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Daddy Doms, Question. - 1/21/2011 8:04:51 PM   
PandorasPrincess


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Status: offline 		I'm a Little Girl (regressor of sorts), and I've tried my hardest to understand "why" Daddy Doms find LG's, Sissies, TB's, AB's, etc so alluring. I understand there may or may not be a diaper fetish to it, and that it may be amusing to see a perfectly reasonable adult regress to an age equivalent to a toddler, but just why.

What makes us so...fantastic? I'm trying to see the other side of the table, but cannot get past the huge arrange of flowers in the middle of it.

If this is a dumb question, then just put me to bed.
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RE: Daddy Doms, Question. - 1/21/2011 9:13:24 PM   
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RE: Daddy Doms, Question. - 1/22/2011 12:13:11 AM   
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Status: offline 		I loved raising children.  The idea of fusing the fathering experience with a D/s relationship is just beyond cool.

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RE: Daddy Doms, Question. - 1/22/2011 5:46:01 AM   
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Status: offline 		I think it's a way to fulfill a nurturing aspect of their personalities. there is a really subtle difference in that style of Dominance -- hard to put a finger on, but it's nice sometimes.
i'm a "little girl" but i'm not really into regression at the moment. for me it is simply my personality. people tend to think i'm much younger than i am (i get carded, while other friends get called "ma'am" =p), i like to be playful, have a particular outlook on the world, and i love stuffed animals, cartoons, lip gloss rings, coloring, and the like. it's a part of me that hides away at times because i've been taken advantage of because of it, but when i feel free to just be myself, that's just sort of where my mind goes.
in my last relationship, we only used Dom and sub as far as terminology goes, and i never called him "Daddy" nor did i want to. but he had a nurturing aspect that was different from what i experienced with other men. He would also reciprocate with playfulness, take me exploring, he liked having someone to do that stuff with.

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RE: Daddy Doms, Question. - 1/22/2011 8:29:42 AM   
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RE: Daddy Doms, Question. - 1/22/2011 8:32:38 AM   
RapierFugue


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LillyBoPeep

in my last relationship, we only used Dom and sub as far as terminology goes, and i never called him "Daddy" nor did i want to. but he had a nurturing aspect that was different from what i experienced with other men. He would also reciprocate with playfulness, take me exploring, he liked having someone to do that stuff with.


That pretty much sums up what I get out of it, when I do it. It's nurturing as well as dominant.

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RE: Daddy Doms, Question. - 1/22/2011 8:37:00 AM   
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quote:

I've tried my hardest to understand "why" Daddy Doms find LG's, Sissies, TB's, AB's, etc so alluring.


They couldn't find a 'babygirl' so they took what was available/offered?

Just a guess, considering that horny people often aren't picky when it comes down to waiting on the specific 'right one' they supposedly are seeking. Perhaps those TB's/Sissies are also having a hard time in finding a leader/Dominant who is straight or willing?  They of all kinksters likely have the hardest road here, methinks.

Dunno, just a guess.


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RE: Daddy Doms, Question. - 1/22/2011 9:26:17 AM   
osf


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Status: offline 		parent child is the nearest other human relationship to D/s, M/s that there is, not to confuse it with age play

personally i prefer an adult female slave

adult being 18+

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RE: Daddy Doms, Question. - 1/22/2011 10:18:31 AM   
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Status: offline 		it's important to note that not all lg's are into being non-adult. liking cartoons and lip gloss and such doesn't mean that i want to be a child and relate to people as a child. i'm still a full-grown adult with adult thoughts, adult ideas and goals, but who happens to be "littleish." like other types of personality interactions, there are a boatload of varieties of it. it can be difficult to explain -- a lot of people respond with an instant "ew," but if they just met you without trying to put a label on it, they wouldn't even have a problem with it.
for me personally, i'm more tuned to M/s. i don't particularly want a full-blown Daddy/lg relationship. even when vanilla wives call their husbands "Daddy" or "Big Daddy," it makes me feel weird. =p but i like the nurturing aspect that some men possess, especially because they usually like me for who i am instead of treating me like i'm stupid.

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RE: Daddy Doms, Question. - 1/22/2011 11:59:22 AM   
HisEvelyn


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Status: offline 		I completely understand your viewpoint, LillyBoPeep. I'm much the same way with my Master. He is not my "Daddy". I would feel very strange and mildly disturbed calling him that. He has no desire to be called Daddy. It's not our kink. But he does nurture me in a way no other man really has, he is understanding and gentle when I need it. And I can also be very playful and silly, and also often get carded despite being nearly 33. He encourages this, he likes to make me giggle like a loon. Though when he's had enough, he's also quick to tell me it's enough.

So I guess in some ways, I do have a little bit of 'little girl' in me even though I never play that role overtly.

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RE: Daddy Doms, Question. - 1/22/2011 1:58:45 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: PandorasPrincess

I'm a Little Girl (regressor of sorts), and I've tried my hardest to understand "why" Daddy Doms find LG's, Sissies, TB's, AB's, etc so alluring. I understand there may or may not be a diaper fetish to it, and that it may be amusing to see a perfectly reasonable adult regress to an age equivalent to a toddler, but just why.

What makes us so...fantastic? I'm trying to see the other side of the table, but cannot get past the huge arrange of flowers in the middle of it.

If this is a dumb question, then just put me to bed.



Do you like bread? Why or why not? Sometimes we just like things because we do.

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RE: Daddy Doms, Question. - 1/23/2011 12:47:33 AM   
SpiritedRadiance


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Status: offline 		For me from what I understand its several things: As a Little Im more likely to try things I normally wouldnt try if Im not in a little mood. Im more open Im Honest in a child like way ( ie I dont sugarcoat it at all) I offer him the ability to nurture to care for in a what thats so different from Ms Or Ds...

The light in my eyes when I get a new stuffie... Or when i go bug hunting with my kitty brings joy and amusement to my previous partners....

What we get out of it is what they get out of it in the reverse. the responsibility the nurturing the fun ideas they get to come up with... all add to the dynamic.


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RE: Daddy Doms, Question. - 1/23/2011 3:45:14 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: PandorasPrincess

I'm a Little Girl (regressor of sorts), and I've tried my hardest to understand "why" Daddy Doms find LG's, Sissies, TB's, AB's, etc so alluring. I understand there may or may not be a diaper fetish to it, and that it may be amusing to see a perfectly reasonable adult regress to an age equivalent to a toddler, but just why.

What makes us so...fantastic? I'm trying to see the other side of the table, but cannot get past the huge arrange of flowers in the middle of it.

If this is a dumb question, then just put me to bed.



Sometimes its just the nourishing aspect of it that is a plus, sometimes its just fantasy, its just a like like some people like vanilla and some like chocolate.


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RE: Daddy Doms, Question. - 1/23/2011 4:07:55 PM   
oceanwynds2


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Status: offline 		I never thought I would find myself in a Daddy Dom/Littlegirl relationship. The thought actually repulsed me. I am having to eat that word, I know better to say-"never" I do not understand this type of relationship totally, but am exploring it now. I do not call him Daddy. I do find the type of structure i need and discipline fits him well. Is DD/lg for me? I do not know. I do not understand a lot of it. I do know it entails different things, and not always regressed little girl, but helping lg grow.

In Fetlife someone mentioned daddy as a verb. I been pondering this. Only thing I know is to not knock it, like i use too. To go with an open mind. And not all Daddy's are into age play.

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RE: Daddy Doms, Question. - 1/24/2011 9:06:28 PM   
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Status: offline 		I can wrap my mind around the "daddy dom" dynamic even if it isn't my preference.
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