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RE: Real slaves - 2/13/2011 1:14:21 PM

Killerangel

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I think it's improved. Everything there is still all about the one part of you that is the kinky part. I don't know about you but I have more parts to me than just that. How do you spend your leisure time? Do you read, watch tv, listen to music? A relationship is not all spent in the bedroom or on one's knees, there comes a time when you talk to each other. It's nice that you want a long term quality relationship but how will anyone know if they have anything in common with you at all if they can't tell who you are?

Women like to know who a man is. Try reading this, it has excellent suggestions in it. http://www.collarchat.com/m_1717756/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#1717756

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RE: Real slaves - 2/13/2011 1:22:13 PM

lizi

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ORIGINAL: Killerangel

A relationship is not all spent in the bedroom or on one's knees, there comes a time when you talk to each other.

I'd have to agree. I met my partner on here, what drew me to him initially was the sense of his personality that came through on his emails and in his profile. We spend our 2 year anniversary yesterday together doing lots of kinky stuff and then also talking/eating/laughing in between. The day flew by. It's gotta work on all levels. Let people see who you are in your entirety.

Plus you've got to have something in the profile that works as far as something people can strike up a conversation about. In mine I mention that I like to read, I ride motorcycles, and I love to travel. Small things but they give any potentials when I was looking a way to make conversations. The first email from my partner asked amongst other things about my interest in art galleries (I have an art degree and as it turns out, so does he) and football - not a word about kink or sex. Which is why he got the time of day from me. If anyone ever did contact me and all they had in the profile or email was sex or kink I passed them by.

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RE: Real slaves - 2/13/2011 2:03:09 PM

LillyBoPeep

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(only clicked on this to see what FT had to say. haha =p *is a fangirl* can i get big ugly green troll stickers for all my notebooks?)

LOL! lilly, get yer ass down to Hancocks or Hobby Lobby and buy up all the little tongue and lips patches... sew one to every pair of panties you have, because I say so.

LET THERE BE SLURPS!

omigosh! my slaveheart sense is tingling!
heheheheee

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RE: Real slaves - 2/13/2011 3:11:49 PM

MasterLarbirt

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thank you for the input

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RE: Real slaves - 2/14/2011 10:27:29 AM

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To get a real slave you first must be a real master possessing all the required qualities. If you did possess all those stellar qualities, then people would be drawn to you. If they aren't, then it's time to work on yourself.

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RE: Real slaves - 2/14/2011 12:07:38 PM

LillyBoPeep

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Take some lion-taming classes at your local circus. Those pants they were are hot as hell.

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RE: Real slaves - 2/15/2011 9:47:19 AM

Arturas

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Great question MasterLarbirt. I read at least one good answer in the mix and I'll repeat it just cause I'm getting old and repeat things now:

Look for locals online or in lifestyle clubs and in your area. Fetlife does a good job of highlighting local meet and greets based on your zip code and CM now displays a "local users" focused selection.

Find her locally, sale yourself to her then meet her, date her and make her yours.

Arturas

P.S. Get some experience if you don't have any and pick up a book "Save the Roses send me the thorns" on Amazon or the local Hustler store if you want to know the basics and some advanced "Dom theory and practice" just in case you run into a potiential slave girl who wants to test you; trust me they will very quickly, very quickly.

< Message edited by Arturas -- 2/15/2011 9:53:40 AM >

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RE: Real slaves - 2/15/2011 9:57:04 AM

came4U

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Your profile is cool (I didn't see it before you revised it though), Glad to see you have no lil kidlets (mine are grown too and don't want the complications nor to babysitting). Too bad you are so far away though, since I don't plan to head thataway--again.

....and I don't need your money LOL

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