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sexyred1 -> RE: Seeking a D/S relationship on a vanilla dating site (2/17/2011 11:00:51 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Prinsexx quote: ORIGINAL: Charles6682 Has anyone ever tried to seek a D/S and TPE type of relationship on a vanilla dating site and found any success? No but I've tried to find a vanilla one. I ended up with one of the kinkiest guys I've ever dated. Seriously. Oh god, me too. Every long term relationship I ever had was found in a vanilla way; never on a kink site.

RCdc -> RE: Seeking a D/S relationship on a vanilla dating site (2/17/2011 11:51:51 AM)
Yes.

RCdc -> RE: Seeking a D/S relationship on a vanilla dating site (2/17/2011 11:53:48 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Nanako I think trying an entirely generic dating site for D/s partners, is a bit silly. The point of collarme is that everyone here has something in common. That doesn't mean that finding such partners on other places is a bad idea, just not generic ones. If you're a geek, make friends on your local computing/tech forum. If you loove animals, look on a pet lover focused site. etc What if you want to date a dominant geek who is hot and kinky who is an animal lover?

leadership527 -> RE: Seeking a D/S relationship on a vanilla dating site (2/17/2011 12:34:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Charles6682 Has anyone ever tried to seek a D/S and TPE type of relationship on a vanilla dating site and found any success? Not me, but I know a female slave that utilized craigslist quite effectively to get collared and married. As I understand it, she relied on clues like "traditional marriage". They communicated clearly enough apparently.

SailingBum -> RE: Seeking a D/S relationship on a vanilla dating site (2/17/2011 12:48:01 PM)
I was just having this conversation with someone. If you can't figure out to meet ppl perhaps your IQ is lower than a worm or retarded. So here is the trick...Get up off your fat ass and do something.... anything. play sports... join a book club get involved in the community jeeze the list is endless. Not only will you be meeting some great folks. The fact that your out and about wil make your ass look less fat. And I have to admit my ass could lose a few lbs as well. BadOne

Sundowner -> RE: Seeking a D/S relationship on a vanilla dating site (2/17/2011 2:17:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RCdc What if you want to date a dominant geek who is hot and kinky who is an animal lover? You called, dearest one?

NocturnalStalker -> RE: Seeking a D/S relationship on a vanilla dating site (2/17/2011 6:47:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Charles6682 Has anyone ever tried to seek a D/S and TPE type of relationship on a vanilla dating site and found any success? I'm currently speaking/dating someone casually that has actually eluded to doing some BDSM stuff. So yes, it is possible and as for success ask me again in a year.

xXsoumisXx -> RE: Seeking a D/S relationship on a vanilla dating site (2/17/2011 8:12:52 PM)
No, but i was found in a vanilla chat room, back in the day.. lol

porcelaine -> RE: Seeking a D/S relationship on a vanilla dating site (2/17/2011 8:50:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Charles6682 Has anyone ever tried to seek a D/S and TPE type of relationship on a vanilla dating site and found any success? Greetings, I've had many in depth discussions with men outside of the Internet that were quite open to engaging with a surrendered woman. Most were taken aback and maintained the strangest looks for a time until they realized it was not a ploy. It isn't something I'd explore without a clear understanding of his affinity for ownership, but I think it's possible to find others open to these relationships that may not identify in the manner we do or prefer to keep their interests private. Namaste, ~porcelaine

auburnvixen -> RE: Seeking a D/S relationship on a vanilla dating site (2/17/2011 9:03:33 PM)
There are a number of kinksters on Plenty of Fish. (I tried OKCupid for a while but that site didn't have enough local people.) I put in my profile that I am into BDSM and am looking for a Dom. I sometimes hear from guys who either don't know what that means, or ignore it - but the kink population percentage of PoF seems to pretty much mirror the kink population percentage of society at large, so I figure that I may as well fish in the bigger pond as well as here.

lizi -> RE: Seeking a D/S relationship on a vanilla dating site (2/17/2011 9:12:54 PM)
I was introduced to D/s by a guy I met on a special interest dating site for people into motorcycle riding. Then I started looking into D/s, BDSM, and I found CM and when my interest in that guy waned I started looking on here and found my present relationship. If I was looking again I'd probably start on here, to me it would be important to have the basic D/s structure in place, but I guess I wouldn't mind trying to find it somewhere else.

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