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subtlebutterfly -> RE: Why is my Mistress/Wife behaving like this ? Please advise (2/19/2011 3:44:20 AM)

If you need an advice on this you shouldn't be married in the first place.

and like the rest -

Nice story. :)




cherryunicorn -> RE: Why is my Mistress/Wife behaving like this ? Please advise (2/19/2011 3:52:22 AM)

I would like to give some really bad advice to OP....

One thing you could do ...write a note asking if she has another lover and really wants to end the relationship, give the note to a friend like you did in middle school or highschool, have you wife circle "yes" or 'no'.

Make a fake profile, facebook whatever and strike up a conversation with her and find out her true intentions...when you find out either way...call her out on it and be super dramatic....that should win you some points.

If you ask her to come home and she says no....don't give up, she might say no the first 50 times you ask, but what will she say the 600th time you ask?

Maybe she decided she wants you to dominate her and she wants you to just 'take' her.

lol ;)




RapierFugue -> RE: Why is my Mistress/Wife behaving like this ? Please advise (2/19/2011 4:01:21 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: CuckoldSameh

I'm so sad and extremely shocked that many here think that my story is a fantasy !!!!!!!!!!!!! :((((

I swear EVERY SINGLE WORD I mentioned was TRUE . This is what happened !!!!!!!

Please be serious cause this is a REAL PROBLEM for me that threatens my marriage..........I'm not jerking off on some stupid story like this :((

Please be more mature !!


Hang on, let me get this straight ... you comment on a previous thread where there's a story which almost exactly matches the one you've just posted, and you're claiming your version of events isn't bullshit? And further, you expect us to believe it isn't bullshit?

I think you're going to be very, very disappointed.




Nanako -> RE: Why is my Mistress/Wife behaving like that ? Please advise (2/19/2011 9:09:42 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Lockit

Sounds a lot like this one... http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=3516043


Shall we respond in the same manner you did?

Okay I think I fixed it


He edited that post 23 minutes after posting it, Miss. do you know what it originally said?




Nanako -> RE: Why is my Mistress/Wife behaving like this ? Please advise (2/19/2011 9:15:32 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

Yeah, Otter, I was about to say that this sounds like a cuckold's fantasy.


Forgive if I'm misunderstanding, sir. I thought a lot of the attraction around cuckolding included;
  • The humiliation of being fully aware that it's happening (which her denying it doesn't satisfy)
  • still living with her, but her having sex with other guys.
  • Watching her and other guys doing it, presumably in the marital bed.
  • Helping her do it. Eg, finding other guys for her, helping do her makeup and make her look attractive for them, etc.

I thought the awareness especially, is the most important part. If she's sleeping with other guys and not telling him, it's not cuckolding, it's just an extramarital affair.
I'm not seeing any of these things. This doesn't seem like a cuckolds fantasy to me. It seems like she's just bored of him for whatever reason. (._.)

To the OP: The answer is obvious. Get a divorce, move on, find someone new, perhaps a mistress who actually wants a cuckold husband. And be happy ^__^




hlen5 -> RE: Why is my Mistress/Wife behaving like that ? Please advise (2/19/2011 9:27:22 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Nanako

quote:

ORIGINAL: Lockit

Sounds a lot like this one... http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=3516043


Shall we respond in the same manner you did?

Okay I think I fixed it


He edited that post 23 minutes after posting it, Miss. do you know what it originally said?



There is a time limit on how long you can edit a post. His original post on the first thread happened on New Year's Eve. I don't think Lockit could remember the original post verbatim.

EFTypos.




Killerangel -> RE: Why is my Mistress/Wife behaving like this ? Please advise (2/19/2011 10:24:57 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: CuckoldSameh

I'm so sad and extremely shocked that many here think that my story is a fantasy !!!!!!!!!!!!! :((((

I swear EVERY SINGLE WORD I mentioned was TRUE . This is what happened !!!!!!!

Please be serious cause this is a REAL PROBLEM for me that threatens my marriage..........I'm not jerking off on some stupid story like this :((

Please be more mature !!


