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needing a mom to spank - 1/15/2011 9:39:46 AM

needsamoM

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my friend and I were both spanked by (mommy and daddy) growing up. and wish to
re-live some of the scenes as safe/sane consensual adults...I am the naughty
little girl, he the strict, but loving dad..

Alas we do not, as of yet have the mature (over 50 please) caring but firm mom
to fill our threesome. just PLATONIC;role-play, etc.

can you offer some advice for us to find our 'mom"?
perhaps, besides this venue...?..we are not particuarly ''connected"..
thanks.

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RE: needing a mom to spank - 1/15/2011 9:52:04 AM

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I'm not quite sure what you mean about not being particularly connected.

This isn't My normal course of suggestion, but in your case, you might want to consider a pro. There just aren't that many lifestyle Dommes that are into the whole Mommy thing. You also might want to try sites that are specifically geared toward littles or ABs.

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RE: needing a mom to spank - 1/16/2011 12:49:17 PM

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In the BDSM-specific community, you may be hard-pressed to find women who like to roleplay "Mom." This is one of the places where spanking-specific groups might suit you better. Many people interested in the "parental discipline" thing are spanking-only fetishists, and resolutely insist that they aren't practicing BDSM. You won't find them here; we're too weird or scary.

Dominant women and female tops are always in demand; even more so online. Everyone who comes here gets the standard "find local events" talk, and you might want to try it as well. Why not take advantage of being in New York? I'm not terribly familiar with the scene down there, but googling "NYC spanking" turned up a few local spanking-only groups, and Paddles (the club) has spanking-only parties.

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RE: needing a mom to spank - 1/16/2011 12:54:17 PM

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Since you have a very specific scene in mind that you need done according to your script to get the desired result, I second the suggestion of finding a pro.

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RE: needing a mom to spank - 1/16/2011 1:42:50 PM

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I do MOMMIE spankings in Dallas.

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RE: needing a mom to spank - 1/16/2011 2:28:41 PM

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Let's see if I have this straight. He will spank you, but you want a woman to spank you as well. Is that it? You as the spankee, with two spankers?

You're looking for a woman that is willing to spank as a co-spanker, with no sex involved.

That's a pretty tall order (not many women spank, those that spank usually prefer to spank men, and those few that might want to spank another woman would be the second banana in the scene you just described). You might try www.spankingneeds.com, which is less sexually-oriented than we are here.

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RE: needing a mom to spank - 1/16/2011 3:19:09 PM

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quote:

DarkSteven:
You're looking for a woman that is willing to spank as a co-spanker, with no sex involved. That's a pretty tall order (not many women spank, those that spank usually prefer to spank men, and those few that might want to spank another woman would be the second banana in the scene you just described). You might try www.spankingneeds.com, which is less sexually-oriented than we are here.

Actually, not meaning to be argumentative or to short-circuit anyone, however... this is an easy scene to accomplish if one gets involved with others in their local community. I've met lots of women who would (and do) happily spank other women (as the only or secondary spanker). The key is you have to take the time to get to know people. There's no place simply to walk in and order up service. The only issue I see that presents a barrier is the "Mommy" dynamic. Strangedesire covered this quite well. Despite the extra hiccup, if the OP takes time to make friends in their community, they may find the Mommy aspect not much an issue. This all revolves around developing rapport with people first. It's surprising (and nice) what people will do for their friends once the "total stranger" factor is removed.

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RE: needing a mom to spank - 1/17/2011 9:43:26 AM

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I would have to agree with Elan.

I've known quite a few "Mommys" in the leather community, and they all played with women. I've also met quite a few more "Littles" recently and those who play with them, (again, all women) so I don't believe it's as rare as some make it out to be. I do believe it is still quite taboo--even in our BDSM world--and as such, it's just not discussed as much since they are often met with ridicule and criticism.

So find your local niche--apparently there are a number of festivals/weekends where littles play is common and encouraged. Be patient--if you keep looking, you might find what you want. And if you can't wait.... there are ProDommes out there who I'm sure could accommodate your request.

good luck

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RE: needing a mom to spank - 1/17/2011 11:26:05 AM

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