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Anyone who buys BDSM toys online... - 2/21/2011 8:58:12 AM

ChubbyCamSlave

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...how do the toys come?

Simply put, I'm unfortunate. I live at home, and want to buy some toys, but can't have a box labeled "ExtremeRestraints.com" or "Stockroom.com" showing up at my door step. I'm usually home during the day since I work late nights, but typically, UPS or Fed-Ex comes down to deliver on my street late. Usually between 5-7PM, when I'm already at work.

Anyone buy off of Amazon.com? Does anything bought from Amazon ship in one of those Amazon boxes I see a lot?

Also, I was considering just going down to the post office and renting out a PO Box, but for the most part, sites won't ship to a PO Box.

So basically, after a long post of me rambling on, I need to discreetly buy sex toys online. How should I go about doing it?

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RE: Anyone who buys BDSM toys online... - 2/21/2011 9:49:03 AM

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They come in the smallest possible unmarked brown box that they can.

I once ordered a buttplug, prostate stimulator, and a pair of cuffs. It all came in a box the same size as the one amazon uses for dvds/games/cds

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RE: Anyone who buys BDSM toys online... - 2/21/2011 10:17:47 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ChubbyCamSlave

...how do the toys come?

Simply put, I'm unfortunate. I live at home, and want to buy some toys, but can't have a box labeled "ExtremeRestraints.com" or "Stockroom.com" showing up at my door step. I'm usually home during the day since I work late nights, but typically, UPS or Fed-Ex comes down to deliver on my street late. Usually between 5-7PM, when I'm already at work.

Anyone buy off of Amazon.com? Does anything bought from Amazon ship in one of those Amazon boxes I see a lot?

Also, I was considering just going down to the post office and renting out a PO Box, but for the most part, sites won't ship to a PO Box.

So basically, after a long post of me rambling on, I need to discreetly buy sex toys online. How should I go about doing it?

Neither ExtremeRestaints.com nor Stockroom.com list that as the sender.
From: http://www.extremerestraints.com/information/shipping/shipping-information.html :
"We respect your privacy. All orders from XR are shipped in plain packaging using the return address "XR LLC"."
From http://stockroom.com/general/info_desk/policies/privacy/ :
"Confidentiality is a cornerstone of our business. Stockroom.com is committed to respecting and protecting the privacy of its clients.
All orders from JT's Stockroom are shipped in plain packaging using a return address of "Shipping Manager." "

Most people feel the same way you do and vendors respect and cater to that. They will list their privacy practices as it relates to their shipping somewhere on their sites.

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RE: Anyone who buys BDSM toys online... - 2/21/2011 11:31:38 AM

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I just received one last week from an online site, forgot the name. the box was brown, return address said something vague. My teen age kids asked what was in the box, I said diet pills, took to my bedroom and they were non the wiser, till the lights started to flicker, just kidding. Tell your houseguests that it is for enducing enemas, they won't want to know any more.
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RE: Anyone who buys BDSM toys online... - 2/21/2011 11:41:13 AM

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Hi I send out my products in plain brown box with my address. If I send across borders, I use vague terms.Most companies use a non sex store method as they know this is something most shoppers want. Discretion, Privacy, No Spam.
If in doubt check out their privacy statement and their shipping FAQ they should give you some idea of what to expect.
Also email them if you are in doubt. If they have good customer service they will make sure its discreet.

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RE: Anyone who buys BDSM toys online... - 2/21/2011 5:07:52 PM

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You might consider get a PO box from the post office. They are fairly cheap.

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RE: Anyone who buys BDSM toys online... - 2/21/2011 7:10:06 PM

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many places don't deliver to P.O. boxes (which the OP acknowledges) -- no worries, they ship to you in discreet brown boxes, and have aliases that appear on your billing statements. ^_^ no worries

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RE: Anyone who buys BDSM toys online... - 2/21/2011 7:24:58 PM

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Hi, OP, I checked your profile to see if you're in Canada; you're in luck if you're in the States, so you won't have to worry about cross-border shopping and Customs weasels pawing through your toys and clothes, and marking up your parcel with opened and external contents lists and big yellow sticky CHECKED tape.

Other than that [eyeroll], I agree, the packaging and billing from Extreme Restraints and Babeland are very discreet.

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RE: Anyone who buys BDSM toys online... - 3/23/2011 4:18:07 AM

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As other people have mentioned you should have no problems ordering from any online store. They ALL ship in discrete packaging... If you really are nervous you can get a box at the UPS store fairly cheaply and have your packages delivered there. Don't get one at the post office, as they don't accept shipments from other carriers besides the USPS.

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RE: Anyone who buys BDSM toys online... - 3/23/2011 8:06:35 AM

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If you are buying internationally, customs requires a form be completed. What's in it? "Adult Toys". Ain't no hiding then! Depending on where you are (I didn't look), your stuff can be confiscated. You still have to pay for the stuff and the postage despite getting nothing but headaches.

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RE: Anyone who buys BDSM toys online... - 3/23/2011 8:58:24 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LillyBoPeep
many places don't deliver to P.O. boxes (which the OP acknowledges) -- no worries, they ship to you in discreet brown boxes, and have aliases that appear on your billing statements. ^_^ no worries

That's why you use a mail box service such as MBE.

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RE: Anyone who buys BDSM toys online... - 3/24/2011 7:05:51 AM

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What the heck is a MBE? And can it bypass customs? Enquiring minds...

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