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Awareness -> RE: looking for feedback (1/30/2011 10:47:05 PM)
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Christ.
I'm hard-core on this shit. If you claim to be a Dom, that means having an ethical code worth a damn and holding to it. You, apparently don't have one worth a damn and you're asking strangers on the net to guide you in how to behave.
Face it - you're not a Dom. You're a service top and that's it.
A) Stop pretending to be something you're not.
B) What the fuck are you doing married to a sub who's not subbing to you? That relationship is dead or you two are seriously fucking co-dependent. Ditch it.
C) The husband is an innocent party. However, on the whole, he kinda deserves to know his wife is a cheating whore. Because otherwise, he may continue investing time, emotional effort and money into a woman who's simply not worth it.
Speaking of which, what kind of self-respecting man wants to become emotionally involved with a woman who cheats? You think that shit is isolated to just the husband? If she'll cheat with you, she'll cheat on you. Then again, if you're poly, I guess that doesn't matter.
Frankly, who gives a flying fuck how much ending it would devastate you? The husband has invested far more into this woman than you have. He's invested emotionally and he's married her which means he's now got phenomenal legal liability where she's concerned.
Let's put it this way. From your description, you're weak, spineless, indecisive and selfish. And - given that you were apparently hoping for some kind of validation of your position - phenomenally self-deluding.
The chances of any of this ending well are infinitesimal. Have a nice day.
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