RE: you fantasise about it, it arouses you, you experience it in reality, and it doesnt - why?

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DMFParadox -> RE: you fantasise about it, it arouses you, you experience it in reality, and it doesnt - why? (2/24/2011 2:21:10 AM)
Fitness can have a lot to do with it. Sometimes your body just hasn't been maintained well enough to do what your brain wants to do with it.

KeepMeUnderneath -> RE: you fantasise about it, it arouses you, you experience it in reality, and it doesnt - why? (2/25/2011 3:54:10 PM)
Maybe because you maturbated to it and allready blew there was no sexual feelings left to be had because you allready, released?

txurinal -> RE: you fantasise about it, it arouses you, you experience it in reality, and it doesnt - why? (2/26/2011 12:05:14 PM)
i have fantasized about certain things and then once i actually experienced them, found them to be a great experience. i have many fantasies and some i admit are rather bizarre. Still, i would like to be able to try some of them at least once just to see if reality was as good or better

XenoMaster -> RE: you fantasise about it, it arouses you, you experience it in reality, and it doesnt - why? (3/2/2011 8:36:29 PM)
A perfect (though non-kink) example of an elaborate fantasy not living up to reality: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ppKd2m6pzQ8

LPslittleclip -> RE: you fantasies about it, it arouses you, you experience it in reality, and it doesnt - why? (3/2/2011 8:59:26 PM)
i enjoy living out the desires of my Mistress i do not have many preconceived ideas on my service my fantasies are brought out by what my Mistress desires to do. the thinghs that arouse my Mistress now arouse me as well so i live my desires as they are my Mistress as well

SlaveSubtoserve -> RE: you fantasies about it, it arouses you, you experience it in reality, and it doesnt - why? (3/4/2011 6:46:34 PM)
my best ones are to live out Her fantasies= sometimes fun and fireworks, sometimes not....

WinsomeDefiance -> RE: you fantasise about it, it arouses you, you experience it in reality, and it doesnt - why? (3/5/2011 4:00:32 PM)
Someone needs a time out - that's my current fantasy...corner time for naughty bitter, reformed submissives.

StrongSpirit -> RE: you fantasise about it, it arouses you, you experience it in reality, and it doesnt - why? (3/5/2011 6:38:57 PM)
When you fantasise about something you are getting of on the idea of it happening, not it actually happening. It is not just pain, but other things as well. Think of "The Shawshank Redemption". Now that is a great movie. I absolutely loved the scene when he crawls through the sewer. Would I want to do it in real life? NO. God no. Same with almost all adventure stories. Real life adventures are dirty, painful, uncomfortable activities. But they sure are fun to read about. Reality is not fiction. There are tons of great stories that would be hell to live through, but are great to imagine. What holds for reading about in books also holds for kinky fantasises. I myself have some pretty hard core pain fantasise - but I don't do anything stronger than a spanking in real life. I have found that spanking is the harshest pain that I actually enjoy delivering. But it doesn't stop me from thinking, fantasising, or writing about much stronger stuff.

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