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Mistresses When wearing a Strap~on, how does it make Y... - 5/4/2006 1:21:05 AM   
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Status: offline 		Mistresses When  wearing a Strap~on, how does it make You feel?
 
I'm wondering how much Excitement it gives You!
Does it make You feel Totally in control?
 
Do You ever laugh while using one?
 
Always, Ant

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RE: Mistresses When wearing a Strap~on, how does it ma... - 5/4/2006 2:53:53 AM   
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Mistresses When  wearing a Strap~on, how does it make You feel?
 
I'm wondering how much Excitement it gives You!
Does it make You feel Totally in control?
 
Do You ever laugh while using one?
 
Always, Ant


I've tried to penetrate a guy but it hasn't worked yet.  I still need more experience on that front.  Mine is currently attached but after the surgery I feel no hang ups about wearing a strap on.

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RE: Mistresses When wearing a Strap~on, how does it ma... - 5/4/2006 6:48:30 AM   
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Status: offline 		Ummmmm I feel like I'm wearing a strap on....Laughed while actually using it... no... but Laughed when walking past a mirror and seeing myself in one.... YES!...once walked by a mirror while wearing one with a very Large attachment.... let's just say that the play for the day ended there....and later when I shared the story with some friends they teased me about calling me Mistress Pee's Her Pants.


"Sometimes when I laugh, a little pee comes out".... from a button on my toy bag.

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RE: Mistresses When wearing a Strap~on, how does it ma... - 5/4/2006 1:09:09 PM   
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Status: offline 		Hmmm I wonder if more Mistresses
feel like using one is just
Pure Abuse?

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RE: Mistresses When wearing a Strap~on, how does it ma... - 5/4/2006 5:29:03 PM   
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Hmmm I wonder if more Mistresses
feel like using one is just
Pure Abuse?
Always, Ant
No, not unless he was begging for me to abuse him that way.  
The sensitive anal/colon lining is hardly the place I think of playing rough, but than again I'm an amateur, so ymmv....    M

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RE: Mistresses When wearing a Strap~on, how does it ma... - 5/4/2006 5:45:58 PM   
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ORIGINAL: knees2you
Mistresses When  wearing a Strap~on, how does it make You feel?
 I'm wondering how much Excitement it gives You!
Does it make You feel Totally in control?
 Do You ever laugh while using one?


It made me feel like an idiot.
I derived no excitement out of it.
I didn't much feel in control at all, but more like the sub was in control and I was his tool to fulfill his kinky fetish.
I laughed, but it was more laughing at myself the way kids on a bus laugh at the fat poor kid.
Not a pleasant experience at all and have no intentions on doing it again.

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RE: Mistresses When wearing a Strap~on, how does it ma... - 5/4/2006 6:17:47 PM   
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It made me feel like an idiot.
I derived no excitement out of it.
I didn't much feel in control at all, but more like the sub was in control and I was his tool to fulfill his kinky fetish.
This is where reading, watching, feeling, and learning myself comes in handy.
The only time I imagine feeling like this, is when I've allowed myself to be coerced into something I don't enjoy, but was in the neighborhood of a manipulative person, who's kink I do not share.  For that reason, I find communication and honesty extremely important.

I haven't any issue doing something to my boy he enjoys, as long as it is something I can enjoy on some level.  If it is something that turns me off or makes me feel used/taken advantage of, all bets are off.    M

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RE: Mistresses When wearing a Strap~on, how does it ma... - 5/4/2006 6:27:49 PM   
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You should have used a harness that is made for your pleasure as well....
The make them with an attachment that inserts into the womans vagina as she is wearing it.....  then a more controlling feeling might be achieved, since it is you who would be controlling the tempo based on your own sensations not his...

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RE: Mistresses When wearing a Strap~on, how does it ma... - 5/4/2006 6:37:23 PM   
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ORIGINAL: BlkTallFullfig
This is where reading, watching, feeling, and learning myself comes in handy.
The only time I imagine feeling like this, is when I've allowed myself to be coerced into something I don't enjoy, but was in the neighborhood of a manipulative person, who's kink I do not share.  For that reason, I find communication and honesty extremely important.
I haven't any issue doing something to my boy he enjoys, as long as it is something I can enjoy on some level.  If it is something that turns me off or makes me feel used/taken advantage of, all bets are off.    M


I think my problem is that I am way to willing to try new things. If I've never done something before, and I have the chance to experience it, I usually do it. Not so much that I'm coerced or forced into doing it. It's suggested and I try it. Never did strap-ons (although I did hold an opinion on them), so when the opportunity came up, I tried, and ended up feeling not good at all. Lesson learned.
(I echo a similar statement on the cuckolding thread about how I tried it and it didn't turn out well for me.)

On the good side of the exploratory coin though, I do find lots of things I do enjoy by trying new things. I got hooked on floggers first try, would never give up needle play, and had a hell of a fun time with puppy play. All things that I just decided to up and try one day.

I'll keep trying new things. Some I'll like. Some I'll hate. Some I'll love. I'm convinced that by the time I'm 98 years old, I'll truly be able to turn to the new generation in the scene and say "Well now you young dominant whipper snapper, I've tried it all and I can guarantee you haven't seen the half of it yet!"  lol

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RE: Mistresses When wearing a Strap~on, how does it ma... - 5/4/2006 6:39:40 PM   
Proprietrix


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Proprietrix-
You should have used a harness that is made for your pleasure as well....
The make them with an attachment that inserts into the womans vagina as she is wearing it.....  then a more controlling feeling might be achieved, since it is you who would be controlling the tempo based on your own sensations not his...


lol, thank you for the suggestion. Being as I'm not interested in sex in the first place, that really only would make the experience more annoying.
We ended up in pajamas watching TV and having popcorn, so it all turned out good anyway.  

