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It's that time - chastity - 2/11/2011 5:27:35 AM

SomethingCatchy

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I know this subject is beaten to death, but do any of the D types and personable S types have any links, books, or advice for a couple just starting out in chastity? I'm in the market for a device this weekend, but I haven't ever used one and that's a lot of $$ to put on something I may not like with no return policy. Anyone have a specific device they enjoy over others?

I am frustrated. That boy can't seem to keep his hands off of himself unless it's publicly embarrassing for him. If I could walk around diddling myself, then I would, but that's no excuse. It's intolerable and I realize most of it is my fault. He lacks structure to set him right.

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RE: It's that time - chastity - 2/11/2011 5:46:47 AM

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Yes, this subject has certainly had a lot of input. Have you searched through the old threads already? I know there are a lot of women out there who really get into locking their boys up. But I was under the impression it was more of a mind fuck thing than an actual deterrent. If I had a boy who couldn't do what I told him to do without physically restraining him, then I wouldn't be wasting my time with him. He would either grow the fuck up and did what I said or he would find himself playing all alone.

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RE: It's that time - chastity - 2/11/2011 5:52:39 AM

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On the POSITIVE side of it I've finally gotten to the point of wanting the mind fuck. Watching him squirm and be uncomfortable. It's my favorite method of play.

On the NEGATIVE side of it he'd be unable to go against his word.

And I agree with you, mostly. This morning I feel very fed up with him and his inability to do even what he says he'll do without me being there to watch him. I definitely feel a 'you need to grow the fuck up' conversation coming, along with some structure.

Thankfully this is really the only thing I have a problem with. He's improved by leaps and bounds on other problems we've had.

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