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mark555123 -> Looking for someone real (2/21/2011 4:04:57 PM)

Hi,

I'm 44y/o and relatively new to the dating scene again. I'm looking for someone real. No games. Does the internet actually bring people together?? Time will tell. I'm not looking for sex, but sexuality/ sensuality and intimacy. If you want to chat, please send me a message.

Mark



poise -> RE: Looking for someone real (2/21/2011 4:08:42 PM)

Welcome to Collarme, Mark. I'm sure you will enjoy your time here.
While the internet may not be the best way to meet others with similar interests,
there are many relationships that have been formed on this site.
You may also be interested in attended some local meetings/events in your area.
Here is a good place to search for those. http://www.drkdesyre.com/index.htm



Delilya -> RE: Looking for someone real (2/21/2011 6:27:58 PM)

Best of luck to you.



Phoenixpower -> RE: Looking for someone real (2/21/2011 6:36:35 PM)

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oceanwynds2 -> RE: Looking for someone real (2/21/2011 6:43:28 PM)

Welcome
There are 'real' people as well as what i guess are not 'real'. I know what it is like entering the dating field after a long time. What has helped me was not to have high expectations, and just go with the flow. I feel we get what we give out in this world. It also is good to pace yourself and not be in a hurry.




HisManegirl -> RE: Looking for someone real (2/21/2011 7:06:44 PM)

Welcome, I met my Dom on the Internet yrs ago, not this one. But a lot of people have good experiences on the Internet. I am sure you will meet some very nice people. Just take what you like and leave the rest!



sirsholly -> RE: Looking for someone real (2/21/2011 7:08:52 PM)


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tazzygirl -> RE: Looking for someone real (2/21/2011 9:52:06 PM)


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And good luck!



myotherself -> RE: Looking for someone real (2/21/2011 11:34:41 PM)

Hiya OP, and welcome!

The good news is that you CAN find a partner on the internet.

I did.

The bad news is that it can take a loooong time - in my case 8 years in total (on 3 different kink sites).

I also go to local kink events, but there's a serious dearth of 40-something single male sadistic doms in my area who also go to events, sadly!

I wish you patience and luck [:D]



tiggerspoohbear -> RE: Looking for someone real (2/22/2011 3:53:04 AM)

Welcome to CM and the boards.  Most people on this side are very real.  I've met 5 Dominants through the internet.  For various reasons, things didn't work out, but I did take away some good things from those relationships.  Good luck in your search, be patient and trust your gut instinct.  



OohAahMrs -> RE: Looking for someone real (2/22/2011 5:01:51 AM)

Welcome mark, yes, the internet will really bring people together, but you must really want to come together, like nothing will get in your way, kind of approach!



ashjor911 -> RE: Looking for someone real (2/22/2011 7:27:40 AM)

Welcome To CM



MaamJay -> RE: Looking for someone real (2/22/2011 8:12:10 PM)

Welcome Mark - yes it can and does happen, but patience is critical! Hang around the message boards and you will soon identify lots of genuine folks. The profiles side is a bit hit and miss, but most of the idiots are kind enough to plant big red flags in their profiles which makes it easier! If you're not sure about red flags, just ask a question if you can't find it already using the search (top right corner above the flags there!).

Good luck!
Maam Jay aka violet[A]



Party1999 -> RE: Looking for someone real (2/22/2011 10:12:43 PM)

You have to be very patient and take everything lightly. I always remember that it takes a few seconds to type out messages on here to someone back and forth... Versus, actually going somewhere, engaging face to face. In some ways i have found online to be a great place to break the ice and get to know people....but there are so many face to face aspects that are missing.



VideoAdminTheta -> RE: Looking for someone real (2/23/2011 2:29:16 PM)

If your post was removed, it was because you were responding to posts that required removal. When you know in your heart of hearts that a post is going to be removed, it would be helpful if you didn't respond to the degree you all did on this thread.

Thank you



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