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Rochsub2009 -> RE: Online Play? (4/1/2011 5:02:47 AM)
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You asked "Is it worth it?" Well, that's a question that only you can answer. Everyone is different. You've probably noticed that from the replies that you've already received.
You really have to look deep inside YOURSELF to see what it is that you're looking for. This is a topic that has come up many times in the past. So if you do a search, you can find many more comments/opinions on the issue. However, ultimately only your own opinion is going to be relevant.
Personally, I think that on-line is a good way to meet someone, but I prefer to move to real-life as quickly as possible. A D/s relationship that is strictly on-line seems too much like masturbation to me.
I have a friend who has been in a D/s relationship for almost 5 years. She lives in Ohio, and her Dom lives in Germany. They both seem to be happy with the arrangement. But frankly, I have problems with it. The issue that I have is that they have never met face-to-face during the entire 5 years, nor has he given her any indication that he plans to come see her in the foreseeable future. Yet, he forbids her from seeing anyone else. She is in her early 40's now. She was 36 when they got together. IMO, she is wasting valuable years that she could have spent with someone who could actually touch her and spend time with her. But she hasn't complained, so I stay out of it.
So as I said earlier, you have to look within YOURSELF and ask what are you looking for. If on-line can provide that, then you have your answer. If it can't provide that, then you also have your answer.
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