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Good Evening to All - 1/29/2011 10:04:04 PM

bbob9978

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Good Evening! my name is bbob9978 on here, hold over from my online poker days. I am new to the lifestyle, looking to learn and experience as much as I can, the "normal" routine wasn't working for me, so I decided to go for something more, I have always considered myself a bit submissive guy, so any advice or tips or any of that for the new guy sure would be welcome!

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RE: Good Evening to All - 1/29/2011 11:14:06 PM

DarkSteven

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Hi there, bob! Welcome to collarme.

I hope you don't mind some suggestions.

1. Forget all that stuff about there being a thousand sub men for every Domme. While there is an imbalance, I know several unpaired Dommes here on collarme. There are simply a lot of unsuitable men.
2. Tell about yourself. De-emphasize the kink, and play up a relationship. Tell about yourself. I'd suggest something like "I've been a Marine and a supervisor at work. I can handle being in charge, but I'd rather give that control up in a relationship. I'm new to BDSM. I'm looking for a woman that..."
3. Tell what kind of woman you want. Obviously, if you insist on a 22 year old pornstar with an advanced degree, you'll limit yourself, but specify an age range, etc. - whatever is important to you.
4. Women like to talk. So if you can mention in your profile what kinds of topics you like to talk about, you'll speak to their souls.
5. You mention ice hockey in your likes/dislikes list. Then everything else is kink. An exclusive focus on kink is a bit of a red flag to women - they will want to know your outside interests as well.

Welcome again!

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RE: Good Evening to All - 1/29/2011 11:20:04 PM

bbob9978

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Thanks alot for the suggestions, I really had no Idea what to put in a profile here. That will be extremely helpful.

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RE: Good Evening to All - 1/29/2011 11:22:49 PM

DarkSteven

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Don't just take my word for it. Go to the Ask a Mistress forum, and ask for the Dommes there to take a look at your profile and make suggestions. They're friendly folks - they'll do it.

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The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

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RE: Good Evening to All - 1/30/2011 7:41:30 AM

OohAahMrs

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Welcome bbob, is that you in the pic? Like the hat.

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RE: Good Evening to All - 1/30/2011 8:11:52 AM

bbob9978

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Yes it is me in the picture, thanks I love this hat.

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RE: Good Evening to All - 1/30/2011 2:31:04 PM

MistressDelilya

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"poof?"

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RE: Good Evening to All - 1/30/2011 3:08:39 PM

ashjor911

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Welcome

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RE: Good Evening to All - 1/30/2011 8:39:36 PM

tiggerspoohbear

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Welcome to CM and the boards. What Steven said, he's a wise man but don't leave any cookies around, somehow they'll disapear and tell-tale crumbs will be found in his beard.

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RE: Good Evening to All - 1/31/2011 9:05:26 PM

chubbysubbyguy

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Didn't poof, it was brought to my attention that my previous user name looked more like a typo than what it was, so I made some minor changes is all :)

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RE: Good Evening to All - 1/31/2011 9:33:26 PM

MistressDelilya

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Pleased to meet you. Happy hunting.

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RE: Good Evening to All - 2/1/2011 11:55:34 AM

chubbysubbyguy

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Thank you

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