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What is most important - 5/4/2006 6:13:14 AM   
subash1


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i was wondering what the most important part of the Mistress sub/slave relationship is to most Mistress. i know this is a question, and can have a lot of answers, but i am just curious what a majority of the Mistress would say is most important in Their relationships withe Their sub/slaves.

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RE: What is most important - 5/4/2006 6:15:07 AM   
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my bets is the RELATIONSHIP.

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RE: What is most important - 5/4/2006 6:43:13 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: subash1
i am just curious what a majority of the Mistress would say is most important in Their relationships withe Their sub/slaves.


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RE: What is most important - 5/4/2006 9:14:30 AM   
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For Me.....Honesty and Communication is important in any relationship.


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RE: What is most important - 5/4/2006 9:44:15 AM   
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Another thing is honesty.

Be totally honest with your mistress/master and things will go ok for you that is what i have learnt

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RE: What is most important - 5/4/2006 10:07:04 AM   
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There is the basics that go with any relationship. Trust, honesty, integrity, and communication. I think the OP when he said Dom/sub relationship, he meant to ask what would come after those basics and would apply to the specific dynamics of this specific type of relationship. Or maybe not, but I think that would be an interesting question none the less.


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RE: What is most important - 5/4/2006 11:44:11 AM   
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After the basics...I like submissives who are willing to try most anything.I have limits but not many,so
submissives that are similiar are more fun to play with.

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RE: What is most important - 5/4/2006 5:11:07 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail
my bets is the RELATIONSHIP.
Ron
Perfectly said.
Funny in presentation, but pretty much covers what is important for me.    M

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RE: What is most important - 5/4/2006 5:17:20 PM   
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The entire relationship is important to me, all aspects of it are important, no different than any other relationship.

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RE: What is most important - 5/4/2006 5:30:43 PM   
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For myself (after the basics) its a sense of fun and adventure. The world can be a dark and depressing place filled with evil. My quality time spent in intimate moments with those that I love (or just lust after) is an escape and I want it to be that, like a vacation for the mind, the senses, the body. Refreshing, rejuvenating, relaxing and just fun.

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RE: What is most important - 5/4/2006 5:41:21 PM   
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After the basics (honesty, trust, and all that jazz) the most important part of my M/s relationships is...
"Know your role boy!"
and I'll know mine. 

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RE: What is most important - 5/4/2006 6:51:56 PM   
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Honesty, integrity and loyalty is the important things and a relationship for me.

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RE: What is most important - 5/4/2006 8:08:23 PM   
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Dear Ron,
 
Does it mean "Smart, but nothing true?"
 
Respectfully,
 
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quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

my bets is the RELATIONSHIP.

Ron
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RE: What is most important - 5/4/2006 8:23:52 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: subash1

i was wondering what the most important part of the Mistress sub/slave relationship is to most Mistress. i know this is a question, and can have a lot of answers, but i am just curious what a majority of the Mistress would say is most important in Their relationships withe Their sub/slaves.

Thanks
subash/subash1



After careful consideration, I would have to say the butt.
Smythe


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RE: What is most important - 5/4/2006 8:30:11 PM   
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The emotional bond which only happens with time.

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RE: What is most important - 5/4/2006 8:46:33 PM   
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For me, it's how well both sides of the power exchange feed off each other

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RE: What is most important - 5/4/2006 9:45:10 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Smythe
After careful consideration, I would have to say the butt.
Smythe
Hey we share something there!
I like a nice butt on a guy too; always makes me want to walk up and grab/spank, than I have to stop myself.   M

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RE: What is most important - 5/5/2006 5:34:55 AM   
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The vernacular would be ....

Clever, but not correct.

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RE: What is most important - 5/5/2006 8:03:34 PM   
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Dear Ron,
 
Thanks! It, certainly, illustrates the problems with taking interpretations literally.
 
Cheers!
 
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quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

The vernacular would be ....

Clever, but not correct.

Ron

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RE: What is most important - 5/7/2006 7:18:48 PM   
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Communication, honesty and trust.

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