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Awareness -> RE: how to get a man's passion back? (2/20/2011 9:05:34 PM)
Sexual fire is derived from sexual polarity. One of you has to be masculine, the other feminine. Without sexual polarity, desire dies in the ass. If he's masculine and you're allegedly dominant, that is simply not going to work. Ever. Work out which one of you is the guy and which one's the chick. If you're both aligned toward one pole or the other then your sexual relationship is doomed.

Iskander -> RE: how to get a man's passion back? (2/21/2011 12:37:07 AM)
Sorry, ignored 3 pages of this thread, but to me your OP said it all, gorgous, good looking, wealth, everything you want, parties.. ra ra ra... Get over the bloody physical, and start exploring the spiritual side of life and each other! Go camping,live it rough where you have to rely on each other, where there are no phones or trinkets to distract, and you can explore each other again! Its not about looks, wealth and belongings! It's about belonging!!!! And that is priceless!! It's not bought with looks nor money, but given freely from heart and soul!! Isk..

ChrisP2175 -> RE: how to get a man's passion back? (2/23/2011 5:50:55 AM)
Putting on my stethoscope for a minute....I missed the part (if you mentioned it) about how old your husband is. The single biggest element of our libido (and yes, more important than the part between our ears) is our testosterone level. I would have that checked before anything else. If it's low, it's easily treated. In my community, there are several physicians whose practices center around "holistic" care, and their biggest seller is supplemental testosterone implants (it's a polyvinyl alcohol/testosterone delivery system injected into the subcutaneous tissue of the forearm). It really does raise your libido like crazy (male or female). You can explore the psychological elements of your marriage ad nauseum. If his testosterone level is low, his sex drive will never ramp back up. Chris

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