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Disappointment - 2/21/2011 10:54:15 AM

MistressTilly

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Hi, I'm Mistress Tilly
I only joined a few minutes ago and have already received 2 nasty messages... not welcoming at all

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RE: Disappointment - 2/21/2011 10:56:25 AM

LaTigresse

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Welcome and as for the messages..........get used to it!

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RE: Disappointment - 2/21/2011 10:58:59 AM

MistressTilly

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Thank you
I see ..... like that here is it? hmmm

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RE: Disappointment - 2/21/2011 10:59:16 AM

LadyPact

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Welcome to the forums.

Unfortunately, new members (particularly women) do get a lot of crap in email during the time that they are a 'new user'. There will be some folks who will take advantage of you not knowing much about the reporting system or your lack of desire to use it since you're new.

If it's crap, block the person who sent it to you and report it by using one of the options through the mail system.

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RE: Disappointment - 2/21/2011 11:01:42 AM

kalikshama

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As a Mistress with a new profile, you will get lots of junk initially. The delete, block, report spam, and filters features will help.

Welcome!

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RE: Disappointment - 2/21/2011 11:01:56 AM

subtlebutterfly

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Welcome. Your profile is kind of a trash-magnet and here is no lack of trash.
Just sayin

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RE: Disappointment - 2/21/2011 11:05:34 AM

MistressTilly

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I see, ok thanks for the replies... will see how it goes then

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RE: Disappointment - 2/21/2011 11:11:08 AM

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RE: Disappointment - 2/21/2011 11:12:26 AM

MistressTilly

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lol thanks for that

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RE: Disappointment - 2/21/2011 11:23:40 AM

DarkSteven

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Well, MistressTilly, I looked at your profile and you seem to have no respect for others in it....

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RE: Disappointment - 2/21/2011 11:26:20 AM

MistressTilly

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Maybe it was worded wrong..... but i'm hardly gonna be all warm and cuddly looking for people who want to be humilated and abused

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RE: Disappointment - 2/21/2011 11:37:22 AM

ashjor911

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Welcome To CM
just saying
not all of us looking for people who want to be humilated and abused
your own fingers are not the same
again
Welcome To CM

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RE: Disappointment - 2/21/2011 11:42:50 AM

Madame4a

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Granny used to say... you get more flies with honey than vinegar...

but she also used to say... you see the damnedest things when you don't have a gun

good luck..

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RE: Disappointment - 2/21/2011 1:44:44 PM

lizi

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In your profile you are looking for people who fit a certain type. The people reading your profile are seeing a certain type as well, the type that they write nasty things to. If you don't want the nasty email then you should probably change things in your profile. It's a little strange to be disappointed when you place an ad on Craig's list selling a car and then people who are interested in buying cars respond to the ad.

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RE: Disappointment - 2/21/2011 1:47:18 PM

sexyred1

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressTilly

Hi, I'm Mistress Tilly
I only joined a few minutes ago and have already received 2 nasty messages... not welcoming at all

You only received 2 nasty messages?

Wait....

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RE: Disappointment - 2/21/2011 2:18:33 PM

angelikaJ

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressTilly

Maybe it was worded wrong..... but i'm hardly gonna be all warm and cuddly looking for people who want to be humilated and abused

Then you could simply list yourself as a pro-Domme who specialises in humiliation.

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RE: Disappointment - 2/21/2011 4:11:19 PM

sirsholly

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressTilly

Hi, I'm Mistress Tilly
I only joined a few minutes ago and have already received 2 nasty messages... not welcoming at all

after reading your profile, i would say you can expect many more messages like the first two.

Your profile is rather rude, so people will respond in kind.

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RE: Disappointment - 2/21/2011 6:25:49 PM

Delilya

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Good luck in your search and consider yourself lucky you only got 2.

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RE: Disappointment - 2/22/2011 4:10:29 AM

tiggerspoohbear

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Welcome to the wacky world of CM. As was stated Anjelika. you can use much nicer (??) language than being rude. Count yourself lucky that you've only received 2 so far. We as women here are used to receiving such messages even when we're saying thanks but no thanks. Some people don't take kindly to rejection and just have to let you know. Use the tools made available within the Cmail system. It's a good thing, as Martha would say.