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RE: COMMON COURTESY - 2/24/2011 9:56:35 AM   
JstAnotherSub


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ORIGINAL: SexyBossyBBW

This is why I don't love the ability to see if one's read an email, or the deleted unread capability.   It usually makes slightly crazy people very angry.    M


Thus letting us have one more red flag to run from......win/win I think-lol.

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RE: COMMON COURTESY - 2/24/2011 10:00:44 AM   
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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

Attention People of Earth:

From now on, everytime someone comes to the forums to whine about why everyone is so rude, you will be automatically zapped and sent up to Anna, High Commander of the lizard nation of V and also a kick ass Domme.

She will then send your sorry ass to be either food or breeding material.

And then all your problems will be solved, because no one, NO ONE, is as rude as Anna.




OH dear god no, don't let them breed!!!!

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RE: COMMON COURTESY - 2/24/2011 10:21:25 AM   
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ORIGINAL: HypnoDron

Why is it so had for people to give even just a short reply back to someone who has taken his/her time to contact them.
Do people not know that we can find out whether or not you have read a message the we had sent them?

This is what deters me from these online sites. People are just so damn RUDE.



Well....there are a few possibilities here....

Either....

Your attempt at conversation was bordering on ridiculous, and if your OP is anything to go by then he/she has a point. He/she may just have thought better of engaging you in anything.

or....

The lad/lass thought.....life's too short to be beholden to a stranger who thinks he deserves a reply because in his head he's the king of the world and should not, under any circumstances, be ignored.

I would go with this: your time is important you, but the rest of the world has absolutely no interest in how you spend your leisure time so the world places no value upon it, which in turn means you're owed nothing.

One man's rude is another man's avoidance for very good reasons.



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RE: COMMON COURTESY - 2/24/2011 10:32:06 AM   
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ORIGINAL: HypnoDron

Why is it so had for people to give even just a short reply back to someone who has taken his/her time to contact them.

Show a little bit of courtesy people and reply back to someone who has taken the time to write to you. I've had lots of people read my messages and just ignor me in the hopes that I'll go away. Or that I'm not there quote RIGHT MATERIAL of a sub/slave.


The other 2 things are that quite often after reading a message they will at least glance at the person's profile.
It is very, very clear that your wants will fit a very very small group of what people are looking for.

Some people will not answer solely based upon the lack of mesh.
Other people who read your message; check your profile will refuse to respond because there will have been a relevant bit of information within their profile that you ignored when you opted to message them that made it clear they would not be at all interested in you to begin with.

In the end, however, it does not matter why someone did not respond.
They sent a message just the same.

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RE: COMMON COURTESY - 2/24/2011 10:50:53 AM   
CalifChick


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Status: offline 		Dear Califchick: Do you want to get to know me? Joe

Checks profile, absolutely blank. Considers not responding at all, because she knows better.

Dear Joe: I really can't answer that. Your profile is blank. I know nothing about you. Cali

Dear Califchick: Well what do you want to know? Joe

::facepalm::

Tries to maintain civility, although notices that Joe did not pay attention to her closing "signature" and once again called her by her screenname. Also notices that Joe has not read her journals, since somewhere back there in the dawn of time she wrote a rant about people saying "what do you want to know".

Dear Joe: You asked ME if I wanted to get to know you better. I have no idea if I want to get to know you better, since your profile is blank there is nothing there to spark ANYONE'S interest. Contrast that to my profile, which has many journal entries and a completed profile. Cali

Dear Califchick: We're a perfect match, I think we should meet. Joe

::doublefacepalm::

Dear Joe: Thank you for your interest but I think I'm going to have to pass at this time. Cali

Dear Califchick: FAT BITCHES LIKE YOU WILL AWAYS BE ALONE. WHY DONT YOU JUST JUMP OFF A BRIDGE AND DO US ALL A FAVOR. Joe

::sigh::

And that, dear readers, is why we don't answer mail from someone we're not interested in.

Cali

(the name in this exchange changed to protect the terminally stupid)



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RE: COMMON COURTESY - 2/24/2011 11:06:42 AM   
SweetDommes


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Status: offline 		I'm going to third what SexyBossyBBW and Cali said - if we respond, even with a "thanks but no thanks" often times, we get either bombarded with cmails begging us to reconsider, or blasted with insults and profanity.

I expect people to read my profile (got one the other day who obviously didn't ... made me twitchy with the desire for a 'zap' button on my keyboard), and if we are obviously incompatable, to not bother messaging me.

I'm also going to second what Holly said - if your OP is an indication of the 'care' that you take with your intro cmails, I'd delete you without replying as well. I take a lot of time and effort with my profile, and my cmails/emails, and my postings on this side to insure that there are few to no typos (I don't catch them all, of course, but I try) - someone who can't take the time to be coherent in an intro message? No thanks, I prefer submissives who will put some time and effort into me ...

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RE: COMMON COURTESY - 2/24/2011 11:19:24 AM   
gungadin09


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Status: offline 		Oh, dear. OP, i just read your profile, and i must say it's one of the most self serving that i've ever seen.