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RE: Mistresses When wearing a Strap~on, how does it ma... - 5/4/2006 6:49:41 PM   
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RE: Mistresses When wearing a Strap~on, how does it ma... - 5/4/2006 7:34:03 PM   
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exciting.....


I personally love popcorn... and FYI, there are some fun things you can do with it as well.

By the way moon69...  I have the strap-on with the attachments for the female... though I removed the anal one for the female as it just seemed so wrong...  I personally love the feeling of wearing/using a strap-on, though admittedly, anal play is a favorite of mine... especially when it involves pulling down a male's panties and doing as I please.

Yes... I found it amusing to see myself with a toy penis the first time... but as long as it's not a real one that's stuck to me... it's all good.

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RE: Mistresses When wearing a Strap~on, how does it ma... - 5/4/2006 9:59:51 PM   
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I think my problem is that I am way to willing to try new things. If I've never done something before, and I have the chance to experience it, I usually do it. Not so much that I'm coerced or forced into doing it. It's suggested and I try it.
We're a lot alike in that regard, but I can usually process it long enough emotionally before doing it to know if it is something I would enjoy (and why I would enjoy it) before trying it.

quote:

 Never did strap-ons (although I did hold an opinion on them), so when the opportunity came up, I tried, and ended up feeling not good at all
We had the exact opposite experience.   I hated the idea initially, and than I thought how that would be one more way I can show him who's "da man/husband" since I'm looking for a manly slave wife, and it worked for me, LMAO.

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I echo a similar statement on the cuckolding thread about how I tried it and it didn't turn out well for me
I think I know what you mean.  Ideally, a cuck is someone who submits to the fact that I may step out and do another man with his full knowledge because it's my prerogative as the woman to whom he submits.   Unfortunately the way cuckoldry has always been presented to me is from men who want to relate to other men directly or through me, and that has always left me feeling dirty and used as a pawn.   For that reason, I say cuckoldry is a hard limit; being the way I am, probably means I will never engage another intimately, and I don't want to give any guy the hope he will see/help me do another man to get his jollies off.
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On the good side of the exploratory coin though, I do find lots of things I do enjoy by trying new things. I got hooked on floggers first try
I agree on the exploration thing.   The only thing I am hooked on is D/s, or a good connection with someone who is open minded, understands and is servile to me...  Most other things are open to discussion, as long as I can enjoy it.     M

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RE: Mistresses When wearing a Strap~on, how does it ma... - 5/4/2006 11:26:59 PM   
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RE: Mistresses When wearing a Strap~on, how does it ma... - 5/4/2006 11:32:54 PM   
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Manly?
Yes...  The more diginified he looks as a man, the bigger the turn on when I take him...  Twisted, I know, but it doesn't turn me on much if he is in a tacky frilly pink dress.   I haven't tried it with him in an elegant black evening gown yet.    M

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RE: Mistresses When wearing a Strap~on, how does it ma... - 5/4/2006 11:49:32 PM   
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Status: offline 		Anal play including using a strapon is my absolute favorite activity!!  It absolutely does make me feel that I'm in total control (as in "he's not going anywhere!") and gives me a rush of Power!!  I've been told that my whole persona changes like Dr.Jekyl and Mr. Hyde.  I very rarely have to use bondage to restrain a partner unless it's for aesthetics because when I'm "massaging" their male G spot (prostate), it feels good and it turns them into a little slut!!

I'm always curious though as to why a Female would want to use something so uniquely male, like a phallus, in order to get the desired results from her submissive.  I guess it's the humiliation or the homophobic feelings, especially when he's on his knees sucking it before I penetrate him!!

For the Ladies here who haven't tried it for whatever reason, you really should!!  Abso-fuckin'-lutely!!

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RE: Mistresses When wearing a Strap~on, how does it ma... - 5/5/2006 7:35:59 AM   
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Status: offline 		I've used both the thigh harness and the ones that place the phallus over your pubic area -- I have no interest in using the ones that penetrate you while you penetrate someone else.

I really disliked the ones that rested over my own pubic area. Pushing against isn't stimulating to me and because I can get into the pumping action I usually ended up getting bruised by it.

I really liked the thigh harness for two reasons. I have more access to my own sexual organs for my own pleasure and I it made me seem taller in relationship to my partner. In other words I could kiss him or look him in the eyes. Since I tend to be a bit shorter than most of my partners I find this a big plus for me.

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RE: Mistresses When wearing a Strap~on, how does it ma... - 5/5/2006 7:55:21 AM   
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Status: offline 		wellllll now, being only interested in women I am sure the dynamics are way different for me but I love it and so did she. It definately had an impact on the whole "whos the boss" feel of the relationship. And YESS!!!! I sooooooo laughed when I saw myself in it!! Even chuckling now here at my desk at work remembering it. Thank god both she and I had obnoxious senses of humour and it did not ruin the moment at all. Oh lord, the visions of that first time.........trying to avoid laughing out loud here.

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RE: Mistresses When wearing a Strap~on, how does it ma... - 5/5/2006 2:30:28 PM   
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I am new to posting , I saw this thread and couldnt help myself. I am an Trans currently taking Testosterone . Having said that , I have wore a strap-on since I was old enough to buy one , I have mastered using them , there is nothing more satisfying to me than pleasing a woman with them .I dont derive any sense of power out of its use at all rather a sense of giving .

I commend any Mistress wearing a strap-on, that would be down right hot in my eyes !

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RE: Mistresses When wearing a Strap~on, how does it ma... - 5/5/2006 8:48:00 PM   
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me Squeal.
I never had to beg for it, She just Loved
giving it to me~

At first it hurt but then after a week I just
relaxed and let Her do what She loved best!

BLOW Me A KISS Misty

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