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Remote control? - 2/18/2011 6:56:38 AM   
hottbbw


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Status: offline 		I need a little help with getting started in remote control. My new "friend" is very into me remote controlling him. I really don't know how to get started but I want to learn. I aim to please and try new things
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RE: Remote control? - 2/18/2011 7:49:35 AM   
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I'm not an "aim to please" kind of Dominant.  I can't help you with that.

The other part is, if I'm telling you how to control your 'friend' which of us is really in control?  Me because I'm the one actually giving the instruction or you because you are attempting to emulate Me?  If the latter is the case, what does your 'friend' really need you for?  All you're really being is the middle man.  Your 'friend' will quickly realize your lack of creativity and find someone who can control them of their own accord.


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RE: Remote control? - 2/18/2011 8:02:02 AM   
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RE: Remote control? - 2/18/2011 8:14:07 AM   
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I agree with LadyP

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RE: Remote control? - 2/18/2011 8:26:09 AM   
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RE: Remote control? - 2/18/2011 8:27:11 AM   
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RE: Remote control? - 2/18/2011 8:29:33 AM   
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RE: Remote control? - 2/18/2011 8:30:22 AM   
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RE: Remote control? - 2/18/2011 8:30:30 AM   
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RE: Remote control? - 2/18/2011 8:42:24 AM   
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Status: offline 		You power up the remote devise and keep it charged with solar devices and the control unit is GPS controlled so distance does not matter. That way you can jerk his or her chain even when they are in the dunny *(Better to flush it when they are sedated and contemplating though.)


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RE: Remote control? - 2/18/2011 1:12:15 PM   
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RE: Remote control? - 2/18/2011 1:30:49 PM   
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Status: offline 		G'day SB mate.... Is that the noise I hear at strange times wafting over pacific duck pond? sounds like a kangaroo with a mixture of bronchitis, being pissed  and having his first smoke for the day.. Been expecting to see lumps of thick yellow mucus mixed with pieces of lungs flying in my direction followed by diesel smoke......Crikey mate if that was your starter maybe you'd best fix the motor or give it a civilized funeral..


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RE: Remote control? - 2/18/2011 5:26:07 PM   
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RE: Remote control? - 2/18/2011 5:32:09 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: hottbbw

I need a little help with getting started in remote control. My new "friend" is very into me remote controlling him. I really don't know how to get started but I want to learn. I aim to please and try new things


That sounds stupid.


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RE: Remote control? - 2/19/2011 6:27:26 AM   
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Status: offline 		I don't understand if you mean you have a long distance relationship and want suggestions of things to tell him to do or if you need advice on how to use objects that have a remote control. Please clarify.

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RE: Remote control? - 2/19/2011 7:42:41 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact
Just a couple of thoughts.

I'm not an "aim to please" kind of Dominant.  I can't help you with that.


Aw heck, a rare occasion I disagree with LP.
Hate to say it, but I am all about being an "aim to please" kind of dominant...course, that is, as long as the person being pleased is Me!


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RE: Remote control? - 2/19/2011 9:05:36 AM   
Nanako


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact
The other part is, if I'm telling you how to control your 'friend' which of us is really in control?  Me because I'm the one actually giving the instruction or you because you are attempting to emulate Me?  If the latter is the case, what does your 'friend' really need you for?  All you're really being is the middle man.  Your 'friend' will quickly realize your lack of creativity and find someone who can control them of their own accord.


Hi miss ^^

I don't think she's looking for step by step instructions here. The OP reads more like looking for general ideas, and she does specifically mention "a little help getting started"

It does seem like we need more information though, as she doesn't mention much about how remote we're talking, or what kinds of control she wants to have.

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