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porcelaine -> RE: From submissive to PIG? (1/28/2011 12:23:55 PM)
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ORIGINAL: SubmProfMale
But I often wonder what it would take for a Mistress to transform me, albeit slowly over time, from an educated, well dressed, professionally employed male submissive into a pig, and whether I could handle it at all.
Greetings SubmProfMale,
The stripping that you've mentioned isn't a foreign concept and is often attractive to those that lead respectable lives who were raised in households where the idea (breeding) was heavily impressed. I'm not suggesting that it speaks of parental influences, but perhaps in an indirect fashion their desire to break free and let loose stems from earlier experiences. As for your question, yes, there are many people that engage in that style of play and it can be very satisfying for all parties involved. The caveat is weeding through ones desires to distinguish the fantastical from the realistic elements that you could put into play on a consistent basis.
While the idea of living in the manner stated may have an immense sexual appeal, are you certain that it is something you would wish to do without constraint or rebuttal? Since you're referencing dehumanization, what happens when you desire intimacy and other aspects of relating that are generally considered "normal?" Are you willing to silence those yearnings to exist in the fashion suggested? Because in all truth that is the reality of what you're proposing and personal preferences are of little consideration. It is rarely the physical aspects that wear on its practitioners, but the mental and emotional ramifications and seeming neglect (as perceived by the recipient) that most cannot endure long term. For these reasons and more many couples bridge the gap and include intentional stimulation (i.e. scraps) that addresses the internal deficits the slave encounters.
Although you may believe you'll never experience that, emotional sadism has a unique way of tearing down barriers and the nakedness can be more intense than anticipated. If you're truly a well adjusted individual that has become accustomed to emoting and receiving the same from your partner, the stark changes could be very disconcerting. In my opinion ones success if often dependent on a stable framework and real transparency on both ends. As such, the dominant acknowledges his need to object, humiliate, and dehumanize his property, but doesn't lose sight of the realities of flesh and the importance of even handed management. On the submissive end, he must be willing to withstand the eruptions and place himself firmly in the care of the dominant party.
This isn't a situation where one can waver or harbor doubts about their partner's capabilities on any level. Trust is paramount. You're traversing the abyss and diving in headfirst with little knowledge of its depths or alterations the experience will bring into fruition. Not knowing is part of the journey and oftentimes its most attractive feature.
Namaste,
~porcelaine
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