Collarspace Discussion Forums


Home  Login  Search 

Too many "Professionals"?


View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest
 
All Forums >> [Casual Banter] >> Off the Grid >> Too many "Professionals"? Page: [1] 2 3 4   next >   >>
Login
Message << Older Topic   Newer Topic >>
Too many "Professionals"? - 1/18/2011 10:22:44 PM   
craiglistfan88


Posts: 5
Joined: 1/12/2011
Status: offline 		Does anyone but me think that they are, just maybe, too many "Pro Doms" on CollarMe? It seems like every other profile I read. It's start out normal and then at the bottom it says "tributes expected" or "Amazon gift cards". Even more bothersome than that is the thought that there actually might be people paying for these "services". So how about it? Opinions? Thoughts?
Profile   Post #: 1
RE: Too many "Professionals"? - 1/18/2011 10:25:46 PM   
osf


Posts: 3288
Joined: 10/19/2009
Status: offline 		As a Personal Image Marketing Professional I welcome the pro dommes business and my rates are cheap too, 60%

_____________________________

all around nice guy and creative misogynist

i'm not very skilled so i just hit harder

i want a woman to make into the woman she never wanted to become

(in reply to craiglistfan88)
Profile   Post #: 2
RE: Too many "Professionals"? - 1/18/2011 10:29:35 PM   
TNDommeK


Posts: 7153
Joined: 3/13/2010
Status: offline 		I think there are alot of pro Dommes, however, there are a few that I believe are the real thing. Im not talking about the lil 19 yr olds who think they are DOmmes demanding money. I mean the real deal. now to Me, those are few. I think there are alot of women who just want money and have no clue how to be a professional. I also think there is absolutely nothing wrong with a pro Domme. for instance, if a man who travels for his biz is outta town and felt like a session, he may not know any Dommes in that area. By seeing a pro Domme, he doesnt have to know her, he can simply set up an appt. I also hate the ass hats on this site who think they are whores and prostitutes, etc. They are not. I read once, a guy said, "who is actually the one incharge. the sub who is paying for a service or the Domme who is doing what the sub wants?" That isnt right either, as a real pro Domme does what she wants, and a real sub will gladly accept it or move on. so I have no issues with pro Dommes, but I do hate what these teenie boppers are doing to the name of pro Dommes.

(in reply to craiglistfan88)
Profile   Post #: 3
RE: Too many "Professionals"? - 1/18/2011 10:37:45 PM   
osf


Posts: 3288
Joined: 10/19/2009
Status: offline 		and this is not the place for it

it would seem to me a good pro wouldn't need or want to hawk on CM

_____________________________

all around nice guy and creative misogynist

i'm not very skilled so i just hit harder

i want a woman to make into the woman she never wanted to become

(in reply to TNDommeK)
Profile   Post #: 4
RE: Too many "Professionals"? - 1/18/2011 10:40:11 PM   
Killerangel


Posts: 1169
Joined: 8/3/2010
Status: offline 		They don't bother me although the rude approach that many of them take gets old. Seems to me that they provide a necessary service or they wouldn't be in business.

(in reply to craiglistfan88)
Profile   Post #: 5
RE: Too many "Professionals"? - 1/19/2011 5:49:18 AM   
DarkSteven


Posts: 28072
Joined: 5/2/2008
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: craiglistfan88

Does anyone but me think that they are, just maybe, too many "Pro Doms" on CollarMe?



Yes, there are in fact other whiners who think as you do.  Use the Search feature to find their hundreds of posts.


_____________________________

"You women....

The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

(in reply to craiglistfan88)
Profile   Post #: 6
RE: Too many "Professionals"? - 1/19/2011 5:55:44 AM   
sunshinemiss


Posts: 17673
Joined: 11/26/2007
Status: offline 		Because Craigs list is so full of real people speaking only the truth about themselves, I'm sure it can be frustrating for a gentlemanly fan such as yourself to be on a free website where people misrepresent themselves.

Best,
sunshine

_____________________________

Yes, I am a wonton hussy... and still sweet as 3.14

(in reply to DarkSteven)
Profile   Post #: 7
RE: Too many "Professionals"? - 1/19/2011 6:17:20 AM   
Madame4a


Posts: 2045
Joined: 2/4/2008
From: Washington, DC area
Status: offline 		hmmm... wow.. I never knew...

_____________________________

You're crazy bitch
But you f*ck so good, I'm on top of it
When I dream, I'm doing you all night
Scratches all down my back to keep me right on

(in reply to craiglistfan88)
Profile   Post #: 8
RE: Too many "Professionals"? - 1/19/2011 6:24:39 AM   
LadyPact


Posts: 32566
Status: offline 		Oddly enough, the number of pros doesn't bother Me in the least.  While I'm sure it's frustrating  for submissive males who are actually looking for relationship partners, rather than just play time, I tend to see it from the other side as well.  Folks who are just looking for bottom experiences (the dreaded do-me types) spend their time on those profiles instead of bothering Me quite so much.  For a lifestyle Domme like Me, that turns out to be a benefit..

