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query to fd's about m subs eyes watering during intense... - 2/5/2011 8:40:38 PM

nakedplaything

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if your the type of femm domme that is into harsh, intense domination, - ie the type that would, or may involve humiliation, face slapping, hair pulling, facial manipulation, and generaly anything that is an intense and very realistic form of domination - how would you feel/react if the sub didnt actually cry, but his eyes watered just because of the intensnes of the situation and the domination. would you be able to handle it? would it make you tone it down? would it make you enjoy it even more? just want to know how femm dommes feel about this

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RE: query to fd's about m subs eyes watering during int... - 2/6/2011 2:59:19 AM

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IMHO, in the situation you describe:

Whether it is a physical or emotional reaction, it is still crying.

Just sayin'.

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RE: query to fd's about m subs eyes watering during int... - 2/6/2011 7:34:03 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: dreamerdreaming

IMHO, in the situation you describe:

Whether it is a physical or emotional reaction, it is still crying.

Just sayin'.

This.
The OP seems to feel that being emotional is a female trait as per his other thread, perhaps the premise in this thread is another way to 'force' fem him, ie. make him cry.

OP, I'd recommend you come to terms with what you want and embrace it instead of this push/pull thing you've got going on here. I could be reading way too much into things here but what the heck, this IS a discussion board. It seems as though you are fascinated by certain feminine things and the wanting to be forced thing is your way of being able to do it. Shoot, let yourself cry and cross-dress in hose (as per the other thread), no one else cares and you might be a lot happier.

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RE: query to fd's about m subs eyes watering during int... - 2/6/2011 7:37:58 PM

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I'm just a bit amazed at what he considers to be harsh, intense and REALISTIC Domination ...

I am sure that My insisting a sub scrub out the kitty litter tray with the threat of having to lick it out if he doesn't get it right first time ... or having to peg out My laundry just the way I like it and with matching coloured pegs ... with the threat of writing a 500-word assignment in correct English if he doesn't get it right ... or ... well you get My drift!

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RE: query to fd's about m subs eyes watering during int... - 2/7/2011 12:10:58 AM

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I would enjoy the fact that his response was so totally encompassing. I would probably stroke his cheek and reassure him that he was a lovely little pet.

I would want a written agreement ahead of time though that specified boundaries and expectations. I like to push the envelope, but not ruin it.

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RE: query to fd's about m subs eyes watering during int... - 2/7/2011 10:17:03 PM

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i didnt get your drift. why are you amazed at what i consider harsh realistic domination etc? would you not agree that face slapping and hair pulling are quite harsh and dominant and intense etc? all im saying is that in the 'real' world, ie outwith bdsm, in a genuinely non consensual situation, things like face slapping, hair pulling etc are extremely domianant/dominating things. much more so than just chaining someone up and flogging them.i cant really see how those things could not be seen as dominant, so whats the problem?

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RE: query to fd's about m subs eyes watering during int... - 2/7/2011 10:33:04 PM

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OP, no offense but it's rather pointless to debate what BDSM acts are more or less intense. Degrees of intensity are extremely subjective. If face-slapping is a harsh "punishment" for you, that's all fine and good. Just don't expect droves of BDSMers to agree with you. A quick tour of the floor at a large public play event and you'll quickly realize that play comes in many forms and in many shades of "intensity".

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RE: query to fd's about m subs eyes watering during int... - 2/7/2011 10:43:17 PM

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i meant 'intense' in relation to levels of domination. i think its pretty fair to say that slapping someone on the face is a pretty dominant thing to do. yes, play comes in many shades of intensity, but it also comes in many forms that not all of which are dominant. for example i wouldnt say intense pain is particularly dominating, but thats just my opinion.

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RE: query to fd's about m subs eyes watering during int... - 2/8/2011 1:02:08 AM

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I'm pretty sure you just reinforced my point regarding subjectivity, but then again, "that's just my opinion".

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RE: query to fd's about m subs eyes watering during int... - 2/8/2011 3:21:36 AM

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ThePeripatetic:

you are made of awesomeness.

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RE: query to fd's about m subs eyes watering during int... - 2/8/2011 4:28:11 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: dreamerdreaming

ThePeripatetic:

you are made of awesomeness.

Ahh shucks dreamer. Thanks!

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RE: query to fd's about m subs eyes watering during int... - 2/8/2011 4:58:26 AM

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Just stating the obvious. Also, you have the same initials as toilet paper.

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RE: query to fd's about m subs eyes watering during int... - 2/8/2011 5:20:41 AM

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LMAO. You couldn't just leave it at a nice compliment could ya?

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RE: query to fd's about m subs eyes watering during int... - 2/8/2011 5:36:42 AM

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Nope. Guess not. I'm feelin' all snarkalicious this morning. Prinsexx just made me have an extended giggle fit. So its her fault. What the hell is a peripatetic, anyway? I think you're a closet sadist for making us type that out. I'm sure I'd never choose an excessively long screen name ...

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RE: query to fd's about m subs eyes watering during int... - 2/8/2011 6:17:03 AM

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A peripatetic is a wanderer. I think. Right?

And OP, I've got no idea what you think the difference between eyes watering and crying actually *is*. I'd treat them both the same.

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RE: query to fd's about m subs eyes watering during int... - 2/8/2011 6:33:31 AM

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Dreamer... Not so much a sadist, just a fan of language.

And VaguelyCurious is right on both counts (wanderer and tears).

(FYI - a peripatetic is also a follower of Aristotle. I'm not much of a philosophizer though, just a boy filled w/ wanderlust and an unsatiable sense of adventure)

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RE: query to fd's about m subs eyes watering during int... - 2/9/2011 1:55:57 AM

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Intensity interpretations aside, I like it when a boy I'm playing with cries. It's cute.

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RE: query to fd's about m subs eyes watering during int... - 2/11/2011 1:11:12 PM

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Depends, because I have two sides - the purely dominant, instructive side where you perform duties out of love and respect. Where the punishment tends to be less physical and more through gentle correction.

Then I have the sadistic side where I'd also enjoy giving you a nice hard spanking EITHER as punishment or BECAUSE you enjoyed it. In the Dark Passenger mode, love the tears and the begging and the screaming. So primal, but true.

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RE: query to fd's about m subs eyes watering during int... - 2/11/2011 2:18:08 PM

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Hi people I'm rather new to all of this so if i've misinterpreted anyones responses please be gentle. I am in agreement that eyes watering and crying are the same thing. I think at it's core the question on the table is a simple yet excellent one. I do think that the example used though was a little confusing hence the responses given.
My example would be this:
(to any of the female dominants here) If I was your submissive male and you were using your strap on my virgin ass for the first time and afterward you noticed that although I didnt use a safeword I was visably shaken, trembling slightly with a tear drying on my cheek. HOW would that make you feel? just that. Without subjectivity of this or that, and before we've exchanged a single word. And without it becoming a debate about things like My Mistresses thrust to weight ratio, the size of the tool or the diameter of my anus.
I hope i didnt come off rude just looking for an honest opinion to a straight and simple question. I did like Miss Emery's direct thoughts on the matter. Thanks

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