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porcelaine -> RE: younger men..... older women ? (1/24/2011 2:53:07 PM)

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ORIGINAL: mysouldesire

I am wondering..... how many older female submissives/slaves are looking for a mature younger man? Say like 25 yrs your junior.


Greetings mysouldesire,

I can't say that I actively seek out younger men. However, I've always attracted them and generally have a scale that I work within in both directions. Although it isn't my preference per se, I can appreciate the differences and if I encountered a worthy prospect I might give him the nod.

Namaste,

~porcelaine



JstAnotherSub -> RE: younger men..... older women ? (1/24/2011 3:42:07 PM)

If it is young enough to have come out of me, no way it is going in me.

That said, I have always loved older men.  As I get older, I wonder how long til I am trying to pick up guys at the nursing home.



JstAnotherSub -> RE: younger men..... older women ? (1/24/2011 3:43:48 PM)

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ORIGINAL: NocturnalStalker

I attract airheads. Life is grand.

hahahahaha



kalikshama -> RE: younger men..... older women ? (1/24/2011 3:47:35 PM)

I've had some great FWB who were 10 years younger, but for relationships I seek out my own age if not older.



mummyman321 -> RE: younger men..... older women ? (1/24/2011 4:55:55 PM)

+/- 10 years of my age as a guide. Exceptional minds I give more leeway :)



LadySunn -> RE: younger men..... older women ? (1/24/2011 5:46:52 PM)

A mature young man would be interesting. An older vibrant man would be interesting.
I don't have a preference either would be fun... depends on his many levels of strength and willingness.



kiwisub12 -> RE: younger men..... older women ? (1/24/2011 6:00:59 PM)

I sought a younger man   - my first dom was 11 years older than me and died on me - and i didn't want that happening again! Yes, i know that even a younger man could die , but the odds are lower.
The youngest one i met with was 27, and very nice. The man i eventually ended up with is three years younger than me, and lovely.Young enough i don't freak about his health, and old enough we can talk. [:D]



defiantbadgirl -> RE: younger men..... older women ? (1/25/2011 10:34:21 AM)

I used to go for younger men. I was more physically attracted to them. It made sense to go for someone 5-7 years younger since on average, women live longer than men. Unfortunately, I found that many younger men only seek older women as FWB. I was seeking a relationship. When I met Sir, I made an exception. Sir is 2 years older than me (39), but looks like he's in his 20's. He's also a real sweetheart.



SomoneReal -> RE: younger men..... older women ? (1/28/2011 12:31:12 PM)

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ORIGINAL: mysouldesire

I am wondering..... how many older female submissives/slaves are looking for a mature younger man? Say like 25 yrs your junior.
I see many doms with pics in their freinds circle with plenty of younger women 25+ their junior. This I understand......

But which of you ladies seek "younger mature" men ...... if this a deep inside desiren for a younger man?

I ask because I could finally admitit out loud in my head, heart and with my lips just a few days ago....
this was a desire hard to admit to.


Here's my opinion from the other side of the coin, with a younger guy who connects better with older women. 

I've found through a lot of bad experiences, just what matter's most in life, a relationship, and way too much more.  I'm only 28, and although I love the look of a young petite body that's followed by a sex drive that doesn't quit, I also want more. 

Most of the young women that I've been with have zero life experience.  They've lived with their parents their whole life, and in college everything was paid for.  Most of them don't know what it's like to start from nothing and to make everything that you have, or to be in a position where it feels like everything is challenging you.  A lot of young women that I've known, when faced with things that aren't easy or handed to them, freak out and don't know what to do.  They're still waiting for daddy to tell them what to do, instead of taking their own initiative and creating something new. 

The older women that I've been with exhibit a different view and attitude on life.  Some are still getting to the point where they're letting go of their earlier life hangup's, and the best ones have realized that life is for living and being happy :) 

It's so nice to find someone who understands that life isn't about what's coming up next on MTV or who's wearing what garbage clothing at the Movie Awards.  Couple that with an unstoppable sex drive, and the ability to hold an INTELLIGENT conversation, or just to talk about anything that comes up, and you've got a great woman.

The people who understand things like this are the ones who realize that age doesn't matter, especially in terms of love, trust, and relationships.  Usually, in my case, those are older women.  And I love them!



porcelaine -> RE: younger men..... older women ? (1/28/2011 12:46:03 PM)

Greetings,

After giving it some thought, I recognized that the men I keep company with and find most appealing in conversations are typically younger. I don't know if this is merely a coincidence or something I never paid attention to until now. But I can attest to the difference in energy and the connection. There's an element of freshness that I don't encounter with men my age and I'm more relaxed. Although I've been down this road in the past perhaps it's time to revisit it. [:D]

Namaste,

~porcelaine



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