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RE: From the news a real sitting - 2/28/2011 4:48:10 AM

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You are 51 and still not sure how to get laid? Good luck with that.

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RE: From the news a real sitting - 2/28/2011 5:06:49 AM

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51?????? HVAD FOR I HELVEDE OP?!

Go find a pro domina. There're plenty of ethnicities in Denmark other than white, you should know it, you live there. I'm also quite sure you can find a pro dominant there.

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RE: From the news a real sitting - 2/28/2011 5:28:56 AM

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ORIGINAL: subtlebutterfly
Go find a pro domina.

You mean you can't just order up a dominant ethnic bottom with fries and a coke to go??????

Do you really expect someone to invest TIME and EFFORT into forming some kind of personal connection with the above order to go (minus the fries and coke)????

Isn't offering a submissive(?) face enough to entice a domme (can't use the word 'woman' because that would humanize the whole thing)????

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RE: From the news a real sitting - 3/1/2011 10:51:28 AM

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SexyBossyBBW,

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Perfect! Very kind reply (all of the above are good responses too), but you literally gave him the baby steps to take, before he can walk this way.

Thank you. :-) We both noticed responses from Steven, Otters, and others. I kinda' repackaged those while adding a few thoughts. 'Twas not my intent to intensify the lynching though. The OP didn't introduce himself in a great way and he's certainly getting a lashing here. I do wonder how someone who has (ostensibly) lived as long as the OP has didn't apply garden variety social grace. But, we've all committed social blunders.

When I was new to BDSM, I certainly made more than a few mis-steps while introducing myself and others with much more experience than I committed plenty of blunders too. There's an evil spell that tends to throw almost everyone for a loop at one time or another: "Wee! I've found BDSM-land! I can explore limitless kinky ideas and fun! Let's get it on! Who wants to get naked with me?" As with many things in life, interacting with real people is quite different from the free flow of our imaginations.

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RE: From the news a real sitting - 3/1/2011 11:11:28 AM

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dude, you're going to have to get to know a person as a person. are you legitimately interested in women of other ethnicities as PEOPLE, or just as asses for you to get under? i have a feeling your list also includes brazillians. =p you're probably operating off some assumption about these types of women based on fetishistic views of parts of their bodies. there are plenty of ethnic women who DON'T have that magical ethnic ass that you're after.

tell people something about yourself BESIDES your obsession with facesitting. i'm not even going to look at your profile but i imagine i know what it's like. get some photos of yourself up there; or photos of ANYTHING that aren't pertaining to your fetish. tell people about who you are, what makes you interesting, what you want out of life, etc. check the boxes next to some "vanilla" interests. you have to be a whole person AND be interested in relating to someone else as a whole person, too; or be willing to fork over the dough to find a pro who'll take your cash and sit on your face to your heart's content. i've gathered from this thread that you're from Denmark, and i dunno what the "ethnic" population is there, but a pro is probably your best bet because i doubt you're going to take any of the advice you've received and really think about it.

but if you do, remember -- MOST PEOPLE OBJECT TO BEING FETISHIZED. get to know a person as a whole person; see if you have complementary kinks, don't just message every chick you see ad nauseum, hoping to drag one in. go about this how you'd go about dating anyone. be polite, be reasonable, be a decent human being.

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RE: From the news a real sitting - 3/1/2011 11:44:50 AM

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LillyBoPeep,

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but if you do, remember -- MOST PEOPLE OBJECT TO BEING FETISHIZED. get to know a person as a whole person; see if you have complementary kinks, don't just message every chick you see ad nauseum, hoping to drag one in. go about this how you'd go about dating anyone. be polite, be reasonable, be a decent human being.

Shush. You talk too much... about artsy stuff... exploring old buildings... gardening... hiking... et al. Once you've sat on a few faces, you'll find the enlightenment you seek.

(Being serious now. You've got a brilliant profile and the sign-off is endearing: "i really enjoy talking to people who can stimulate my brain in a totally 'vanilla' way, not just a kinky way". There's a lovely breadth and many glimpses of who you are. Wonderfully done. :-)

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RE: From the news a real sitting - 3/1/2011 12:02:43 PM

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that is very nice of you to say Elan =) thank you
(and yes, i did misspell "ad nauseam" =p)

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RE: From the news a real sitting - 3/1/2011 12:21:11 PM

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LillyBoPeep,

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that is very nice of you to say Elan =) thank you

You're most welcome.

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(and yes, i did misspell "ad nauseam" =p)

The mistake is totally understandable. The fact you noticed it and corrected it, well... this makes you a wordsmith and that's off-the-scale sexy. You do know proper use of a semicolon could get you into trouble? Some of us swoon over such things. Of course, *I* would never know such a person or fraternize with this kind of company. No. Never. :-)

Edited to add... okay. I just looked at your journal. "In some ways, I believe blind faith might be a little too passive for me; I believe in someone because he's given me reasons why i can believe in him." Your writing skills wear well on you. Your thoughts wear well on you too. Your entire profile... words, the quality and quantity of your thoughts, handle, pictures... everything... it all works. This is how to write a profile. Bravo.

Elan.

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