Let me get this straight. You're a "slave", right? And yet...

You're looking for a person who will do to you exactly what you want done.

You won't respond to anyone who doesn't read your whole profile.

You are looking for friends/partners in North Carolina. No, scratch that, in Florida. No, in North Carolina again, but only in the Winston-Salem/Greensboro area.

You want a roommate who will do extreme bondage on you while you "help" out with power/water/trash/cable, and maybe kick in something for room and board.

You desire someone who will turn you into a drone, but only by the standards that YOU think will work.

You want a Domme who will devote herself to helping with "your endeavor" (hypnosis is listed as your only fetish), but only if She's seriously able to do it, and real, instead of a fake or scammer or pro-Domme. Oh, i forgot, Someone with common courtesy who doesn't rudely ignore your emails.

Notwithstanding everything that was previously mentioned, you state that you want to be "transformed into a hyponotised drone, with all traces of humanity wiped from my mind and reprogrammed to Your liking", Someone who will erase your identity and transform you into an obedient slave.

Firstly, i know now why no one's writing you back. You are condescending and rude, not to mention the fact that you seem to have this *extraordinary* sense of entitlement. And you are looking for Someone who will exclusively cater to your (one) fetish.

Secondly, it's hard to imagine anyone with less potential to be an obedient slave or drone. OP, you are all ME, ME, ME.

pam

< Message edited by gungadin09 -- 2/24/2011 11:32:23 AM >

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RE: COMMON COURTESY - 2/24/2011 11:22:06 AM   
sexyred1


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quote:

ORIGINAL: windchymes


quote:

ORIGINAL: sexyred1

Attention People of Earth:

From now on, everytime someone comes to the forums to whine about why everyone is so rude, you will be automatically zapped and sent up to Anna, High Commander of the lizard nation of V and also a kick ass Domme.

She will then send your sorry ass to be either food or breeding material.

And then all your problems will be solved, because no one, NO ONE, is as rude as Anna.




OH dear god no, don't let them breed!!!!


Well, since they are only utilizing earth males with extraordinary DNA, then that won't be a problem, even when crossed with lizard DNA.


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RE: COMMON COURTESY - 2/24/2011 11:23:18 AM   
PixieFatale


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quote:

ORIGINAL: CalifChick

Dear Califchick: Do you want to get to know me? Joe

Checks profile, absolutely blank. Considers not responding at all, because she knows better.

Dear Joe: I really can't answer that. Your profile is blank. I know nothing about you. Cali

Dear Califchick: Well what do you want to know? Joe

::facepalm::

Tries to maintain civility, although notices that Joe did not pay attention to her closing "signature" and once again called her by her screenname. Also notices that Joe has not read her journals, since somewhere back there in the dawn of time she wrote a rant about people saying "what do you want to know".

Dear Joe: You asked ME if I wanted to get to know you better. I have no idea if I want to get to know you better, since your profile is blank there is nothing there to spark ANYONE'S interest. Contrast that to my profile, which has many journal entries and a completed profile. Cali

Dear Califchick: We're a perfect match, I think we should meet. Joe

::doublefacepalm::

Dear Joe: Thank you for your interest but I think I'm going to have to pass at this time. Cali

Dear Califchick: FAT BITCHES LIKE YOU WILL AWAYS BE ALONE. WHY DONT YOU JUST JUMP OFF A BRIDGE AND DO US ALL A FAVOR. Joe

::sigh::

And that, dear readers, is why we don't answer mail from someone we're not interested in.

Cali

(the name in this exchange changed to protect the terminally stupid)




Aww, lovely. LOL

I have something similar... Notice how clear it is on my profile that I'm not looking for play partners? Some guy told me to 'get the fuck out of this site' and to 'leave my place to someone who deserves to be on here'!

People and their sense of entitlement...

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RE: COMMON COURTESY - 2/24/2011 11:24:17 AM   
PixieFatale


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ORIGINAL: gungadin09

Oh, dear. OP, i just read your profile, and i must say it's one of the most self serving that i've ever seen.

Let me get this straight. You're a "slave", right? And yet...

You're looking for a person who will do to you exactly what you want done.

You won't respond to anyone who doesn't read your whole profile.

You are looking for friends/partners in North Carolina. No, scratch that, in Florida. No, in North Carolina again, but only in the Winston-Salem/Greensboro area.

You want a roommate who will do extreme bondage on you while you "help" out with power/water/trash/cable, and maybe kick in something for room and board.

You desire someone who will turn you into a drone, but only by the standards that YOU think will work.

You want a Domme who will devote herself to helping with "your endeavor" (hypnosis is listed as your only fetish), but only if She's seriously able to do it, and real, instead of a fake or scammer. Oh, i forgot, Someone with common courtesy who doesn't rudely ignore your emails.

Notwithstanding everything that was previously mentioned, you state that you want to be "transformed into a hyponotised drone, with all traces of humanity wiped from my mind and reprogrammed to Your liking", Someone who will erase your identity and transform you into an obedient slave.

