cpK69 -> RE: Why do woman nag? (2/5/2011 7:42:13 AM)
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ORIGINAL: Icarys Nobody in my intimate relationships has the authority to look over my shoulder..If I said I'd do it I'll do it..In my time not hers. If I decide not to do it then I don't...It's all up to me..Just the way I like it. A female pushing me to do things usually winds up not getting what she wants. I can appreciate this perspective, having come to the conclusion; being in an intimate relationship with someone does not mean it is my responsibility to try to make them act responsibly. It’s not possible. This way, I only have to concern myself with the affects their choices have on me, and how I’m going to respond; so much simpler. Hunk, In consideration of your specific circumstances, two additional possibilities as to why, came to mind; she is showing concern for your wellbeing; it is a her way of feeling useful. If it were me, before I visited with her I would stock up with lots of topics to discuss, to keep both our minds off my problems, and if she did happen to sense something is wrong, speak as nonspecific as possible. Then again, I might just tell her I'm tierd, or not feeling well and change the subject. Kim
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