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RE: I have a complaint that needs addressed. - 5/4/2006 11:25:41 AM

kittensmailbox

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Well at least he is honest in His profile.... i do admire that... i DO respond to all emails and would be honest as well... You have a wife, big "no no" for me, i did that once before, NEVER again... ALSO, {for myself} i tend to trust ppl easier if they post a photo....

{side note} any spelling or grammar errors, i do apologize

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RE: I have a complaint that needs addressed. - 5/4/2006 11:29:30 AM

DelRey

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No shit ?

You joined a little over a week ago and they still arn't falling at your feet ?

WTF is this site coming to ?

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RE: I have a complaint that needs addressed. - 5/4/2006 11:37:43 AM

Phoenixandnika

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People are here for alot of reasons and NOONE is obligated to do anything.People do not respond to emails for various reasons.

Now as far as your profile this is my imput and opinion.

Use spell check and grammar check or make sure your grammar is correct. Your profile is very hard to understand because of this.
"Am married" - This may turn many people off simply because they will not get involved with someone is married period. However, you leave alot of questions with that statement. Does your wife know about your lifestyle? Is she involved in and how?
"I am more into a 24/7 BDSM some Gorean-D/s. " I am not exactly sure what this statement means. Perhaps if you where more specific about the various things that you where into or looking for rather than simply using general labels. Also you say your "into" 24/7. So are you looking for a poly relationship?A live in submissive/slave?
"Do not want a robot, but not an independent girl either. "
I am not sure what you mean by this statement. In my eyes this statement is simply confusing.
You stated several times you beleived in BDSM D/s 24/7 this can be seen as repetative and in my opinion does not state very much about you, what your looking for, or into.
"I am a serious Master, and can train you online till you are able to relocate here. So write Me, and let Me know what your limits, desires are, and if you will relocate later after W/we talk. " I have to ask this. Do you truly expect a woman to move / relocate to you after you have only spoken online?I also think many will be turned off by the statement " I can train you online".

Good luck and Blessed Be,

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RE: I have a complaint that needs addressed. - 5/4/2006 11:42:28 AM

Lordandmaster

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I'm not a safety nazi. I'm a he-shouldn't-fucking-complain-so-much-in-the-first-week-of-his-membership-and-while-you're-at-it-please-don't-abuse-the-beautiful-English-language nazi.

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ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji

Maybe he would. Don't judge his kinks. If he hate lied to, that's his problem, not yours.

Damn safety nazis.

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RE: I have a complaint that needs addressed. - 5/4/2006 11:49:04 AM

kittensmailbox

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DelRey, i do not think that there is any reason for you to be rude... The man was asking for advise...

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RE: I have a complaint that needs addressed. - 5/4/2006 12:10:30 PM

Phoenixandnika

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I don't think he is being rude.
Sarcastic perhaps but that is his right just as it is is the OPs right to make his orginal post.

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RE: I have a complaint that needs addressed. - 5/4/2006 12:11:47 PM

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Looks like you've already made some changes, so I'm speaking of what's left of your profile. For me personally it's quite generic and a bit cold. I don't find in reading it, that I know anything about who you are, what you stand for or what you're all about. I know precious little more than a few mismatched facts.

What is your life all about? What are your values? What is an ordinary day like for you? What do you like/love most in life? What brings you joy? Fill in the gaps a bit and make your arms and your home sound like a warm loving place to be and I'm sure you will get responses.

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RE: I have a complaint that needs addressed. - 5/4/2006 12:19:38 PM

JohnWarren

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quote:

ORIGINAL: TNstepsout

Looks like you've already made some changes, so I'm speaking of what's left of your profile. For me personally it's quite generic and a bit cold. I don't find in reading it, that I know anything about who you are, what you stand for or what you're all about. I know precious little more than a few mismatched facts.

What is your life all about? What are your values? What is an ordinary day like for you? What do you like/love most in life? What brings you joy? Fill in the gaps a bit and make your arms and your home sound like a warm loving place to be and I'm sure you will get responses.

