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RE: Water sports - 1/24/2011 6:18:17 PM

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It is humiliating to be peed on my one's Mistress. If you don't get off on humiliation, then you won't be able to understand it.

I find nothing humiliating about it. For me, it's extremely personal and intimate.
It makes me feel very wanted by him.

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RE: Water sports - 1/24/2011 7:02:46 PM

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Exactly. I don't find it humiliating at all. It's erotic, it makes me feel like we are bonding, it's sexy, not to share too much but on occasion he likes to also be on the recieiving end and have his hand between my legs while I go as well, which is also a way to feel very submissive to me. There is something really sexy/sweet/hot about being completely nude and exposed, while he is in front of me fully dressed and feeling something so private, especially if there is some deep kissing involved. Whew...it's just hot. Especailly when it usually ends up either sharing a bath or hot shower together after some hot sex.

Watersports are one of my favorite things for sure.

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RE: Water sports - 1/25/2011 7:48:59 AM

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As a Master I love the feeling of pissing on my slave. It is a TPE thing that we both get. She loves to be marked by me as much as I love to mark her. It is an animalistic instinct and very primal. I love the control of marking my slave as mine and nobody else's.

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RE: Water sports - 1/25/2011 7:53:08 AM

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I don't "get it" necessarily, but what I DO get is that it pleases one of my dominants immensely and so it pleases me to make him happy!

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RE: Water sports - 1/25/2011 10:03:28 AM

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It`s good for her...

I am not worried about if its a need for her <eg> its about watching her being obeident...

<slips away to piss>

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RE: Water sports - 1/25/2011 10:16:44 AM

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Ok here goes. I don't know much about this just what I found on the internet. It tells what and how but, What I want to know is why. What would a sub get from it other than the need to shower. I really want to know.

It is humiliating to be peed on my one's Mistress. If you don't get off on humiliation, then you won't be able to understand it.

I don't agree with not being able to understand it if you don't get off on humiliation. Water sports can be about humiliation but it certainly doesn't have to be. It can be a level of intimacy that can't be experienced by someone who is not into it.
I am not submitting to him when he pisses all over me. I am not skulking in the corner of the shower whilst he stands over me and soaks me, I'm looking up at him grinning with my mouth wide open and wanting MORE.

I was into water sports long before I was into any of this. It's not only dominants and submissives that do this.

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RE: Water sports - 1/26/2011 2:01:58 AM

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I know there are those that think you should not mix booze with BDSM, but i personally love getting pissed with Him and then share the loo while we pee together, me sat on the pot with my legs wide open and Him pissing in the gap between... sort of... mopping the floor... and myself afterwards is fine too
There are lots of fun and games to be had with pissing... lovely dirty

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RE: Water sports - 1/26/2011 5:30:46 AM

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On the scale of things you share with you partner, action wise, this is trivial, i.e., after all the other things you do, why would pissing together seem like such a big deal?

I'm not even sure, I can take it or leave it, it can be very hot, but it is one of those things we're hard wired to feel ashamed of and keep private, i.e., peeing yourself anytime after you're out of diapers is going to invite criticism, that can stick with you - it's one of the very first things we are taught to exercise self control about.

On the other hand, I used to get into pissing contests with my friends, see who could pee the furthest, and it was sort of a male bonding thing, albeit, in competitive form, and, of course, it was terribly titillating if you happened to see a girl go pee.

I hope this doesn't violate the TOS, but it happens that a lot of associations you make about this go back to the pre-sexual stage of development, when libidinal urges are sort of nebulous, and non-specific: you just know something is happening, and my earliest fantasies involved peeing, and if I recall: early sexual arousal was very much associated with the urge to piss, and it's still one of the top ten feelings of gratification, when you really have to take a huge piss, and you finally get to the bathroom - there's times I have to smoke a cig afterwards, lol.

Climbing the rope in Gym class for example was I think a lot of peoples first sexual experience: we used to all have a good laugh when some poor girl would get halfway up the rope, freeze and weakly slide down, her face red, but half the guys had woodies by time they got down, fucking gym teachers are sadists, lol, but the point was, half the embarrassment was that you thought you were gonna pee yourself.

Ultimately, it's an intimate act, it makes you vulnerable, and very taboo, for others it's just taking a whiz.

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RE: Water sports - 1/26/2011 9:45:24 AM

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i think its hot to watch my girlfriends or my man pee

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RE: Water sports - 1/26/2011 11:51:32 AM

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Ownership...The male Marking his Or Her Property...Outside
Inside Bonding That will never leve both Parties...

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RE: Water sports - 1/27/2011 7:48:28 AM

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Ok here goes. I don't know much about this just what I found on the internet. It tells what and how but, What I want to know is why. What would a sub get from it other than the need to shower. I really want to know.

Well, I don't know what I'll like or won't like unless I have a go and there's not much I wouldn't *have a go* at. Many people have an aversion to all sorts of things, especially scat and blood etc, and in almost all circumstances I would .....but not where HE is concerned.

Basically it's about the way him and I are together, not about what we are actually doing that makes so many things MORE than *alright* and rather something memorable, intimate, special.

I've never, EVER come away from any shared experience with him thinking.....*that was disgusting, I hope it NEVER happens again*.

Nothing we do is one-sided. I might not like everything he's doing at any given time but the overall picture is STILL two people that are engaged in something that results in both of us smiling.

What do I get out him peeing in me or on me? I get a rather tame, mutually shared experience that enhances the way we already feel. I don't feel any great desire to shower, I would be happy to stay covered in his piss. I'd stay covered in his cum or anything else too. I'm not fussy...lol

What can I say?.....doing all manner of things together makes us smile......the biggest factor that makes it a consistantly positive thing is that we are BOTH open to it. I'm not being *done to*, I'm being *done with*.