Ok, if we believe that the story in this thread is the 'real' one then what about the guy in the other thread who posted the same story and did it first? Please explain that and you can't use the phrase 'time travel'....

Hilarious. I love this place  [:D]




OttersSwim -> RE: Why is my Mistress/Wife behaving like this ? Please advise (2/19/2011 10:44:09 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Killerangel

quote:

ORIGINAL: CuckoldSameh

I'm so sad and extremely shocked that many here think that my story is a fantasy !!!!!!!!!!!!! :((((

I swear EVERY SINGLE WORD I mentioned was TRUE . This is what happened !!!!!!!

Please be serious cause this is a REAL PROBLEM for me that threatens my marriage..........I'm not jerking off on some stupid story like this :((

Please be more mature !!


Ok, if we believe that the story in this thread is the 'real' one then what about the guy in the other thread who posted the same story and did it first? Please explain that and you can't use the phrase 'time travel'....

Hilarious. I love this place  [:D]


How about the phrase "Slingshot around the sun..."?  [;)]




Whiplashsmile4 -> RE: Why is my Mistress/Wife behaving like that ? Please advise (2/19/2011 10:57:01 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Lockit

Sounds a lot like this one... http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=3516043


Shall we respond in the same manner you did?

Okay I think I fixed it








Wow... so similar in nature...




Missokyst -> RE: Why is my Mistress/Wife behaving like this ? Please advise (2/19/2011 11:17:45 AM)

Count me confused. I will admit to being out of the loop of the mindset of a cuck.. but isn't the deal to be denied sex?
As a female I would probably opt out of a relationship where my mate wished me to indulge my sexuality with someone other than himself. It might be that she considered your needs to be cucked and decided it was not for her.
Perhaps you can clarify what it means for you to be cucked?




Prinsexx -> RE: Why is my Mistress/Wife behaving like this ? Please advise (2/19/2011 1:30:54 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Killerangel

quote:

ORIGINAL: CuckoldSameh

I'm so sad and extremely shocked that many here think that my story is a fantasy !!!!!!!!!!!!! :((((

I swear EVERY SINGLE WORD I mentioned was TRUE . This is what happened !!!!!!!

Please be serious cause this is a REAL PROBLEM for me that threatens my marriage..........I'm not jerking off on some stupid story like this :((

Please be more mature !!


Ok, if we believe that the story in this thread is the 'real' one then what about the guy in the other thread who posted the same story and did it first? Please explain that and you can't use the phrase 'time travel'....

Hilarious. I love this place  [:D]

Identity theft?




ExSteelAgain -> RE: Why is my Mistress/Wife behaving like this ? Please advise (2/19/2011 2:41:06 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: CuckoldSameh
She said that she was at the sea side again .


I can get you a good deal on a condo time share at the beach.




Prinsexx -> RE: Why is my Mistress/Wife behaving like this ? Please advise (2/19/2011 5:13:27 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: CuckoldSameh

isPlease note that my story is a real story and I need a real and serious advice .

I would like to tell you my story with my wife and ask for your advice .

We got married 2 years ago after dating for only 3 months . We are in a D/s relationship , my wife is the dominant one . But when I suggested cuckolding to her , she said she was never interested .

Few months ago , I noticed some changes in her behavior . She started to be more reluctant to have sex with me ( we used to have sex daily , but then it became once a week or every 2 weeks ) . All the time she started to say she was tired , etc .

I also noticed she started to go out and stays overnight out of home . She would leave home on Friday for example and comes back home on Monday . She never wanted to tell where she was . Always says that she was with friends , but she never wanted to let me know who are these friends !!

When we had sex , she prevented me from coming inside her , and always ordered me to cum on her belly . Then to lick my own cum ( this was very new , she didn't ask for this before !! ) .

I asked her several times if she has a lover , and she always denied .

