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heartfeltsub -> RE: Curious about your last session (5/4/2006 3:19:17 AM)
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ORIGINAL: Sensualips
I get the cynicism and the idea someone is looking for fantasy material. But I am not quite getting the disapproval and amazement at those who did or would write about a session. There are lots of reasons to share something personal or intimate. It might be a way to process it for yourself, an effort to celebrate it, a way of getting feedback from others, part of an exhibitionist streak, or you might actually believe others might glean something from your experience. If you are not comfortable sharing, then there is no need to do so. People share intimate details all the time on this board -- from relationship woes to scene details and so on. Is it just the way the question is posed or the writing style/method it was answered?
I am genuinely curious.
As i am one of the ones who put down that he was looking for mastubatory fodder, i would like to address what you have said. i am very exhibitionist by nature and generally don't have a problem sharing intimate details of my life, and as i said, i was actually starting to answer his question when i stopped myself.
The reason that i did so was because of exactly what Evansce stated, his first post ever and he is asking for very personal information, it struck me just like some of the HNG who pretend to be dom to ask you about your experiences so that they can get off.
If the same post had come from a regular forum participant, i might have had a different reaction. i just don't think we would have seen the same post from a regular forum participant.
Just my 2 cents.
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