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money - 2/18/2011 3:17:54 AM

undersoles

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wondering if there are any Dommes here for the lifestyle or are most here only here trying to make money

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RE: money - 2/18/2011 3:27:32 AM

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~edited because you edited yours to a much more pleasing OP

There are many here who are lifestylers and not paid. We have a Mistress section, perhaps taking a read through there might be helpful.

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RE: money - 2/18/2011 4:41:02 AM

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And just to freak you out, there are some who do both!

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RE: money - 2/18/2011 5:26:57 AM

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There's no way to determine "most". I don't have any clue about what the numbers really are (total number of Dommes/how many are lifestyle=percentage) so I wouldn't want to give a figure that was inaccurate. What I can say is yes, there definitely are lifestyle Dommes on the site. Some of us have never made a dime off of anyone.

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RE: money - 2/18/2011 5:37:27 AM

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Some of us have turned down multiple offers of money/trips/cars/etc. We're around.

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RE: money - 2/18/2011 5:58:20 AM

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OP, I just wanted to add something. There are mostly two kinds of Dommes here: those looking for relationships, and those offering pro sessions.

Your profile is aimed for a woman looking for kinky sessions and being worshiped. But there's nothing about what you'd be like outside those sessions - do you like to cook, go to movies, ride horses, etc.?

If you aim for women looking for full relationships, you'll have better luck.

Welcome to collarme.

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RE: money - 2/18/2011 7:26:13 AM

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What DarkSteven said, plus I suggest you add some non-fetishy pictures to your profile.

Welcome!

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RE: money - 2/18/2011 9:36:43 AM

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For 20 bucks I'll send you a list of all the true dommes.

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RE: money - 2/18/2011 9:58:12 AM

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Is there one of these that targets sub men? http://www.submissivewomensecrets.com/

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RE: money - 2/18/2011 10:36:14 AM

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My Domme Miss Cillie Goos is in it for the grapes

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RE: money - 2/18/2011 11:50:24 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: osf

My Domme Miss Cillie Goos is in it for the grapes

*wonders when the Miss Cillie Goos Fan Club will be established*

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RE: money - 2/19/2011 1:15:09 AM

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thank You All for the welcomes

it is nice to hear that not every Domme is here simply for make a fast buck, i was getting kind of getting messages like "i might be interested in you but first before i talk to you, i need a 25.00$ gift gard or send money in my paypal account, to make sure you are real,

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RE: money - 2/19/2011 7:27:14 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: undersoles

thank You All for the welcomes

it is nice to hear that not every Domme is here simply for make a fast buck, i was getting kind of getting messages like "i might be interested in you but first before i talk to you, i need a 25.00$ gift gard or send money in my paypal account, to make sure you are real,

Block. Delete. Move on.

The genuine lifestyle Dommes don't have the time to send out emails much. If they do, it will explain why they liked a post you made or something specific in your profile.

So ya gotta do the initial contacting yourself.

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RE: money - 2/19/2011 9:08:03 AM

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