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RE: Water sports - 1/29/2011 6:41:18 AM

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An interesting how too from a woman about gushing:

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Like in Yoga where one is taught to almost reverse ones breathing pattern, in sex the female needs to control another inbuilt reflex. The building of the 'ejaculation' does feel very much like a desire to pee and as soon as the urethra starts to tingle, second nature kicks in. When squeezed The Pubococcygeus Muscle (try get your tongue around that!), prevents the bladder leaking. It is crucial for your girlfriend to oppose this contraction and actually bear down against it. This is not an easy concept to get your head around because if you bear against the muscle that prevents you peeing, surely that means you do. Not in this instance it seems. Contraction of the muscle in this instance actually stops an orgasm from building; pretty much the same way as squeezing the base of the penis and thinking momentarily of Anne Widdecombe does in men. It does not prevent further ejaculation, just postpones it.

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It actually makes sense from a biological point of view, female ejaculation may have evolved to mark their territory.

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RE: Water sports - 1/29/2011 7:57:26 AM

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OK, as you can probably guess from my name, here, i love it. i much prefer to drink it than be pissed on but both i enjoy.

Why? Who can answer that one? Many folks would not understand a lot of what goes on here. Bondage, pain, submission, etc. As my Mother would say, whatever floats your boat

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RE: Water sports - 1/29/2011 8:13:19 AM

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Well, I don't know what I'll like or won't like unless I have a go and there's not much I wouldn't *have a go* at. Many people have an aversion to all sorts of things, especially scat and blood etc, and in almost all circumstances I would .....but not where HE is concerned.

Basically it's about the way him and I are together, not about what we are actually doing that makes so many things MORE than *alright* and rather something memorable, intimate, special.

I've never, EVER come away from any shared experience with him thinking.....*that was disgusting, I hope it NEVER happens again*.

Nothing we do is one-sided. I might not like everything he's doing at any given time but the overall picture is STILL two people that are engaged in something that results in both of us smiling.

What do I get out him peeing in me or on me? I get a rather tame, mutually shared experience that enhances the way we already feel. I don't feel any great desire to shower, I would be happy to stay covered in his piss. I'd stay covered in his cum or anything else too. I'm not fussy...lol

What can I say?.....doing all manner of things together makes us smile......the biggest factor that makes it a consistantly positive thing is that we are BOTH open to it. I'm not being *done to*, I'm being *done with*.

agirl

Really love what you wrote here, and I relate to all of it. Well put.

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RE: Water sports - 1/29/2011 10:19:30 AM

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Ok here goes. I don't know much about this just what I found on the internet. It tells what and how but, What I want to know is why. What would a sub get from it other than the need to shower. I really want to know.

What? What does anyone get from anything? You might as well ask "Why do people go to DisneyWorld?"

The answer to both is "Because they enjoy it," for a variety of reasons.

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RE: Water sports - 1/29/2011 11:01:32 AM

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Chulain, you fail to miss the question she asked. She wants to know why people enjoy it. And as you can see from reading the response it is well varied on why people like it. Anywhere from humilation, to TPE.

To know the you like something is the first step in the journey. To really understand why you like something is or more importantly why your partner likes somethings is the road to understanding yourself and your parnter.

Grasshopper will learn in time.

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RE: Water sports - 1/29/2011 11:40:15 AM

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Reading the responses, it's clear that we submissives have a variety of reasons for indulging in watersports, from showing obedience regardless of our lack of interest or even distaste for it, to feeling humiliated, to bonding with our dominant, and for other reasons.

I'm in the humiliation camp. I imagine that's part of my hard wiring. Watersports doesn't draw me closer to my domme. Rather, like queening, watersports underscores my subservience and Her dominance. And that works for me. In one relationship, when out to dinner with my domme, she would, on occasion, go off to the ladies' room and return with a glass filled with her pee. While others didn't know what I was drinking, I did and it made me feel humiliated and very owned.

Fallon, as others have said, you'll have to figure out what it all means to you and proceed accordingly.

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RE: Water sports - 1/30/2011 4:15:44 PM

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It's not always about humiliation, though. It's not humiliating for me, at all. It connects us, somehow.

Agreed. It's only humiliating if you think it's humiliating (and I am not being snarky or sarcastic).

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RE: Water sports - 5/6/2011 11:46:20 PM

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I love receiving golden and brown showers.It makes me feel naughty and being humiliated by the lady I'm with is what I find very exciting.

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RE: Water sports - 5/7/2011 7:30:30 AM

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with the guy i've been seeing i quickly found that he was just the right height to apply pressure to my bladder when he was hard. it was lovely having traveled for a couple of hours to see him and then be waiting for the tube with him pressing on my bladder, our play starting before we even got home. from there it progressed to me holding his cock while he pees, or having him cup me with his hand while i go. we have spoken about all different types of things we'd like to do with it all.

one of my most favorite things is for him to sit astride me while he reaches behind to finger me, i play with him and he pushes on my full bladder. the sensation is just wonderful and the added benefit to that is that our beds are in the same position in relation to the window. the light hits him just right and he looks amazing. one time was hugely errotic when i was so desperate to go and he applied so much pressure that i couldn't hold on anymore and let some go. it was only bits at a time but felt like loads. it was great though as my loss of control was totally at his control and feeling myself trickling over his fingers or cock was slightly embarrassing too, but in a very good way.

no 'thing' is ever going to mean the same to anyone, you have to find your own way.

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