Firstly, i know now why no one's writing you back. You are condescending and rude, not to mention the fact that you seem to have this *extraordinary* sense of entitlement. And you are looking for Someone who will exclusively cater to your (one) fetish.

Secondly, it's hard to imagine anyone with less potential to be an obedient slave or drone. OP, you are all ME, ME, ME.

pam


It's 'Topping from the bottom'. I hate it.

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RE: COMMON COURTESY - 2/24/2011 11:32:38 AM   
DesertSuperRat


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Status: offline 		No answer is an answer. Duh. If you can't wrap your brain around that, then you're just telegraphing another of the several reasons why you are unsuitable. If you don't like the way people behave at this site, then you should absent yourself from the proceedings. How in the heck did you ever make it to 40 without figuring things out and acting like a mature man? I know...you're not. Well, fake it till ya make it.

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RE: COMMON COURTESY - 2/24/2011 11:40:55 AM   
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Status: offline 		Another bitching topic that will make it to three or more pages of replies.  Nothing gets me more excited than that.

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RE: COMMON COURTESY - 2/24/2011 11:42:32 AM   
gungadin09


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ORIGINAL: PixieFatale
It's 'Topping from the bottom'. I hate it.


(to the OP:)
Well, i don't *hate* it. i just think it's extraordinarily unlikely that you will find Someone who's willing to cater to your list of demands. You are free to keep looking. Knock yourself out. But you would do much better not to run around calling people names and blaming *them* when you can't find what you want.

pam


< Message edited by gungadin09 -- 2/24/2011 11:43:24 AM >

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RE: COMMON COURTESY - 2/24/2011 11:47:09 AM   
DesertSuperRat


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ORIGINAL: JstAnotherSub
quote:

ORIGINAL: SexyBossyBBW
This is why I don't love the ability to see if one's read an email, or the deleted unread capability.   It usually makes slightly crazy people very angry.    M

Thus letting us have one more red flag to run from......win/win I think-lol.

I agree. I recently had an experience similar to that of many subs/slaves here. I informed a local woman that no, I was not interested, and, prior to being blocked, received a vile and venomous response that included wishing me an early death. Quite a hoot, actually.

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RE: COMMON COURTESY - 2/24/2011 2:25:42 PM   
RCdc


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ORIGINAL: NocturnalStalker

Another bitching topic that will make it to three or more pages of replies.  Nothing gets me more excited than that.


What.
Not even FT's slurping gets you more excited?!


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RE: COMMON COURTESY - 2/24/2011 2:40:15 PM   
FukinTroll


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ORIGINAL: RCdc


quote:

ORIGINAL: NocturnalStalker

Another bitching topic that will make it to three or more pages of replies.  Nothing gets me more excited than that.


What.
Not even FT's slurping gets you more excited?!



Well fuk-a-diddle. It's one thing for everyone to know that and leave me blissfully ignorant, but to slap me with it is just fukin mean. I am calling the Trollmane society yew evil fucker.

SLURP!


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RE: COMMON COURTESY - 2/24/2011 2:43:07 PM   
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ORIGINAL: RCdc


quote:

ORIGINAL: NocturnalStalker

Another bitching topic that will make it to three or more pages of replies.  Nothing gets me more excited than that.


What.
Not even FT's slurping gets you more excited?!




After this it is a toss between the sexual harassment of FukinTroll and your posts.

Insert seductive wink.


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RE: COMMON COURTESY - 2/24/2011 2:45:31 PM   
FukinTroll


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ORIGINAL: HypnoDron

Why is it so had for people to give even just a short reply back to someone who has taken his/her time to contact them.
Do people not know that we can find out whether or not you have read a message the we had sent them?

This is what deters me from these online sites. People are just so damn RUDE.
Show a little bit of courtesy people and reply back to someone who has taken the time to write to you. I've had lots of people read my messages and just ignor me in the hopes that I'll go away. Or that I'm not there quote RIGHT MATERIAL of a sub/slave. Well you know it goes both ways. If at a future time you deside to read your messages from others in the hopes that you'll grab a hit. Well for me if I recognize your name...I won't respond back to your reply just as you haven't with mine. It goes both ways people communication is a key factor. Even if it is a 1 word response that is a response.


Not everyone has a Cap'n Crunch secret decoder ring.

Besides, I get loads of mail that I ignore. I have very specific interest and if fucking you up the ass is one you're after, I am going to ignore you... bad match... hard limit... move on. Why go to prom with the bitch if you can't fuck her after?  When the potetntial prom date drops a line she knows my response is, yep, when the waltz is over yer gettin fucked good and proper.

YMMV


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RE: COMMON COURTESY - 2/24/2011 2:50:40 PM   
FukinTroll


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ORIGINAL: CalifChick

Dear Califchick: Do you want to get to know me? Joe



Damn it! It was in the divorce decree that you could use no part of our relationship in a public forum/arena!

And you know what tomorrow is... the judge said alimony, I said pussy, you said deal. So come get the check and wear the pink panties.
SLURP!


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RE: COMMON COURTESY - 2/24/2011 3:06:42 PM   
kalikshama


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Is it really that hard to find a person who will do the things to me that I am wanting to have done to me?

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