_____________________________

The crowned Diva of Destruction. ~ ExT

Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD

Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

(in reply to sunshinemiss)
Profile   Post #: 9
RE: Too many "Professionals"? - 1/19/2011 6:58:33 AM   
LadyConstanze


Posts: 9722
Joined: 2/18/2005
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Folks who are just looking for bottom experiences (the dreaded do-me types) spend their time on those profiles instead of bothering Me quite so much. 


Wouldn't that be nice? But unfortunately a lot of the "do-me" types tend to not care a lot and they are freaking out at the thought that they should pay for getting their fantasy fulfilled. How many do-mes do show up regularly with "no fakes or professionals" but a list of what the dommes should do to them?

_____________________________

There are 10 kinds of people who understand binary
Those who do and those who don't!

http://exdomme.blogspot.com/2012/07/public-service-announcement.html

(in reply to LadyPact)
Profile   Post #: 10
RE: Too many "Professionals"? - 1/19/2011 7:05:24 AM   
LadyConstanze


Posts: 9722
Joined: 2/18/2005
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: craiglistfan88

Does anyone but me think that they are, just maybe, too many "Pro Doms" on CollarMe? It seems like every other profile I read. It's start out normal and then at the bottom it says "tributes expected" or "Amazon gift cards". Even more bothersome than that is the thought that there actually might be people paying for these "services". So how about it? Opinions? Thoughts?




Opinion? This is a FREE site, so for the price of your admission (which is exactly NOTHING) should include a list of women that are all eager to meet somebody who's been on the site for a whole 7 days and already complains that he has to click a profile away... I can't imagine that any woman sees that as a very attractive trait...

Maybe you have better luck on Craig's list...

_____________________________

There are 10 kinds of people who understand binary
Those who do and those who don't!

http://exdomme.blogspot.com/2012/07/public-service-announcement.html

(in reply to craiglistfan88)
Profile   Post #: 11
RE: Too many "Professionals"? - 1/19/2011 7:13:43 AM   
latexloverLDN


Posts: 3
Joined: 6/23/2010
Status: offline 		As someone who is new to the community I don't know how valid my opinion is in the scheme of things but to me Pro-Dommes on here aren't a problem as they are only offering a service and they've never been forceful! The biggest problem I have is as LadyConstanze says there is a wave of young girls who don't offer real-time and say they are online only yet they still demand money for their "services". Fair enough that some subs may like the feeling of emptying their wallets to a stranger but that certainly isn't for me and the number of Dommes doing this is really off-putting especially as the Dommes doing it are around my age and are potentially the kind I would've liked to have met!

(in reply to LadyConstanze)
Profile   Post #: 12
RE: Too many "Professionals"? - 1/19/2011 7:18:13 AM   
LadyPact


Posts: 32566
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze
Wouldn't that be nice? But unfortunately a lot of the "do-me" types tend to not care a lot and they are freaking out at the thought that they should pay for getting their fantasy fulfilled. How many do-mes do show up regularly with "no fakes or professionals" but a list of what the dommes should do to them?

I wouldn't know.  I honestly don't do much profile reading because I find that I'm more successful meeting play partners and such through events.  I'm just looking at it from a numbers angle.  Even for folks who try the buckshot approach (which has been reduced greatly due to the spam filter) only have so much time to send those messages out.  More female profiles here reduce the chance of them being sent to Me, which suits Me just fine.


_____________________________

The crowned Diva of Destruction. ~ ExT

Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD

Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

(in reply to LadyConstanze)
Profile   Post #: 13
RE: Too many "Professionals"? - 1/19/2011 7:23:12 AM   
LadyConstanze


Posts: 9722
Joined: 2/18/2005
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: latexloverLDN

...there is a wave of young girls who don't offer real-time and say they are online only yet they still demand money for their "services". Fair enough that some subs may like the feeling of emptying their wallets to a stranger but that certainly isn't for me and the number of Dommes doing this is really off-putting especially as the Dommes doing it are around my age and are potentially the kind I would've liked to have met!


Look, if it doesn't do anything for you, don't do it, additionally CM has a message up in bright red, saying you shouldn't send money to strangers...

Now you're miffled because the ones around your age doing it are potentially the kind you would have liked to have met... Well, since you're not into what they are into, you're incompatible, if you're not into pain, you won't do all that well with a sadist, but would you demand that all sadists are being chased off?

Yes the "Give me money, you worm" profiles can be annoying, but what's wrong with just skipping them?

