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cheekysmile -> RE: D/s Love? (5/4/2006 5:04:39 AM)
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ORIGINAL: composer83
is it possible for real love to develop in a relationship that has been pre-defined in the perameters of a D/s relationship? or, for that matter, in any type of relationship that begins with a certain set or rules or protocol?
well composer83 first id ask if you know the true meaning of love or are you defining it as love = sex or love = adoration, unfortunatly too many people say i love you without finding the true meaning, the word Love is often abused....i have learnt not to say it without actually meaning it, to love someone or something is to adore it with your whole being, not just a word or whim.....now if your meaning Love = sex well thats a different aspect altogether in the begining of a relationship i found to make friends and comunicate your feeling for the person without the word love cropping up, difficult you may ask....hell yes in these days people expect you to say it often....in the film yentle (barbara striesand (spelling) starred in it) she says in one of her songs....do you love me....(please listen to the song its very potent) have you ever turned to your partner and said those words and expected the words back yes....then ask ....why do you love me? now there is where the crux of the word love.....depending on the answer shows if the person knows the real meaning of the word Love.
i may be rattling on here but i personally feel the word Love is overstated....
to start a relationship without love ....yes it can happen and is proven fact, love grows within the heart, soul and mind its not sexaul...
to start a relationship knowing there will be no sex, yes that too can happen and does, it depends on your final goal. but most inportantly there is still love as tho you love a child...obviously (unless thats wat rocks ya boat) you dont have sex with the child..he/she still is loved.
have i said enough??
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