child no matter what. She may become overly suspicious of innocent strangers who happily smile at her playing infant. She's on red alert because 'red alert' is a safer place for her child to thrive in than being complacent and unworried mother.

When we make a new friend we initially behave relaxed and jovial but once that friendship goes deeper we start to use a lot more intuition, I believe so anyway. We constantly pick up signals. If we didn't then we would just let anyone into our lives and trust them with our secrets and personal stuff but in fact we humans tend to be very fussy about how much of ourselves we are willing to reveal and that is all based on good or bad clues we are picking up from this new friend. They may be the tinniest of clues but they are significant enough to give you warning signs. I personally think that women tend to be better at this than men but then perhaps female friendships go deeper than male ones?

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