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RE: Ideas to make Master happy? - 3/10/2011 1:15:11 PM

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This, all of it.

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i really want to gain privileges and make Master happy...
i was wondering if any of you guys had ideas on how i can make my Master happy and surprise Him? Not talking about serving, i already do service as part of being His slave... but cute ideas like put ' i love Master' on cookies.... stuff like that... i can't think of many.. wondering if anyone else had creative ideas? If so...please share!!!

Yes. By doing exactly what you are NOT currently doing.

Pay attention.

Asking a bunch of strangers on the internet how to please YOUR master is the laziest fucking thing for any sub to do. The key here is knowing the likes and dislikes of your master and working out what will please him based upon your interaction with him.

Personally, "I love Master" on cookies would make me roll my eyes and wonder how the hell I missed the insipid tendencies of my sub. However your Master may adore it. Your task is to please and to obey and to exert yourself in doing so. It is not to make your life easy by asking someone else for ideas. To me that demonstrates a lack of enthusiasm for the task. It also suggests that your interaction with your master appears superficial. Form rather than function.

To surprise and delight pay attention to the individual you wish to surprise and delight. Only then can you cater to their taste, personality and uniqueness. Anything less is trite.

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RE: Ideas to make Master happy? - 3/10/2011 1:16:34 PM

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One of the things that I have always really enjoyed doing for Master is to learn more about a subject that interests him. He is particularly interested in physics, for example, and that is an area of extreme deficiency for me. One thing that helps me to serve him better is to learn more about subjects that are of interest to him, but not necessarily to me.

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RE: Ideas to make Master happy? - 3/10/2011 1:35:59 PM

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Yes. By doing exactly what you are NOT currently doing. Pay attention.

So you have somehow inferred from this post that the OP is not also paying attention to her master? How'd you get that?

Asking a bunch of strangers on the internet how to please YOUR master is the laziest fucking thing for any sub to do.
Wow really? Gosh and here I had a laundry list in my head of WAY lazier things a sub could do. And, I have to admit that I'm baffled how it is that asking for input from 3rd parties is lazy.

To surprise and delight pay attention to the individual you wish to surprise and delight. Only then can you cater to their taste, personality and uniqueness. Anything less is trite.
Well yeah, sans all the judgmental crap I'd agree with this. I just don't get how seeking additional ideas and/or 3rd party viewpoints constitutes anything other than a dedicated effort to gather additional data.

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RE: Ideas to make Master happy? - 3/18/2011 9:56:33 PM

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Yes. By doing exactly what you are NOT currently doing. Pay attention.

So you have somehow inferred from this post that the OP is not also paying attention to her master? How'd you get that?

Fuck a duck, what head do you use for thinking? She's not paying attention because she doesn't know how to please him. Do you really need the blatantly obvious explained to you?

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Asking a bunch of strangers on the internet how to please YOUR master is the laziest fucking thing for any sub to do.
Wow really? Gosh and here I had a laundry list in my head of WAY lazier things a sub could do. And, I have to admit that I'm baffled how it is that asking for input from 3rd parties is lazy.

Which part of "pay attention" slipped by you? I can only presume you're the kind of person who's happy with a gift certificate over someone taking the time and effort to understand your tastes and buy the exact gift you wanted. This is something women often do far better than men. And those who do are a cut above those who don't.

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To surprise and delight pay attention to the individual you wish to surprise and delight. Only then can you cater to their taste, personality and uniqueness. Anything less is trite.
Well yeah, sans all the judgmental crap I'd agree with this. I just don't get how seeking additional ideas and/or 3rd party viewpoints constitutes anything other than a dedicated effort to gather additional data.

Gather additional data? On what? The tastes of her Master who we know nothing about? Don't be ludicrous, she's trying to come up with ideas without expending any creative energy herself. Generic ideas which come from other people. Oh yeah - that's really special that is. Perhaps she should bake him a cake using a recipe from Random Internet Person X and a frosting from Random Internet Person Y. Nothing quite like random advice to really bring a sense of dedication to an interaction.

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RE: Ideas to make Master happy? - 3/19/2011 12:03:19 AM

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Wow really? Gosh and here I had a laundry list in my head of WAY lazier things a sub could do. And, I have to admit that I'm baffled how it is that asking for input from 3rd parties is lazy.

I'm sorry Jeff, but I happen to agree. And I'll candidly admit I've never felt inclined to do the same for my Owner or any man I've been romantically attached to.

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Well yeah, sans all the judgmental crap I'd agree with this. I just don't get how seeking additional ideas and/or 3rd party viewpoints constitutes anything other than a dedicated effort to gather additional data.

There's something to be said about learning your man. Having generalized answers thrown in your direction doesn't foster the development of this skill. Some people are unwilling to do it because it takes time and intentional effort to become well acquainted. I couldn't fathom an individual I'd rather make the investment in than the one that I serve. But perhaps that isn't a popular opinion.

I don't want YOU to figure it out. I don't want YOU to give me the answers. It's MY job. That's what I signed on for.

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RE: Ideas to make Master happy? - 3/19/2011 12:32:04 AM

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ORIGINAL: lilmisssubmiss

i really want to gain privileges and make Master happy...
i was wondering if any of you guys had ideas on how i can make my Master happy and surprise Him? Not talking about serving, i already do service as part of being His slave... but cute ideas like put ' i love Master' on cookies.... stuff like that... i can't think of many.. wondering if anyone else had creative ideas? If so...please share!!!

I am mostly happy when she is beeing herself. That is why I picked her.
And obeying of course. ;)
Lunch together always made me happy. It one of those moments in the week..where you can nicely relax and talk.
Perhaps I am a bad example...but I don't need much to be happy with a person I care for.

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RE: Ideas to make Master happy? - 3/20/2011 12:45:51 PM

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    One of the best *surprises* I gave my Dominant was a unique birthday gift that he never forgot and requested often times afterwards.......

           He had come over after work to find one of his favorite meals prepared, soft lighting, his favorite music on.........After dinner I took him to the living room and asked him to please join me in the bedroom for his final gift when I called to him. As he waited patiently, I went into the bedroom and fixed him a *subbie sundae* ... whipped creme, chocolate syrup, sprinkles, cherries......and decorated his spread eagle naked submissive........I had even gotten a special candle that was placed upon a "mound" of whipped creme, lighted, that played Happy Birthday!   He was floored and loved it! As I said he requested his special Bday desert often over the next few years........... :)

           < decorating is a bit tricky to do alone but well worth the effort lol>

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RE: Ideas to make Master happy? - 3/20/2011 8:35:57 PM

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Slap him across the face and say "BITCH, IM YOUR MASTER NOW!".
it may not be cute but itd definitely be a surprise

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RE: Ideas to make Master happy? - 3/21/2011 5:05:43 AM

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cookies, all masters like cookies

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RE: Ideas to make Master happy? - 3/22/2011 8:15:47 AM

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Have you tried greeting him at the door in a French Maid outfit complete with high heels followed by sitting him down in the easy chair, turn on a game and then spend time picking things up off the floor that somehow got there and then do a bit of feather dusting down the base boards and leaning over to dust the lamps...then see what he does when you pause in front of him and pick up that feather duster you accidently dropped. Star surprised me with her French maid routine soon after we met and what could I do but be very pleased?

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