RapierFugue -> RE: Dateline on Vegas murderer with Alt profile (1/17/2011 7:18:41 PM)
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ORIGINAL: hausboy Hey RapierFugue Actually, what scared me about his Alt profile is that it looked just like anybody else's. It didn't seem to scream "I'm going to kill and dismember you" which some profiles on here do (I swear, they do...) What made him so "successful" (forgive the term) as a murderer and a con artist was that he was so charismatic which is how he lured so many victims. That's really what frightened me. I'm sure there are proportionately just as many crazies on Craigslist, Match.com and all of the other dating sites. Just one more reason why I despise internet dating in general. I do it...but I hate it. I've had two complete whack jobs so far via vanilla internet dating--one that scared me enough that I had to make a safe call and a quick exit. "Just one more reason why I despise internet dating in general" ... so you can murder people over the internet now? Wow. I must have missed that one when it snuck in via "Microsoft Updates". Or, back in the real world, every interaction of substance is made when actually meeting someone. They have to be in the room to harm you (or love you, to give a balanced viewpoint). So just like every other, non-internet, date you've ever had then. There comes a point when you have to trust someone, based on your judgement. There is a tiny, infinitesimally small, chance that yes, the person you're meeting will be a raving loony. But the overwhelming probability is they'll be at least a semi-normal human being. Therefore, based on the relative chances, should you a) shit yourself and hide under the bed for the next 5 decades, at minimum, or b) continue to make friends, chat to people, contribute to forums such as this, and generally live your life, and trust to your judgement and a tiny degree of luck that you won't meet Mr or Mrs Homicidal? And a reasonably clever con man has a profile that doesn't scream "bodies in the basement!"? Is this news? Really? Seriously? FFS people, stop reacting to media scare tactics and place threats in their correct statistical and proportional context. It's actually far more likely you'll go out with someone, have a great time, they'll dump you, and you'll kill yourself through depression, than it is you'll be the victim of some internet loon. Or, much more likely, that you'll meet someone, have a time somewhere between “so-so” and “great”, both enjoy the experience, and both make each other happy, for a period of time between one night and the rest of your lives. If you live in fear you have no true freedom; you might have a Constitution, or a set of Laws, that are supposed to protect you, but they won't do you any good, coz you're already too scared to interact with life. Go, live, do, experience, enjoy, and let the cards fall where they may. Trust your judgement, listen to your voice of experiences, but FFS don’t stop living just because someone else has sadly ceased to be alive. PS: If I get slaughtered by a crazy tomorrow you have my permission to turn up at my funeral and scream "SEE!! TOLD YOU SO, FUCKER!!" at my graveside. You won't be the weirdest guest, that's for sure ;)
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