_____________________________

There are 10 kinds of people who understand binary
Those who do and those who don't!

http://exdomme.blogspot.com/2012/07/public-service-announcement.html

(in reply to latexloverLDN)
Profile   Post #: 14
RE: Too many "Professionals"? - 1/19/2011 7:30:38 AM   
LadyConstanze


Posts: 9722
Joined: 2/18/2005
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

I wouldn't know.  I honestly don't do much profile reading because I find that I'm more successful meeting play partners and such through events.  I'm just looking at it from a numbers angle.  Even for folks who try the buckshot approach (which has been reduced greatly due to the spam filter) only have so much time to send those messages out.  More female profiles here reduce the chance of them being sent to Me, which suits Me just fine.



I was not even talking about the mails, I was talking about the posts that were up in the Ask A Mistress section or in Introductions... The other profiles don't seem to stop the do-mes from expecting attention and being catered to. I recall there were several threads lately on how to find somebody who will do activity .... or who will be dominant on demand, but all were followed with "no fakes or professionals"

_____________________________

There are 10 kinds of people who understand binary
Those who do and those who don't!

http://exdomme.blogspot.com/2012/07/public-service-announcement.html

(in reply to LadyPact)
Profile   Post #: 15
RE: Too many "Professionals"? - 1/19/2011 7:34:49 AM   
latexloverLDN


Posts: 3
Joined: 6/23/2010
Status: offline 		I understand that and I don't waste my time on their profiles any longer than I need to. Likewise I'm not asking that people offering such "cash disposal services" should be removed as they have as much right to be on CM as anyone else - I was just whining that whereas maybe 1 in 20 Dommes on here above the age of 25 are online only but tributed it seems that only 1 in 20 below that age AREN'T just interested in money and it does get rather disheartening when I want to meet someone genuine! It's a vicious circle - you can't get noticed by older Dommes because you're too young and inexperienced no matter how fast you may learn and because you're too young you can't gain the experience... oh the joys of being a newbie in such a world haha

(in reply to LadyConstanze)
Profile   Post #: 16
RE: Too many "Professionals"? - 1/19/2011 7:47:23 AM   
LadyConstanze


Posts: 9722
Joined: 2/18/2005
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: latexloverLDN

It's a vicious circle - you can't get noticed by older Dommes because you're too young and inexperienced no matter how fast you may learn and because you're too young you can't gain the experience... oh the joys of being a newbie in such a world haha


Actually your experience has nothing to do with it for most of us, I'm simply not interested in a guy of 22, even if you had all the experience in the world, if it is biologically possible that I could have given birth to you, I'm not interested because it would feel like cradle snatching to me.

Seriously, instead of looking online, go and find a munch, you increase your chances a lot, plus you are in London, there's plenty of activity going on.

_____________________________

There are 10 kinds of people who understand binary
Those who do and those who don't!

http://exdomme.blogspot.com/2012/07/public-service-announcement.html

(in reply to latexloverLDN)
Profile   Post #: 17
RE: Too many "Professionals"? - 1/19/2011 7:58:14 AM   
latexloverLDN


Posts: 3
Joined: 6/23/2010
Status: offline 		Thanks for the advice! I suppose I hadn't really looked at it in that light. I am actually looking to go to a munch or a club - it's just a scary thought at first and I wanted someone to go with but I suppose that's the wrong way round :S Watch this space!

(in reply to LadyConstanze)
Profile   Post #: 18
RE: Too many "Professionals"? - 1/19/2011 8:04:26 AM   
sexyred1


Posts: 8998
Joined: 8/9/2007
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

Because Craigs list is so full of real people speaking only the truth about themselves, I'm sure it can be frustrating for a gentlemanly fan such as yourself to be on a free website where people misrepresent themselves.

Best,
sunshine


I was going to say that, but you said it better!

(in reply to sunshinemiss)
Profile   Post #: 19
RE: Too many "Professionals"? - 1/19/2011 8:10:17 AM   
LadyConstanze


Posts: 9722
Joined: 2/18/2005
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: latexloverLDN

Thanks for the advice! I suppose I hadn't really looked at it in that light. I am actually looking to go to a munch or a club - it's just a scary thought at first and I wanted someone to go with but I suppose that's the wrong way round :S Watch this space!


Munch is different than a party, at parties definitely take a wing man or wing woman with you, easier to meet people this way, at munches people just sit and talk and they are not dressed up, you can get to know them and ease yourself in.

_____________________________

There are 10 kinds of people who understand binary
Those who do and those who don't!

http://exdomme.blogspot.com/2012/07/public-service-announcement.html

(in reply to latexloverLDN)
Profile   Post #: 20
Page:   [1] 2 3 4   next >   >>
All Forums >> [Casual Banter] >> Off the Grid >> Too many "Professionals"? Page: [1] 2 3 4   next >   >>
Jump to:





New Messages No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages Locked w/o New Messages
 Post New Thread
 Reply to Message
 Post New Poll
 Submit Vote
 Delete My Own Post
 Delete My Own Thread
 Rate Posts




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy

0.095