I was shocked 3 weeks ago when she disappeared . She left home without any argument or any problem between us and didn't answer phone calls . After 3 days she called me and told me that she was ok , but she doesn't want to live with me anymore !!!
She said that she was in the sea side with some friends .

Then , she wrote me a long email telling me that she was not happy with me and that she wanted divorce .

I asked her to come home so we would sit and talk .

We met 3 days ago in a cafe close to home . She kept insisting that she wanted divorce , and told me that she doesn't feel in love with me anymore .

I talked to her , and at the end we agreed that we'll stay married , but we'll not live together . She'll stay where she was ( didn't tell me where she was staying ) and I'll stay home .

We would go out dating from time to time and see if we get closer again .

She came with me home , took most of her clothes and left . And what's strange was that she kissed me deeply , but she didn't want to go further .

I called her today to see how is she doing . She said that she was at the sea side again .

She again denied to be with any man , but insisted on being with friends .

So , this was my story . I need your advice about this .

First , do you think that she has a lover ? And if yes , why do you think she doesn't want to admit ?

2nd , Do you think that she'll really divorce me as she said first ?

3rd , what should I do to bring her closer to me again ? Do you think there is a hope ? Or should I just accept to divorce her ?

Please advise me honestly and seriously . I'm very confused .



Still sounds like married life to me.






SweetDommes -> RE: Why is my Mistress/Wife behaving like this ? Please advise (2/20/2011 12:00:05 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: CuckoldSameh

I'm so sad and extremely shocked that many here think that my story is a fantasy !!!!!!!!!!!!! :((((

I swear EVERY SINGLE WORD I mentioned was TRUE . This is what happened !!!!!!!

Please be serious cause this is a REAL PROBLEM for me that threatens my marriage..........I'm not jerking off on some stupid story like this :((

Please be more mature !!


1 - Wow ... WE need to be more mature??? with that many "frowns" on your "sad faces"??? *gigglesnort*

2 - We know for a fact that you know of the exact same "story" from another person - plagarism is frowned upon

3 - Being shocked when people decide that you're full of shit after a posting like yours, is like punching a wall and being shocked that it hurts.

Really ... if I knew where you were, I'd send you a quarter so you could buy a clue.

P.S. if you aren't completely full of shit, see the first part of my reply to you. Be a man, and let her go - it's over.




Highlandsub -> RE: Why is my Mistress/Wife behaving like this ? Please advise (2/20/2011 9:38:51 AM)

So....Sameh....Hows this thread working out for ya?????




CalifChick -> RE: Why is my Mistress/Wife behaving like this ? Please advise (2/20/2011 9:48:03 AM)

Dude, let me give you some free advice.  Really, no charge at all.

When you post a story and then make up another profile to compliment yourself, don't come back later under that second profile and repost your story as truth.  We have good memories, as you can see.

What would have been smarter would have been to come back under the first name and say it was real and you really need advice. 

Someone needs to give a class called "multiple personality posting disorder and the management thereof".

Cali




tiggerspoohbear -> RE: Why is my Mistress/Wife behaving like this ? Please advise (2/20/2011 2:36:17 PM)

I call *cough*bullshit*cough*.  Now wasn't that easy since it's so close to the first thread that was linked?  Bejeeezus, time for you to learn that we do have long memories and it'll come back to haunt you when you least expect it.  Karma's a bitch and she'll bite you in the ass every time. 




FukinTroll -> RE: Why is my Mistress/Wife behaving like this ? Please advise (2/22/2011 11:11:17 PM)

Sounds to me like she got out of there lickety split.

Hmmm... maybe lickety split is the issue here.

Hmmm... she may come back one day for a deposit.




BlackTigerDragon -> RE: Why is my Mistress/Wife behaving like this ? Please advise (2/23/2011 12:44:56 AM)

Cool story bro!




LicketySlick -> RE: Why is my Mistress/Wife behaving like this ? Please advise (2/23/2011 11:28:06 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: FukinTroll

Hmmm... maybe lickety split is the issue here.

Hmmm... she may come back one day for a deposit.





You called?

LS




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