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RE: service oriented - 2/15/2011 12:39:24 AM

phoenixmoonn13

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when we win the lottery a a live out completly non sexual service slave who only did the housework washing ironing etc would be a way i could be poly with master. thinks no more ironing dusting hovering.

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RE: service oriented - 2/15/2011 8:45:31 AM

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Along with Victorian households, you may also find some service oriented dynamics from some folks in the leather community. I'm not saying it as a universal standard by any means, however there are some of us who are interested in folks who are considered "in service". These aren't necessarily sexual dynamics, but they give you the opportunity to serve someone while learning about the leather lifestyle.

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RE: service oriented - 2/15/2011 9:56:33 AM

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I've never had a service only dynamic so I may be talking out my ass here. I have never been interested because my interest are more romantic in nature, but I have known people that had service only relationships and I can see them as a wonderful benefit to each person. I've had a difficult time finding a romantic relationship that works for me for many reasons. Many have told me that I needed to get involved with service only relationships and I rejected the idea because it didn't fit the idea of what I wanted. However, I do think more about it because of some people I have known and loved. I can see the benefit, love, companionship, mutual fulfillment of many things, etc. within this dynamic and have come to view it differently than I once did.

I would have to be poly or open to poly though. (Not a problem there except in housing!) I won't give up one thing for another if I can have all I want and am asked to make a choice. I want both. lol

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RE: service oriented - 2/15/2011 7:20:40 PM

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i started as a service submissive i also know of others that have no sexual contact with there slaves. i met my Mistress online at alt so it does happen so be patient and keep your profile upto date and go to local events and munches

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RE: service oriented - 2/15/2011 9:39:56 PM

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I really do wish you would stop saying that. It isn't accurate. The fact that you entered the same chat room that I was in when planning to go to Atlanta that particular weekend wasn't exactly "meeting". There were no emails exchanged, no private chat conducted, etc. Neither of us sought the other one out. You just happened in to the method that I used at the time to confirm plans for going to the club. You know as well as I do that the only reason that I was chatting at all was to talk with people I was already familiar with in the city. Back then, it was the best way to find out who would be at the club the next night.

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RE: service oriented - 2/16/2011 12:01:13 AM

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The best way in my view and this if for those who have well above the basic income, is to search and find a sservive slave orientated to domestic service and probably at least a bloke as well as a sheila to cover internal and external duties and employ them on a work contract which allows them to actually earn a wage for doing what they like and you the levcerage to fire their ass if needs be., Such staff are not involved with kink or sex but need to be sex and kink friendly. makes it far easier from my PoV to import good staff and even sex/kink slavesprovided they are on the domestic payroll (Unless you are single and are bringing a wife).

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