He might also add what his wife thinks about this. If he has her permission (and will allow a prospective submissive to confirm it) he has a lot better chance than someone who is just looking to cheat.

I'll also suggest losing the W/we stuff. It just screams online "expert."

Speaking of expert: how does one get to be an expert in "shopping?"

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RE: I have a complaint that needs addressed. - 5/4/2006 12:21:11 PM

tade

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I've found the best way to talk with people is by actually conversing, not simply sending out a bunch of messages to any woman fitting a particular bill. Don't get me wrong, late night fishing can be a blast...but seriously. This is a good step, responding to forums, interacting with the various people on this site. Other than that there are always the "Bondage Datelines...Find PUSSY in your town TONIGHT!!" sites if that's what you are swinging for. Most women don't just throw themselves at you becuase you have a profile and an open internet connection. Just my opinion.

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RE: I have a complaint that needs addressed. - 5/4/2006 12:51:08 PM

Wulfchyld

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I am going to pat benji on the head and say good boy.

OP. there is chat rooms and the forums. Make yourself public and interesting and see what happens. In the read only realm you are going to have to seduce the mind.

Respectively

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RE: I have a complaint that needs addressed. - 5/4/2006 1:56:34 PM

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quote:

Speaking of expert: how does one get to be an expert in "shopping?"

Tenacity and American Express Blue. It also helps if you live down the street from Mall of America. ;)

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RE: I have a complaint that needs addressed. - 5/4/2006 1:58:38 PM

mnottertail

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Hey BT, I see they are trying to sucker us outta $200Mill to expand again.
Snoopy must have a hell of a crack habit.
Ron

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RE: I have a complaint that needs addressed. - 5/4/2006 2:03:35 PM

BitaTruble

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Didn't you hear, Ron? They got rid of Snoopy! Bastards.

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RE: I have a complaint that needs addressed. - 5/4/2006 2:04:06 PM

mnottertail

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I am sure that you have perused the many profiles and chat threads here that attest to the fact that snaggin' 'em is easy...

However; I believe the address you are looking for is:

Consumer Affairs
attn: Betty Furness
P.O. Drawer 16D
Washington, D. C. 20056

Ron

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RE: I have a complaint that needs addressed. - 5/4/2006 2:07:22 PM

mnottertail

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Well..............

Fuck them guys, I'm going hooooooooooommmmmmmmmmmmmmmeeee

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RE: I have a complaint that needs addressed. - 5/4/2006 2:33:04 PM

KatyLied

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Why can't they remove them, and let Us Master(resses) know this, and not waste our time?

Possibly because the world doesn't revolve around you-you-you

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RE: I have a complaint that needs addressed. - 5/4/2006 2:44:19 PM

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He's profile is missing completely now.

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RE: I have a complaint that needs addressed. - 5/4/2006 2:46:56 PM

mnottertail

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Well, after toiling in this sewer for 16 days, and coming up empty...I guess he was just worn out. It is sad to note his passing................

Ron

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RE: I have a complaint that needs addressed. - 5/4/2006 2:46:57 PM

Phoenixandnika

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He will be back in a week or less in another nick making the same complaints.

*shrugs thinking no one wants to play with me so I am going to pack my toys and go home!*

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RE: I have a complaint that needs addressed. - 5/4/2006 4:08:24 PM

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It appears to me that he did make a genuine effort to better himself by soliciting help from others here, which IMHO is ALWAYS a good thing. The simple fact is that it's too bad there aren't more folks as equally inclined as this fellow. Therefore, we shouldn't be so quick in rushing to judgment and/or talking in a disrespectful tone to anyone wishing to learn and improve their position in life, and particularly this lifestyle. I need not point out we all were newcomers at some point, and highly probable a reasonable learning curve to go with it.

And to the OP, if in fact you are still lurking about; Just be yourself, all else will work out as it should if you are honest and sincere.

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